Lets revive 1 day to double your success !

[cablecow15]

Seeing as MOTU hasn't come back to start the challenge ,I say we come up with our own for this weekend !

heres one of the main posts of that thread

My fellow DJs,

It looks like there is definitely interest in this challenge, and so it's on!

Please give me a couple of days to write up all the details, but in a nutshell here's the mission.

Go out and get rejected 10 times in one single day!

Now, this is an oversimplification, but in essence this is my challenge. Of course doing this by itself will help some people, but not every one.

For example, for many guys it's pretty easy to go to a bar or club, get completely wasted, and ask every girl they see out. But that's not going to improve your skills or give you the dramatic confidence boost that I am advocating.

So there will be certain rules that need to be followed, plus certain handicaps that the more advanced DJs will want to implement if they wish to gain maximum benefit from this adventure.

Bottom line - whether you've only approached a couple of girls in your life, or you can pick up like a machine, this WILL challenge you and take you out of your comfort zone... and help you reap the rewards.

So give me a couple of days to write every thing up, and I then will post it.

IN THE MEANTIME

While I am putting this together, what I would like is feedback from you. Specifically the following:

1) What do you think?

2) What are your greatest concerns?

3) Do you feel this will be of benefit, or not? And why?

4) What is the best day for us to do this? Remember - all 10 rejections must be gathered in one single day. It cannot be broken up into 2 or more days. I'm thinking we do this Saturday, March 27th, but I am open to suggestions.

Now, if you accept this challenge and complete it, how will that impact your life?

Well, all I can give you is a personal experience. I did this exercise for myself about 8 years ago. The first girl that I approached I was an absolute mess... sweating bullets, stuttering like mad, it was absolutely scary since I was new to this whole thing.

By the time I was at rejection number 5 or so, I was totally on fire. I actually approached that particular girl with the line "Excuse me, but I made a goal to get rejected by girls 10 times today, and I'm behind schedule and would like to go home soon. So I'm going to ask you out and then I want you to reject me."

She thought it was the funniest line ever, and actually gave me her number. I replied "Thanks, but you're not making my life easy" or something like that.

Anyway, by the time I was done, I never had fear of rejection again. Not only that, but I now actually enjoy the challenge when a girl rejects me.

It only took one day for my life to change forever, and the same can be true of you as well.

So please take a few minutes and respond to my questions above, and in a couple of days I'll put up all the instructions.

Guys, this is going to be FUN!

MotU

The just of the challenge is to go out in one day with the intention to get rejected by 10 women .

we can even tell the women that its a game

" hello there im playing a game with some friends as to who can get the most rejections in a day , im going to ask for your number and i want you to reject me ok ?" from what ive heard half the time they will give you their number anyway lol, if they do you can say "oh many your not gonna make this game easy are you ? lol

So is anyone interested in reviving this game ? or even adding a few things to it to make it our own ? id even be up for getting ten over one weekend and raising the cap each week

 

[JohnnyStorm]

Good stuff, hopefully we can get a few more to join in.
I plan on taking a permanent marker with me & keeping a tally chart on my arm.

 

[European-DJ]

Any specifik rules?
I'm In!

 

[GhengisT]

I read about this yesterday (the original MOTU).

I decided to give it a try. Not only did any/all anxiety fade, out of the 8 girls I talked to, it yielded 2 numbers.

 

[cablecow15]

Im really excited about this , im glad there's some interest

and so far the only rule is to go out with the intention of rejection , but I think were all open to suggestions

 

[PrettyBoyAJ]

I mean it is a good concept. But its just plain wack to walk up to a woman and say you want to be rejected. What kind of lame person does that?

 

[cablecow15]

I mean it is a good concept. But its just plain wack to walk up to a woman and say you want to be rejected. What kind of lame person does that?

you dont have to do that , you can just walk up and say
"hey can i have your number ? " get a odd look , and and walk off

does it matter how lame she thinks you are if you want to be rejected ? the points is to no longer fear rejection , not get a few numbers while ur rejected

you can walk around with a hunch back and a limp if you want , who cares ?

 

[HariPoter13]

Here's something to cheer you guys up, I was dying of laughter:

Almost Picking Up Chicks

 

[Eternal_water]

Usually its the other way around, go out and try and get at least 3 numbers, they make me nervous and I never do them, this actaully sounds fun though and getting a few approaches and rejections under my belt could help build my confidence

(I've never been outright rejected on the spot so the thought still gives me AA)

I might try some Mchenrycruiser pick ups they are hilarious, watch these

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Kh1Y0mEim8o&feature=g-like&context=G2363344ALT28y5gADAA

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uVh0r1wGnc8&feature=g-like&context=G2343f65ALT28y5gAEAA

classic

 

[r0cky]

How about making 10 approaches trying to not give a puck about what happens?

Getting rejected 10x a day has never been a chellenge for me, and getting phone#'s isnt as great a learning experience as many girls will give you fake ones.

Here's a great line that I like to use similar to the one your suggesting:

"Hey, give me your best rejection"

 

[cablecow15]

went out tonight to a club , got rejected maybe 5 times , got to dance with two hott girls , they were both yes's then after we danced the first one was staring me down like hell , but when i decided i was gonna get after her and ask for her number , she dispersed , hopefully shes there tomorrow night , or tonight

if not ill get another better looking girl , so glad i went out tonight

 

[nice_guyeh]

im in lezz goo

 

[cablecow15]

alright , lets get started , ima try to get rejected 10 times tonight, i got rejected 5 times the other night , and it didnt hurt at all , lol its like once you unclog the dam it gets easier

 

[JohnChops]

I saw this thread awhile ago and pussied out. I dont wana ***** out this time lol. good old thread revive cablecow .Everyone post back their results here!

 

[cablecow15]

on Friday night i went out with friends had a good time ,there were not many women at the club tho , i followed up with a girl i danced with before , and she turned me down this time , no sweat i found her name and brushed it off .

Ive noticed its suicide to ask a girl to dance if shes dancing with her friend and you don't bring your buddy to dance with her , especially if u ask the hotter of the two. but when i find a group of three girls , two dancing and one kinda left hanging , they will love for you to come up and ask them to dance.

Ive gotten compliments on some of my friends i was with on how ballsy i was being , witch is a first. felt good , and im going every ladies night from here on out , so it will only get better .

 

[Eternal_water]

Ok I'm gonna try this soon, do you think its best to do it in the day or go to a club?

 

[cablecow15]

i would go to a club first , that's what im doing , and after your build up your confidence with it you can move on to other places

 

[Eternal_water]

Yeah thats what I thought.

Eventually outside of clubs I think as far as getting rejected on purpose for fun and confidence mchenrycruiser has some great ways to do it

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Kh1Y0mEim8o&feature=g-like&context=G21b9e54ALT28y5gADAA

 

[cablecow15]

Yeah thats what I thought.

Eventually outside of clubs I think as far as getting rejected on purpose for fun and confidence mchenrycruiser has some great ways to do it

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Kh1Y0mEim8o&feature=g-like&context=G21b9e54ALT28y5gADAA

lmao that guys got balls , but i think he needs to work on his voice lol

also needs to hit on girls his age lol XD

 

[Eternal_water]

The voice is a bit strange, he got a number though, and she was certainly a yes.