Lets face facts

[sledgehammer]

Come on now!!!

Lets all face facts now, this site is pretty much useless!!!! If you people were all capable of getting all these girls that you claim to be getting then you would not be on here on friday and saturday nights posting messages all night, nor would you have 1000 messages already posted previously!!

I am no different, i am not good at getting girls, I have had a few in the past but lets face it this site does nothing more than tries to pump up your ego while reading it then does nothing in the real life world.

 

[Duke]

Let's face facts:


You are an idiot.

Are you a newb? If so, your idiocy can be forgiven in time. This site marked a turning point in my life.

I transformed from a negative, self-pitying, desperate CHUMP into a happy, positive MAN. I gained a ton of perspective. The benefits of this site (especially the bible) are absolutely TREMENDOUS.

Do you know why so many people need this site? I can't name them all, but I can name a BIG reason: Feminized media.
Males are being brainwashed to believe that women want roses and candy on the first date, that women want to be the center of the man's life, that women want a WUSS for their boyfriend.

Behavior is learned, my friend. This site is here to eradicate the bullshyt that gets us nowhere with women and to reteach us the basic fundamentals of attracting a mate that we forgot.

If you keep an open mind, not only will your dealings with women improve, but so will your WHOLE LIFE.

 

[B9]

Read this

Read the Bible.

Read the Boot Camp E-book

Then come back for a proper introduction.

 

[CLOONEY]

your doubting yourself and your ability to pull chicks, you found this site in your quest to gain pulling ability, and now your doubting that something could possibly help you, because you dont want to be disappointed. ok, bye.

I found this site when I was already doing good with chicks, BUT NOT THE ONES I LIKED!! This site turned me around and I have since had so many girls who I thought were simply out of my league. If you dont want to beleive it, so be it. Why do I have nearly 700 posts? By asking questions and opinions when I am in an ambiguous situation with a girl. Helping guys out. And because some of this stuff is just plain interesting and fukcing funny.

Take it easy.

 

[sledgehammer]

reply

I don't care what any of you say about looks, they do matter!!! When you all talk about doing cold street approaches looks are at least 90% of it, I am sorry for coming on here and bashing you all right away, I will say this some of your tips might be good, but as far as your advice on cold approaches, it is all based on looks, a girl will look at you and if she does not like what she sees, 10 seconds is not gonna change her mind. But.... in a setting where you see the girls more often such as school, once they can get to know you then I will say looks do decrease in importance, The first day of classes the first thing i always do whenever girls walk in is think to my self "bangable, not bangable, ugly, hot, etc....." and I will admit I probably am not capable of getting any of the girls that every guy will say bangable first time seeing them, and most of my girlfriends have been girls that on the first day of class my thoughts will be "not ugly but not hot" but as you get to know them they become much better looking!

 

[Silquee Smoove]

Sledgehammer, your name says it all, punishing and to the point.

Looks do matter, but most of the stuff on this site has nothing to do with looks and more to do with charm, humor, wordplay, semantics, and how to angle your end of the conversation to maximize your personality and so forth.

In reality, we are all commodities and everything we have: looks, money, power, hook-ups, we use all this when looking for ____(fill in with whatever you feel like: girlfriend, ho, one-night stand).

This site has helped me see the potential and other "commodities" I have overlooked within my own self.

Oh, and DUKE, you are SO right on the money on that one about the media. How would you know better unless you were taught, right? Well I grew up listening to that nonsense about what women "wanted" and it cost me a lot of self-respect and pride being disrespected by "little girls".
Yes, even grown women act this way don't be fooled.

So, once again, F*CK THEM!

 

[mahon83050]

Re: reply

Originally posted by sledgehammer
I don't care what any of you say about looks, they do matter!!! When you all talk about doing cold street approaches looks are at least 90% of it, I am sorry for coming on here and bashing you all right away, I will say this some of your tips might be good, but as far as your advice on cold approaches, it is all based on looks, a girl will look at you and if she does not like what she sees, 10 seconds is not gonna change her mind. But.... in a setting where you see the girls more often such as school, once they can get to know you then I will say looks do decrease in importance, The first day of classes the first thing i always do whenever girls walk in is think to my self "bangable, not bangable, ugly, hot, etc....." and I will admit I probably am not capable of getting any of the girls that every guy will say bangable first time seeing them, and most of my girlfriends have been girls that on the first day of class my thoughts will be "not ugly but not hot" but as you get to know them they become much better looking!

I agree that looks have a heavyimpact of your success. If you watched the reality show Paradise Hotel you will know what I am talking about. There was a guy named Dave, who was unattractive looking. He was the only guy onthe show who did not hook up or have girls flirting with him...despite the fact that he was mature, intelligent and had a good job. I also realized he took the most abuse on the show simply due to his poor anesthetically features. Then again, I do see plenty of below average or average at best guys walking around with 7+'s.

 

[mahon83050]

Re: reply

Originally posted by sledgehammer
I don't care what any of you say about looks, they do matter!!! When you all talk about doing cold street approaches looks are at least 90% of it, I am sorry for coming on here and bashing you all right away, I will say this some of your tips might be good, but as far as your advice on cold approaches, it is all based on looks, a girl will look at you and if she does not like what she sees, 10 seconds is not gonna change her mind. But.... in a setting where you see the girls more often such as school, once they can get to know you then I will say looks do decrease in importance, The first day of classes the first thing i always do whenever girls walk in is think to my self "bangable, not bangable, ugly, hot, etc....." and I will admit I probably am not capable of getting any of the girls that every guy will say bangable first time seeing them, and most of my girlfriends have been girls that on the first day of class my thoughts will be "not ugly but not hot" but as you get to know them they become much better looking!

I agree that looks have a heavy impact of your success. If you watched the reality show Paradise Hotel you will know what I am talking about. There was a guy named Dave, who was unattractive looking. He was the only guy on the show who did not hook up or have girls flirting with him...despite the fact that he was mature, intelligent and had a good job. I also realized he took the most abuse on the show simply due to his poor anesthetically features. Then again, I do see plenty of below average or average at best guys walking around with 7+'s.

 

[B9]

Re: reply

Originally posted by sledgehammer
I don't care what any of you say about looks, they do matter!!! When you all talk about doing cold street approaches looks are at least 90% of it, I am sorry for coming on here and bashing you all right away, I will say this some of your tips might be good, but as far as your advice on cold approaches, it is all based on looks, a girl will look at you and if she does not like what she sees, 10 seconds is not gonna change her mind. But.... in a setting where you see the girls more often such as school, once they can get to know you then I will say looks do decrease in importance, The first day of classes the first thing i always do whenever girls walk in is think to my self "bangable, not bangable, ugly, hot, etc....." and I will admit I probably am not capable of getting any of the girls that every guy will say bangable first time seeing them, and most of my girlfriends have been girls that on the first day of class my thoughts will be "not ugly but not hot" but as you get to know them they become much better looking!

actually, you are looking at this from a slightly wrong angle: Perception (the girl's perception, that is) matters. Yes, looks play a part in that. One think that always adds to one's looks is a smile. And chicks can sense confidence. It attracts. Working out will give you a whole lot of confidence which may explain why you see the puffed up guys getitng the girls. Th know they are a prize. As for sheer physical looks, I have to very much disagree that it accounts for 90%. What yu are actually doing when looking at girls thinking 'bangable, not bangable', I am sure the girlos do the same. Except that part of what they look at is poise, and the qualities that you do exude (all the time usually), combined with the looks.

On a whole, I think you are talking sh!te, because you obviously haven't tried these methods before judging them. And with your current attitude, I doubt you will have much luck.

 

[chlywly]

He's a noob, he's confused; just as confused as all you other fools who first came on here... He has quesitons, he's affraid to beleive it all otherwise he wouldnt have posted.

Not need to be "BITTER"...He will learn if he wants to, takes time, treat noobs with some respect.

 

[The Business Man]

Amen chlywly.