So anyway, its the day after prom and i'm pretty damn tried. Just woke up a couple minutes ago with a strange buzz in my head. Recollecting thoughts of last night's interesting turn of events, I sigh.
Lets start. It was around noon and a friend came over to my house. We chilled and figured out plans for the night. We were going to go eat at a barbecue but decided to go to eat at a restaurent instead. So we chilled for a bit, watched some TV and talked. Around 4, i went to pick up my corsage and then we went to my friends barbecue without our dates. We talked, ate a little bit of food and left after about half an hour. We went back to our houses and changed into our tux. We had to meet at my dates house for pictures at around 5:30 but when we were done changing it was already 5:45. My friends date was suppose to be ready, but was just driving back to her house after getting her hair done. I was late already, so my friend decided to drive me there and then pick up his date. I got there and completely missed pictures. (my date was already pissed at me, and i realize this is a bad way to start prom). We get into the car with her completely ignoring me. We get to the restaurant and she stays distant. We ordered our food and I tried to make it up to her. Tried to crack a couple jokes but she just wasn't feeling me at all. The guy i was sitting next to was getting the attention of both my date and his date. Realizing she is doing this **** to piss me off, I try to ignore it. I started to flirt with the girl next to me, which i probably shouldn't have done but o well. We finish dinner, and I get a big group picture in front of the restaurant. I try to hook arms with her to which she allowed and got into the car. We drive to the prom only to get lost cause the directions sucked ****. We ended up fashionably late, nearly a hour late (2 hours actually, but we planned to be there at 9, got there at around 10).
We got into the prom and started to dance, i danced a few songs with her and i figured the night was gonna start to pick up. A friend of hers came up to her and started to dance with her. I was thinking to myself WTF? no way she is doing this in front of me. I dance with her as the other guy is dancing with her. I then ask her if she wants anything to drink which she says no so i go around and get msyelf something to drink. I bump into a couple people and talk. I go back to the dance floor but can't find her. Eventually i bump back into her to which we dance to another song. Then she left again so i just go up to another girl i knew and danced with her. I then go talk to my friends to figure out plans for the night. I got myself another drink and then went to find her. A slow song came up and we started to dance. SHe didn't seem like she was feelign it at all, and barely put her hand on my shoulder. She then left again to talk to her friend or something. I'm getting really pissed/ extremely turned off at this point. I bump into the girl i was dancing with prior to this so i dance with her again (really in hope that my date would see and get jealous, but my date didnt have her glasses on so she probably didn't even see this, now that i think of it). It was getting close to the end of prom and i find her for the last final dance. I dance with her, my hand on her hips. I knew the energy between me and her were close to nothing, and i really just wanted to peace out to the after party. Midway through the song, she just took her hands from my shoulders and just put it beside her body like she was standing still or something. So my hands are around her waist and shes just swaying there with her hands on her sides. I"m thinking to myself, **** this *****. (I knew it was me that didn't have the game though, so it wasn't her fault she was so turned off). So when the dance ends, she goes and walks away with her friend and the guy who drove us. I bump into another girl who was all like "where were you?, god we should have danced." So we talk for like 2 minutes by that time, my dates long gone. I probably should have found or called my date to tell her taht i was getting a ride from my friend back to my house to get changed, but i was really pissed at that point so i was like **** it and just left without even bothering to find her. THinking about this now, i realize this was a big mistake, i should have at least told her i was gonna get a ride with someone else. They probably had to wait till prom cleared out to find me, before they left. It was an ******* thing but ****. So then i got changed and went to a party and chilled for a bit and then went home. Not the night i had imagined at all.
So now its the next day and i still havn't talked to my date yet. I dunno if i should call to apologize for ditching the group or just ignore her cause she was acting like such a *****. I really don't want to pursue anything with her anymore so i don't evenknwo if i should bother to talk to her. She does have a couple of pictures of us on the camera but i don't really care if i get them or not. So now i guess i typed this long poorly written thing to get feedback. What could i have done to fix the situation. any comments would be appreciated. Hope your prom turns out better than mine.
Lets start. It was around noon and a friend came over to my house. We chilled and figured out plans for the night. We were going to go eat at a barbecue but decided to go to eat at a restaurent instead. So we chilled for a bit, watched some TV and talked. Around 4, i went to pick up my corsage and then we went to my friends barbecue without our dates. We talked, ate a little bit of food and left after about half an hour. We went back to our houses and changed into our tux. We had to meet at my dates house for pictures at around 5:30 but when we were done changing it was already 5:45. My friends date was suppose to be ready, but was just driving back to her house after getting her hair done. I was late already, so my friend decided to drive me there and then pick up his date. I got there and completely missed pictures. (my date was already pissed at me, and i realize this is a bad way to start prom). We get into the car with her completely ignoring me. We get to the restaurant and she stays distant. We ordered our food and I tried to make it up to her. Tried to crack a couple jokes but she just wasn't feeling me at all. The guy i was sitting next to was getting the attention of both my date and his date. Realizing she is doing this **** to piss me off, I try to ignore it. I started to flirt with the girl next to me, which i probably shouldn't have done but o well. We finish dinner, and I get a big group picture in front of the restaurant. I try to hook arms with her to which she allowed and got into the car. We drive to the prom only to get lost cause the directions sucked ****. We ended up fashionably late, nearly a hour late (2 hours actually, but we planned to be there at 9, got there at around 10).
We got into the prom and started to dance, i danced a few songs with her and i figured the night was gonna start to pick up. A friend of hers came up to her and started to dance with her. I was thinking to myself WTF? no way she is doing this in front of me. I dance with her as the other guy is dancing with her. I then ask her if she wants anything to drink which she says no so i go around and get msyelf something to drink. I bump into a couple people and talk. I go back to the dance floor but can't find her. Eventually i bump back into her to which we dance to another song. Then she left again so i just go up to another girl i knew and danced with her. I then go talk to my friends to figure out plans for the night. I got myself another drink and then went to find her. A slow song came up and we started to dance. SHe didn't seem like she was feelign it at all, and barely put her hand on my shoulder. She then left again to talk to her friend or something. I'm getting really pissed/ extremely turned off at this point. I bump into the girl i was dancing with prior to this so i dance with her again (really in hope that my date would see and get jealous, but my date didnt have her glasses on so she probably didn't even see this, now that i think of it). It was getting close to the end of prom and i find her for the last final dance. I dance with her, my hand on her hips. I knew the energy between me and her were close to nothing, and i really just wanted to peace out to the after party. Midway through the song, she just took her hands from my shoulders and just put it beside her body like she was standing still or something. So my hands are around her waist and shes just swaying there with her hands on her sides. I"m thinking to myself, **** this *****. (I knew it was me that didn't have the game though, so it wasn't her fault she was so turned off). So when the dance ends, she goes and walks away with her friend and the guy who drove us. I bump into another girl who was all like "where were you?, god we should have danced." So we talk for like 2 minutes by that time, my dates long gone. I probably should have found or called my date to tell her taht i was getting a ride from my friend back to my house to get changed, but i was really pissed at that point so i was like **** it and just left without even bothering to find her. THinking about this now, i realize this was a big mistake, i should have at least told her i was gonna get a ride with someone else. They probably had to wait till prom cleared out to find me, before they left. It was an ******* thing but ****. So then i got changed and went to a party and chilled for a bit and then went home. Not the night i had imagined at all.
So now its the next day and i still havn't talked to my date yet. I dunno if i should call to apologize for ditching the group or just ignore her cause she was acting like such a *****. I really don't want to pursue anything with her anymore so i don't evenknwo if i should bother to talk to her. She does have a couple of pictures of us on the camera but i don't really care if i get them or not. So now i guess i typed this long poorly written thing to get feedback. What could i have done to fix the situation. any comments would be appreciated. Hope your prom turns out better than mine.
