let me try to explain this a lil better..maybe different opinions this time

[inlikapimp]

Okay... let me attempt to re-explain it. One day at lunch in High School, I was just doing my thing... acting funny and enjoying myself... when these two kids were asking out random girls just for the hell of it. I saw this one cute ass girl...and they were asking her out. She just smiles, so I thought I would give it a try. I step up... and and say "Would you go out with me then?" And with a cute smile she replies, "I do not even know you."

I got this girl's number like a day after that by askin one of her friends... probably was a bad to get it... but I got it. Well after that when we sat at lunch, we would not say anything. I was extremely nervous... and so was she. Well... I could not call her because I was busy... and I heard that she was complaining to her friends about that. Anyway... it turned out that the number was the number to her grandmother's house because that is where she was staying at the time.


Anyway... she moved to another house and they do not have a house phone. Well after two weeks... I told her that I love her(yes another bad move). She did not reply to it at first, but after a while she would tell me she loved me too. We hugged all the time... and she offered to give me rides home everyday. By the way, she is a senior and I am a sophmore. She told her friends and me personally that she does not care about the age.

Well... things were going great but one day, it seemed that she lost interest in me... although she denied it. Later on that week she was like "Listen... I like you a lot but I am still in love with my ex boyfriend." At this point I went off on her and said some terrible things. Then... next day at lunch, she went to the bathroom crying. I cheered her up telling her that I still love her and **** A week after that she tells me I should not get attached to her. I was like what the hell!! After that she tells me that she does not want a boyfriend at all... ever again. Now I am really like what the hell!!! She tells me at this point that I am her best friend, but we will not be anything else.

At school... I ask her for hugs and she turns me down. She tells me "I do not hug anyone... not even my mother." I was like okay... and she does not give me anymore rides home. Claiming that her "Seat in her car moved and that her mother found out... because of this her mother does not trust her anymore."I really like this girl... we have so much in common... and she just threw it all away by saying we will not be anything more than friends. Now, I do not get this because a while ago she was telling me that she loved me... and then bang... all of a sudden, I am just a friend. I do not know what to do... I really want this girl to like me again... and tell me she loves me again.

Matrix: Interruption... if you are a sophomore champ... act like it. Do yourself (and us) a favor and start paying attention in your writing class. Moreover, there is so many things wrong with this situation champ, but I will make this short... this girl will never like you for anything more than a friend... it is over. Do yourself a favor and get over it.

 

[inlikapimp]

"trinity....HELP!"
can anyone help me out

 

[oakraiderz2]

Step numero uno...PARAGRAPGHS....numero deux...SENTENCES...numero tres...CAPITILIZATION...

 

[inlikapimp]

thank u for NOT helpin me..now can anyone help

 

[LikRetsam]

dumb ass, listen to him. Make paragraphs and bumping your own post is not sexy.

 

[inlikapimp]

okay..wuteva..now can sumone help

 

[Bombshell]

Read the bible. If you dont learn to be a dj she will never like you as more than a friend. Currently, you sir. are a chump. Again, read the bible and you will know what you did wrong.

 

[oakraiderz2]

Wow...thats not much better. You should worry about using proper grammar instead of some girl that doesnt even like you. Forget about her and pay attention in English class cause my eyes are bleeding.

 

[Microphone Fiend]

Okay never be the first to proclaim your love. That scared her away. Second stop worrrying about her "kinoing you" The best thing about kino is that you never know for sure if it was done as a sign of attraction or just friendlyness. But any kino you do is obvious attraction because YOU SAID YOU LOVED HER MULTIPLE TIMES! Where's the fun in that? Move on with another girl, or at least flirt with other girls

 

[inlikapimp]

Thanks for anyone that helped. By the way, I didn't care about any grammar because i copy and pasted that from an email i wrote to a girl, because she wanted to know about it. The girls dont know eachother, so it's all good.
*one*

 

[JSH]

Don't discuss gals with gals as they are all useless and will tell you the opposite f what they really want.

 

[UniqueSoul]

You did good pimp to ask for a different opinion on this lil matter. But it all comes back to you again indeed-- YOU are the one who has to start developing a broader point of view. I am currently stuck in sth like a situation, 90percent matching yours, so this goes as a sharing of personal xp and remarks on the whole about emotional uncertainty VERY much like this.
And it's long and exaggerated and dull, so sit back and relax.
As I would like to continue on evolving the thoughts of our fellow DJs that posted things up in here, I'll point out a couple of things that you, pimp, are very stubborn to notice and to get a hold o'yaself at last.
ESCALATION. You've been to naive on certain details, like, on kino as Microphone has noticed; you saying harsh things -> her crying -> you cheering her up -> she's happy again!; smile on her face while reading your letter; hugs, love, rides and so on...
Looking at things from your point of view, it's absolutely cool and I know that as hell-- when you've lost control of your feelings in someway, it's way too easy to create ideals about things surrounding you and then imagine that IT REALLY IS TRUE!
As much as I myself would like to live my whole life like that... it's quite dangerous. You can't decide the real world between your imagination.-- That's what's happening with you, pimp. There isn't much to be done, because the main "cause" of this is too uncertain or maybe fed up with sth concerning your attitude, actions, thinking or whatever.
YOU CONCENRATE TO MUCH ON YOURSELF AND FORGET THE OTHERS AROUND YOU. This state of emotional crisis is not SO much involving you as you would like to think. These "excuses" of her should not be beared in mind at all, cos they're too lousy- she seems to be suffering some problems (if *YOU* can't even tell, neither are we able) and quite surely, she needs to get away from you for some time. Your reactions are awfully motivated by your emotions (-- but I'm not sure what they are-- selfishness, pure ambitions, or maybe YOU longing for her...--) and it's too natural to even agree that *I FEEL LIKE THAT TOO BRO. BIG UP!*. But you have to forget your wishes-- to have her in your arms, to hear her telling you about her *love* towards you; cos you'll have to do it one way or another, sooner or later- it's way more helpful than memories.

Your current feelings are so much familiar to me (WAY TOO FAMILIAR, as I have to admit), so don't reject this as an another post not telling you the things you might wanna hear. Developing stronger feelings towards the object of admiration of yours is QUICKER that she does it, and moreover, QUICKER than you surely know WTF is happening is quite a problem. And it cannot be ignored--
IF YOU AIN'T SURE OF THE FEELINGS SHE FEELS, NOT TELLS YOU, DISMISS IT AS A FALSE ALARM. COS IF YOU'RE PLAYING IT AT, OR AT LEAST YOU THINK YOU DO, EMOTIONAL, NOT THE FUN LEVEL, GAIN CONTROL OVER YOURSELF. COS IT'S YOU WHO'S GONNA BURN THA **** DOWN.

(it's that LAN party, not me)