One day when she's expecting a call, DONT CALL HER. If she wonders why you didn't call just tell her you were busy. This lets her know that you want her, but dont need her. She now will make and effort to fight for your attention. Make it look like she's the agressor in the relationship! I did this yesterday and now she is begging me to go with her to the mall 2day!
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Let her know that she's not first priority!
- Thread starter Solja J
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You have to make an important distinction here...if you've TOLD her you're going to call on a certain day, do it. The easy way to do this is never to promise you're going to call. Just call when you feel like it. I'd love to see the word "DJ" taken off the site, and replaced with "man". Because that's what a DJ is, he's a REAL man. And a real man always keeps his word, no matter what. In Scarface, he said "I've only got two things in this world, my word and my balls. And I don't break either of them for anyone." If you tell someone you're going to do something, you need to do it. Thats what seperates the men from the boys. To make it clear, I'm not saying to tell her you'll call her and then do it. I'm simply saying get her used to the idea that you'll call when you're able to, and that she shouldn't be "expecting" anything from you, unless you've TOLD her to expect it.
yea dude, i really believe in keeping your word as well. it really annoys me when people say they will do things and dont, eg call, go out etc. the worst is when your friends fail to turn up for something because they "forgot"
So many "men" nowadays seem to have forgotten the qualities that a real man needs to have. What passes for men nowadays are little boys dressed up in big brother's clothes, playing mind games with girls stupid enough to buy it. As a man, you never resort to playing mind games. As a real man, you don't HAVE to. It's YOU that's irresistible, not some stupid front you put up. People need to learn how to be real men, and not AFC's in DJ's clothes.
Serg897
Master Don Juan
good post.
Ive problably made that mistake more than once
Ive problably made that mistake more than once
This tip is not very helpful. It doesn't make you more attractive to fake being busy all the time so you sound like you have a life... It's better to go out and actually HAVE a life. Faking it will come back and bite you in the ass eventually. You shouldn't be available all the time, but that should be a result of actually being busy, not pretending. If you're not busy, get off your ass and go do something. Easy.
Sexy_Malibu
Master Don Juan
A female perspective on the whole calling/not-calling thing:
I don't care if a guy doesn't call me. In fact I get annoyed if he calls too often. BUT, if you say you are going to call ... you better ****ing call me when you said you would, or you don't get another call after that.
I don't care if a guy doesn't call me. In fact I get annoyed if he calls too often. BUT, if you say you are going to call ... you better ****ing call me when you said you would, or you don't get another call after that.
Maybe it's just me...
I don't about you guys but personally love to leave chicks hangin.
Really, instead of saying something like
"I'll call you at yada yada"
I usually say something along the lines of
"Listen, imma try to remember to call you but I'll probably forget so CALL ME IF I DON'T."
yea, i know, i know, someones gonna give me the 'don't let her have too much power' bvll****. but it's a damn good test of her IL, and if she is interested you'll have the power.(Trust me)
and realistically, women usually do decide how far the relationship goes physically (unless your mike tyson) so her IL should be important to you
I don't about you guys but personally love to leave chicks hangin.
Really, instead of saying something like
"I'll call you at yada yada"
I usually say something along the lines of
"Listen, imma try to remember to call you but I'll probably forget so CALL ME IF I DON'T."
yea, i know, i know, someones gonna give me the 'don't let her have too much power' bvll****. but it's a damn good test of her IL, and if she is interested you'll have the power.(Trust me)
and realistically, women usually do decide how far the relationship goes physically (unless your mike tyson) so her IL should be important to you