Let's talk about the exes

DonJuanit0

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Guys, I have been so many times in this position where I am meeting a new woman who has some AFC dude still chasing her from the past. This is not like it happened to me once and it has probably happened to everyone here, when I find a new woman I want to be with, have a LTR or even just ****, there is a guy sending messages, threatening her, bother her and staff! Why do we, as men, don't understand when our facking princess is in another castle and stop busting her balls?

The woman I am now with, had this guy who learnt about us so he sent her a message saying: I know everything, for your own safety don't let me see you outside, I will find you bla bla bla and some swearing! Now, this was not the first time for me to face this but since this girl is only 20 years old I told her the simplest thing, he is threatening you via facebook, you can simply go to the police, what she did was going to her father! lol! And hee was pissed, A LOT! He called him on his phone and told him that he would find him himself before going to the police for what he wrote to his daughter! Anyway, the guy never sent any other message and he apologised to her father. Did it really have to get there for him to stop?

What I want to say to you guys, is that if you see your ex getting with someone else, don't become a wuss and a creep! I get it if you want to try once more and staff, and I am ok with it, but when the woman says it's over for good and doesn't want you back then walk away, especially if she is with someone else now! I know it's been told several times here but not from this position! I am tired "fighting" with exes! Seriously!
 

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Sometimes it could work in your advantage. It could make you look even better if she sees you are not phased by a crazy ex.
 

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DonJuanit0 said:
Guys, I have been so many times in this position where I am meeting a new woman who has some AFC dude still chasing her from the past. This is not like it happened to me once and it has probably happened to everyone here, when I find a new woman I want to be with, have a LTR or even just ****, there is a guy sending messages, threatening her, bother her and staff! Why do we, as men, don't understand when our facking princess is in another castle and stop busting her balls?

The woman I am now with, had this guy who learnt about us so he sent her a message saying: I know everything, for your own safety don't let me see you outside, I will find you bla bla bla and some swearing! Now, this was not the first time for me to face this but since this girl is only 20 years old I told her the simplest thing, he is threatening you via facebook, you can simply go to the police, what she did was going to her father! lol! And hee was pissed, A LOT! He called him on his phone and told him that he would find him himself before going to the police for what he wrote to his daughter! Anyway, the guy never sent any other message and he apologised to her father. Did it really have to get there for him to stop?

What I want to say to you guys, is that if you see your ex getting with someone else, don't become a wuss and a creep! I get it if you want to try once more and staff, and I am ok with it, but when the woman says it's over for good and doesn't want you back then walk away, especially if she is with someone else now! I know it's been told several times here but not from this position! I am tired "fighting" with exes! Seriously!
probably cos as soon as your back is turned she's giving the other afc the green signals? i don't know.
 

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sylvester the cat said:
probably cos as soon as your back is turned she's giving the other afc the green signals? i don't know.
Certainly not since this girl really wanted to get rid of this guy! I know that for sure!

Groverz said:
Sometimes it could work in your advantage. It could make you look even better if she sees you are not phased by a crazy ex.
I know, and I know how to handle it, the thing is it is getting annoying since this has happened too many times!
 

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DonJuanit0 said:
when the woman says it's over for good and doesn't want you back then walk away
When does this happen? Ive never had a woman say to me 'Im not interested/Its over. Go away.' Its always phrased as an aloof excuse or flake at best. God it would be great if they were that direct.
 

At this point you probably have a woman (or multiple women) chasing you around, calling you all the time, wanting to be with you. So let's talk about how to KEEP a woman interested in you once you have her. This is BIG! There is nothing worse than getting dumped by a woman that you really, really like.

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DonJuanit0

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DragonBlood said:
When does this happen? Ive never had a woman say to me 'Im not interested/Its over. Go away.' Its always phrased as an aloof excuse or flake at best. God it would be great if they were that direct.
Well, I had some being THAT direct even in front of me to their exes and they just wouldn't stop lol!
 

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i honestly think its nice guy syndrome and self-esteem. your self-esteem is horrible so you think you must have done something wrong so you endlessly chase the first piece of tail to come your way and get stuck on her.

its sad and men really shouldnt fall for it but we do. everyone on this site has done it Im sure.
 

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There are too many AFCs to count and I think we've all been in this position before.

It's a learning experience.

And some AFCs are still learning time and time again. It's like a vicious cycle.

Just be happy that you're on the outside looking in. A lot of them just can't understand it. And those who do understand it can't man up and change their ways--even more pathetic.

This doesn't really affect us at all. If anything it makes our lives easier with women. They know who to go to when they need a real man and they know who to go to when they need a tampon.

Be happy you can see all this.
 

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fuzzball said:
i honestly think its nice guy syndrome and self-esteem. your self-esteem is horrible so you think you must have done something wrong so you endlessly chase the first piece of tail to come your way and get stuck on her.

its sad and men really shouldnt fall for it but we do. everyone on this site has done it Im sure.
yeap yeap
 
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