Let's just be friends

[Suave1]

Let’s not complicate things.Just stop talking to her.

This is the right answer here.
You have major one-itis. Grow up, you will lose girls. You can't get attached to ONE thing so much that you don't even have. By the way, you'll also lose family members, close friends, and money. You will take L's a lot in life, get used to it.

 

[derby1]

OP first of all you are way to invested in this girl who has given you NOTHING,

could you imagine if she actually gave you sex how you would behave?

The number 1 rule of pimp club, is women crave non sexual attention. They will rinse men of it all day and all night, then they will ghost as if you never mattered... this is there version of "Post nut clarity"

her DM'ing you, and you replying is the equivalent of getting her off, but she hasnt got to move off her sofa. Ontop of this she probably has a hunk blowing her back doors in.

can you imagine the ego trip going on in her head for being average?

Go No contact this instance, telling you about her date.

NO MORE MR NICE GUY

 

[darksprezzatura]

Agree and amplify. Then go NC. Then find other women. No reason to be hung up on this one.

Definitely avoid the angry reaction. Always preserve your dignity no matter what.

Listen to @Barrister. This is what needs to be done.