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Imagine that there is a space between you and another person. What is the best way for you to meet the other one? One person may say that the best way is to walk towards that person, but then you are giving that person a choice; to reject you or not.
If you instead have a trail of candy going from you to the other person, and that person begins to eat from it, every time she takes another sweet, she is one step closer to you. When you two meet, she will think that she was the one coming to you, when you all the time knew that it was you who made her come to you. This leaves you in a powerful position, you will have the power to reject or not. She does not know if you are interessted or not.
There's a few ways you can do this: (note, ALL these things I have tried WITH success most of the time!)
* When you have matching clothes to hers, try to appear in her vicinity doing something, but don't pay her any attention. Try to behave as her, moving your body as she does. When she feeds the ducks, do the same, i she is yawning, do the same, if she is looking tired, look tired. If she is interrested or curious, she will approach you. The best pick-up-artist is the one that make the girl believe that she is picking you up. This is the essence of female power, we think that we are in control, but by showing to be inferior to us, they instead control us.
* Become interrested in her friend; then try to become friend with her (the girl you really want). When you talk, send her mixed signals. Talk as a friend with her, but with the body language, show something else. Give a flirting comment sometime and don't harass her with interrest. She will probably start to wonder about what your interrest are. The best things with starting of as friends is that you will be able to get KINO in a good non-threatening way, you can find out how she is deep inside. (which you can use to make her interrested(try to figure out what she is missing in her life, what the perfect relationship should be, what things she would like in a boy(don't simply ask these things but figure them out of what she says, what she wears and how she behave)))
All the time you should be going out with her friend. Having a great time, and showing how happy you are. Then suddenly when you know that she is interrested in you, ask her that you want to meet her. Tell her that you have a secret to tell her. When you meet, say something like this:
"I have been very unsure of what I should do, but I have figured out that this is one thing that I must tell you! (name of girl) are saying awful things about you when we are alone, like (insert things that you know that the girl you talk to are insecure about) and I feel very bad when she does. (maybe a tear or two here would fit good, tears seems genuine and cover up manipulation) blablabla, I know that it might sound outrageues, but the next time you meet, don't tell her what I have said, instead listen to how she tells things to you, look at how she looks at you´then you will find the answer yourself."
This will probably boost your intimacy since you are telling something of the expense of another person you like.
The next time the girls meet then the girl you like will hang on to every word she says, every look she gives, and filter out everything except the negative things. (I have not tested, but saying these things to both of the girls would maybe be a good idea since when you study people you have a certain look on your face). Now their friendship will probably go down and you can grab the girl you like for yours and noone will blame you.
* Another way of getting her to do the work is to surround yourself with as many girls as possible, create a reputation that you have something that other boys don't have. Try to be in the girls vicinity and have some other girl with you, show how fun you are. Then when you know that this girl is mildly interrested, get into her vicinity alone. Probably she will approach. This is a bit unsure but it often works.
If you instead have a trail of candy going from you to the other person, and that person begins to eat from it, every time she takes another sweet, she is one step closer to you. When you two meet, she will think that she was the one coming to you, when you all the time knew that it was you who made her come to you. This leaves you in a powerful position, you will have the power to reject or not. She does not know if you are interessted or not.
There's a few ways you can do this: (note, ALL these things I have tried WITH success most of the time!)
* When you have matching clothes to hers, try to appear in her vicinity doing something, but don't pay her any attention. Try to behave as her, moving your body as she does. When she feeds the ducks, do the same, i she is yawning, do the same, if she is looking tired, look tired. If she is interrested or curious, she will approach you. The best pick-up-artist is the one that make the girl believe that she is picking you up. This is the essence of female power, we think that we are in control, but by showing to be inferior to us, they instead control us.
* Become interrested in her friend; then try to become friend with her (the girl you really want). When you talk, send her mixed signals. Talk as a friend with her, but with the body language, show something else. Give a flirting comment sometime and don't harass her with interrest. She will probably start to wonder about what your interrest are. The best things with starting of as friends is that you will be able to get KINO in a good non-threatening way, you can find out how she is deep inside. (which you can use to make her interrested(try to figure out what she is missing in her life, what the perfect relationship should be, what things she would like in a boy(don't simply ask these things but figure them out of what she says, what she wears and how she behave)))
All the time you should be going out with her friend. Having a great time, and showing how happy you are. Then suddenly when you know that she is interrested in you, ask her that you want to meet her. Tell her that you have a secret to tell her. When you meet, say something like this:
"I have been very unsure of what I should do, but I have figured out that this is one thing that I must tell you! (name of girl) are saying awful things about you when we are alone, like (insert things that you know that the girl you talk to are insecure about) and I feel very bad when she does. (maybe a tear or two here would fit good, tears seems genuine and cover up manipulation) blablabla, I know that it might sound outrageues, but the next time you meet, don't tell her what I have said, instead listen to how she tells things to you, look at how she looks at you´then you will find the answer yourself."
This will probably boost your intimacy since you are telling something of the expense of another person you like.
The next time the girls meet then the girl you like will hang on to every word she says, every look she gives, and filter out everything except the negative things. (I have not tested, but saying these things to both of the girls would maybe be a good idea since when you study people you have a certain look on your face). Now their friendship will probably go down and you can grab the girl you like for yours and noone will blame you.
* Another way of getting her to do the work is to surround yourself with as many girls as possible, create a reputation that you have something that other boys don't have. Try to be in the girls vicinity and have some other girl with you, show how fun you are. Then when you know that this girl is mildly interrested, get into her vicinity alone. Probably she will approach. This is a bit unsure but it often works.
