Let's Be Honest: Most Men Are Afraid of Hot Women

[ALnotAI]

Most nights I go out I have to roll solo. I've lost count of all of the guys who CLAIM they want to go out and meet women and then chicken out.

When are they MOST likely to chicken out? When I tell them the club or bar is going to be packed with hot women. I can see the fear in their eyes.

Just about every guy is cool with going to the trash bars and clubs full of ghetto chicks, fat Latinas, and girls who don't even know what a dress is. But when it comes to meeting the girls who are in fact beautiful, they have every excuse in the book: family in town, need to wake up early for a hike, too far, uber didn't show, etc.

It's actually good for me that most men self select out, heck I wish even more men did it, it would make my life even easier! But it's pathetic and a little sad when it's my friends, guys who are good guys who I want to see succeed.

I can't change things, so I try to accept it. If I wanted to be devious, I'd try to talk guys out of going to these places, but I don't have it in me lol.

 

[Robert28]

Most hot women these days date bums and/or sissy type men. Most are boring at sex and even more boring to talk to. Only good thing they are for is to be seen with but I’m too old to give a crap what other people think of me and who I’m with, especially people I don’t know.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Most nights I go out I have to roll solo. I've lost count of all of the guys who CLAIM they want to go out and meet women and then chicken out.

You would not believe the amount of cucks who attend pickup events but cannot approach. kJs and binge YouTube but losers alternatively.

When are they MOST likely to chicken out? When I tell them the club or bar is going to be packed with hot women. I can see the fear in their eyes.

Just about every guy is cool with going to the trash bars and clubs full of ghetto chicks, fat Latinas, and girls who don't even know what a dress is. But when it comes to meeting the girls who are in fact beautiful, they have every excuse in the book: family in town, need to wake up early for a hike, too far, uber didn't show, etc.

Yes, a lot of cucks. Look no further then the threads here about men do called DJs pursuit of single moms. Its the height of absolute stupidity.

Pulling road kill ain't game.

It's actually good for me that most men self select out, heck I wish even more men did it, it would make my life even easier! But it's pathetic and a little sad when it's my friends, guys who are good guys who I want to see succeed.

I can't change things, so I try to accept it. If I wanted to be devious, I'd try to talk guys out of going to these places, but I don't have it in me lol.

You're being delusional like catered SMV thinking she's still got it.

They don't want to succeed. They don't want to fail so, they chase Chad's booty call and other low hanging fruit.

If anything, its a reflection on your love fe choices and lack thereof in boundaries. You screen women and people in general.

DHV is the best way to become poignant for selection. If people are seeking dog ****, find more important DHV people. Part of game is creating a social circle, lifestyle, and cultivation of being.

You're the sum of the five closest people in your life.

No offense but,that's not good given your thread.

Step your game up.

 

[051AV]

I'm not scared of hot women I like intimidating these women they get taken back when they have a man talk to them. I've said in many of the threads that I'm finding most women so fvcking insecure its a turn off, come on who wants to be with a insecure chick not me. I'm also finding most women are gravitating to the feminized guys. The good looking women need to be with a guy that's weaker than them so its not a blow to their already low self esteem if the guy leaves them.

I can make these women so fvcking nervous they start stuttering, its funny, the younger women are so used to their girly boys the older women they are far more secure, it gets their motor running when you approach them.

 

[Robert28]

I'm not scared of hot women I like intimidating these women they get taken back when they have a man talk to them. I've said in many of the threads that I'm finding most women so fvcking insecure its a turn off, come on who wants to be with a insecure chick not me. I'm also finding most women are gravitating to the feminized guys. The good looking women need to be with a guy that's weaker than them so its not a blow to their already low self esteem if the guy leaves them.

I can make these women so fvcking nervous they start stuttering, its funny, the younger women are so used to their girly boys the older women they are far more secure, it gets their motor running when you approach them.

Women use the insecure excuse as reason to justify why they date ****ty men. I’ve never bought it though. You date ****ty men because you want to date ****ty men.

 

[R.U.G.]

Most nights I go out I have to roll solo. I've lost count of all of the guys who CLAIM they want to go out and meet women and then chicken out.

When are they MOST likely to chicken out? When I tell them the club or bar is going to be packed with hot women. I can see the fear in their eyes.

Just about every guy is cool with going to the trash bars and clubs full of ghetto chicks, fat Latinas, and girls who don't even know what a dress is. But when it comes to meeting the girls who are in fact beautiful, they have every excuse in the book: family in town, need to wake up early for a hike, too far, uber didn't show, etc.

It's actually good for me that most men self select out, heck I wish even more men did it, it would make my life even easier! But it's pathetic and a little sad when it's my friends, guys who are good guys who I want to see succeed.

I can't change things, so I try to accept it. If I wanted to be devious, I'd try to talk guys out of going to these places, but I don't have it in me lol.

It can be intimidating to walk up to an attractive woman when you have little practice or experience. Once you have a couple dozen under your belt it is easier. One also has to have I don't give a fvck attitude; when many these days to not.

 

[bigdave17]

Most nights I go out I have to roll solo. I've lost count of all of the guys who CLAIM they want to go out and meet women and then chicken out.

When are they MOST likely to chicken out? When I tell them the club or bar is going to be packed with hot women. I can see the fear in their eyes.

Just about every guy is cool with going to the trash bars and clubs full of ghetto chicks, fat Latinas, and girls who don't even know what a dress is. But when it comes to meeting the girls who are in fact beautiful, they have every excuse in the book: family in town, need to wake up early for a hike, too far, uber didn't show, etc.

It's actually good for me that most men self select out, heck I wish even more men did it, it would make my life even easier! But it's pathetic and a little sad when it's my friends, guys who are good guys who I want to see succeed.

I can't change things, so I try to accept it. If I wanted to be devious, I'd try to talk guys out of going to these places, but I don't have it in me lol.

hot women at bars/clubs have ungodly standards

the difficulty level there is excruciating

 

[wifehunter]

"The Most Dangerous Creature on the Face of the Planet"

- Doc Love

Scared? Nah, I used to play with black widow spiders as a kid.

 

[ALnotAI]

hot women at bars/clubs have ungodly standards

the difficulty level there is excruciating

That's why I feel pretty good about some of the local places I've found. I've driven out of town many times and am surprised, if not shocked, how much better the local places are.

 

[IKO69]

Yes there is truth to it but that is also because of past bad experiences.

Some women that are really good looking can be impenetrable - ie they don't really appear friendly or nice at all or likely to be responsive.

You have to get in where you fit in - I know this is not the advice many want to hear. It might take some work to get a "hot woman" interested in you - on the flipside this means you shouldn't really respect the one's that don't like you.

 

[Dash Riprock]

hot women at bars/clubs have ungodly standards

the difficulty level there is excruciating

Only for you, Dave.

I think you need to take a SS break rather than blithering on here about how "tough" everything is for you. And for G*D's sake, QUIT talking about all your "advantages." Look in the mirror and FIX your inner game as you have NONE. ZERO. ZILCH.

I can see definitively 100% just why high value women are not attracted to you. It's crystal clear to me just by how you communicate on this board.

If you live outside of Chicago, and STILL cannot find someone to date, the problem isn't women or Chicago (population 9.5 million), it's YOU. You keep posting the same s*hit on SS over and over and over--what do you expect???

What sort of advice would you give the guy in your situation? Quit, whine, and bitc*ch like a little 8 year old girl, or man the f*cuk up. Grow a pair and TRY. All you do is bit*ch.

Good luck.

~Dash

 

[jaymbrs]

It is possible your friends would rather go to these trashy bars because the women are easier to pick up there. Whereas these other places you'd have to come with some decent game and some effort.

 

[IKO69]

It is possible your friends would rather go to these trashy bars because the women are easier to pick up there. Whereas these other places you'd have to come with some decent game and some effort.

There is definite truth to this. Here in Boston there is the liberty hotel; there's this bar/lounge area there where really hot women go to and they dressed to the 9's. You have to be on point because the competition is fierce. Some of the other places in comparison are much easier.

Where you go matters and you have to adjust accordingly. Central to this is your overall sense of self - you have to know regardless of the environment no one is better than you.

 

[ALnotAI]

It is possible your friends would rather go to these trashy bars because the women are easier to pick up there. Whereas these other places you'd have to come with some decent game and some effort.

The strange thing is, most of my friends haven't even yet VISITED the bars with hotter women yet! They don't even know if I'm blowing smoke up their asses or not! In fact some of my friends are fairly new to the area and haven't even visited the town at all where these bars are located! It's the simple prospect of a room of hot women that has them scared.

Their eyes begin to dart around, and they mutter a few excuses. It's understandable, but they keep badgering me to go out to these places over and over and never make it out lol.

Oddly, my friends are still getting blown out at the trashier bars too, so I'm not sure it would even make a difference.

 

[bigdave17]

The strange thing is, most of my friends haven't even yet VISITED the bars with hotter women yet! They don't even know if I'm blowing smoke up their asses or not! In fact some of my friends are fairly new to the area and haven't even visited the town at all where these bars are located! It's the simple prospect of a room of hot women that has them scared.

Their eyes begin to dart around, and they mutter a few excuses. It's understandable, but they keep badgering me to go out to these places over and over and never make it out lol.

Oddly, my friends are still getting blown out at the trashier bars too, so I'm not sure it would even make a difference.

lmao @ you thinking that these super hot women at these bars are looking for a man to date

they mostly go out for validation and attention and to reject every guy in sight. Meanwhile, they date the guy from their social circle that they've already known for a while

They might make an exception if you're a professional athlete or a 6'4 male model but that's really about it. A regular 7.5/10 guy who is say top 10% of society is still considered worthless.

 

[bigdave17]

There is definite truth to this. Here in Boston there is the liberty hotel; there's this bar/lounge area there where really hot women go to and they dressed to the 9's. You have to be on point because the competition is fierce. Some of the other places in comparison are much easier.

Where you go matters and you have to adjust accordingly. Central to this is your overall sense of self - you have to know regardless of the environment no one is better than you.

really hot women dressed to the 9s aren't looking for anybody, lmao you guys are hilarious. Really hot women are already seeing 502358035 guys from their social circle/work or in a serious relationship with a guy that they've known for 10 years

try approaching one, it doesn't matter what you say, you got about a 5% chance of a semi decent response