guys,
felt the need to chime in here. you all know that im a HUGE proponent of the WALK AWAY response when a woman is screwing with you. BUT 'lets be friends" doesnt always mean you should walk away.
too many folks are saying that when a girl says 'let's be friends' that she basically means 'f*ck off and die".
this is a bit harsh. "let's be friends" can mean different things in different circumstances
for example:
1) girl has been flirting with you for a while, you act on it, you get friends line
It means: she was playing you as an option, you called it on her, now (usually out of panic over being called out) she's making it clear that you are an option she'll settle for IF she doesn't meet mister right in the next 2-5 years. It also means she is happy to continue having you as option B if you are fine with that. "friends" here means, "i can tease and flirt you endlessly" and you can never get upset because we are just "friends".
2) you have a friendship with a woman (of say six months or more), you take a shine to her, you act on it, you get the friends line
it means: she just wants to be friends. she enjoys having you in her life, but isn't interested romantically. she's not playing you, she's being upfront and honest with you. in this scenario guys egos usually get hurt and they fire back with "go f*ck yourself".
3) you go on a few dates, call for another, woman says "lets be friends"
it means: it's over. she has no interest in you as a friend or anything else. it's a bullsh*t let down line.
4) girl has told you she likes you, but has a bf, so she just wants to be friends
it means: same as #1. you're option B for that night where her bf makes her suck his c*ck after doing her in the *ss and makes her feel like a total street wh*re. don't waste your time, because unless he does that, she ain't leaving him. and even if she does, you're going to get all the sh*t that she wished she could take out on him.
in circumstances 1 and 4 you need to WALK AWAY. these women are users and will suck the life out of you.
in circumstance 3 just accept that its over. she doesn't see you as the prize anymore and you are totally wasting your time on her.
in circumstance 2, stay friends. it's nto her fault that you have romantic feelings for her. i mean, what options did she have? tell you she liked you in that way when she didn't?
i guess what im saying is that don't toss out good women who AREN'T mind f*cking you just because they don't want to suck your c*ck. there aren't a lot of good, kind caring people in the world, so if you find one, don't cut her out of your life just because she won't sleep with you.
but for those women who lead you on then lay the "friends" line on you, WALK AWAY.
women who just want to be friends won't flirt excessively with you and they won't go out on dates with you. so if these women doing things that get your hopes up, then slamming the door in your face, it tells you that they are attention wh*res and you need to WALK AWAY.
it's very simple to tell which women want to really be friends and which are just using that to excuse their behavior of leading you on or of no longer wanting to see you.
the ones who truly want to be friends will have treated you like a friend prior to. which means they will have respected your feelings, treated you kindly, shared their true thoughts versus only sharing things that make you want them more, etc.
know the difference guys. walk away from the attention wh*res, but keep the good women in your life, even if just as friends. on one condition though, stop hitting on them and stop seeing them as potential lays. start seeing them as friends and go mack on other women.
J
felt the need to chime in here. you all know that im a HUGE proponent of the WALK AWAY response when a woman is screwing with you. BUT 'lets be friends" doesnt always mean you should walk away.
too many folks are saying that when a girl says 'let's be friends' that she basically means 'f*ck off and die".
this is a bit harsh. "let's be friends" can mean different things in different circumstances
for example:
1) girl has been flirting with you for a while, you act on it, you get friends line
It means: she was playing you as an option, you called it on her, now (usually out of panic over being called out) she's making it clear that you are an option she'll settle for IF she doesn't meet mister right in the next 2-5 years. It also means she is happy to continue having you as option B if you are fine with that. "friends" here means, "i can tease and flirt you endlessly" and you can never get upset because we are just "friends".
2) you have a friendship with a woman (of say six months or more), you take a shine to her, you act on it, you get the friends line
it means: she just wants to be friends. she enjoys having you in her life, but isn't interested romantically. she's not playing you, she's being upfront and honest with you. in this scenario guys egos usually get hurt and they fire back with "go f*ck yourself".
3) you go on a few dates, call for another, woman says "lets be friends"
it means: it's over. she has no interest in you as a friend or anything else. it's a bullsh*t let down line.
4) girl has told you she likes you, but has a bf, so she just wants to be friends
it means: same as #1. you're option B for that night where her bf makes her suck his c*ck after doing her in the *ss and makes her feel like a total street wh*re. don't waste your time, because unless he does that, she ain't leaving him. and even if she does, you're going to get all the sh*t that she wished she could take out on him.
in circumstances 1 and 4 you need to WALK AWAY. these women are users and will suck the life out of you.
in circumstance 3 just accept that its over. she doesn't see you as the prize anymore and you are totally wasting your time on her.
in circumstance 2, stay friends. it's nto her fault that you have romantic feelings for her. i mean, what options did she have? tell you she liked you in that way when she didn't?
i guess what im saying is that don't toss out good women who AREN'T mind f*cking you just because they don't want to suck your c*ck. there aren't a lot of good, kind caring people in the world, so if you find one, don't cut her out of your life just because she won't sleep with you.
but for those women who lead you on then lay the "friends" line on you, WALK AWAY.
women who just want to be friends won't flirt excessively with you and they won't go out on dates with you. so if these women doing things that get your hopes up, then slamming the door in your face, it tells you that they are attention wh*res and you need to WALK AWAY.
it's very simple to tell which women want to really be friends and which are just using that to excuse their behavior of leading you on or of no longer wanting to see you.
the ones who truly want to be friends will have treated you like a friend prior to. which means they will have respected your feelings, treated you kindly, shared their true thoughts versus only sharing things that make you want them more, etc.
know the difference guys. walk away from the attention wh*res, but keep the good women in your life, even if just as friends. on one condition though, stop hitting on them and stop seeing them as potential lays. start seeing them as friends and go mack on other women.
J
