Recently, and in my path toward self-improvement, I have decided not to give attention to women who think they're "too hot." The kinds of women who, when they walk into a room, not only expect, but are quite certain that they would get most men's faces to turn toward them. They will get attention, men will become nervous, they would sense that most men would want to approach them, but only a few will have the guts to do so. And more often than not, it happens just the way they want.
Last summer, I noticed this very tall, slender blonde chick at my gym. She has some amazingly long legs, and her ass shakes when she walks. She often used to run on the treadmill for about an hour and a half. One afternoon on my way out of the gym, she was coming in, and I smiled and said "hello" to her, to which she responded saying, "hi." After that, I kept waiting for a chance to make a move on her, and I think she sensed it. Since then, I realized that whenever I tried to make eye contact with her, she would look away so that our eyes don't meet. And the vibe I was getting persuaded me without a doubt that even if I tried to motion her toward me with my hand or to ask her to excuse me so that I could talk to her, she was going to try to make a fool out of me. So I let it be and simply focused on lifting my weights and improving on my physical build.
It's been several months since I saw this chick, and she doesn't seem to come to the gym that often anymore, but I saw her last Saturday and also on another Saturday several weeks prior to that. Interestingly, when she sees me now, she looks in my direction. The first time she saw me after such a long while, I had probably changed quite a lot physically, and wasn't the skinny guy struggling to develop muscle mass like I was in the past. Now, my biceps, especially, are quite noticeable. This time, I find myself in the awkward position of acting as if I don't see her or notice her. I don't even bother to look at her or give her the attention she desires. I know she expects me, based on my previous interest, which I think she realized, to walk up to her and try to hit on her. I haven't done any of these things. In fact, whenever I see her, I just stay straight faced and mind my own business. Last summer, she often gave me the impression that she was avoiding coming near any machines I was using so that I won't get a chance to try to talk to her-she was avoiding me, basically; but last Saturday, when I happened to be in an area around her, she made eye contact with me as if she was expecting me to say something. At one point, she actually left the machine on which she was working out, came right to my own section, walked right past me in a circle, and then went back to the machine she was using. It's really amazing.
Then there's also this black lady, now a senior in college, at my university, who I hit on two semesters ago. We went out on a date, I thought the vibe between us was good, but when I called her after our date, she never replied to my voicemail and it ended that way. Every now and then, I run into her at my computer lab at school. I haven't bothered to say anything to her. In fact, we've walked past each other quite a few times, but at every turn, I just stay focused on what I'm doing-typing my papers, studying, looking straight and ignoring her presence, etc. I've been acting as if we never met and she's been doing the same as well. Interestingly, yesterday morning, she was walking toward me in the hallway and she looked at me straight in the face, she slowed down, she gave off a vibe as if she would have liked to say something to me, but I remained straight faced and kept on looking straight, acting as if she wasn't even there, as if I didn't see her.
It seems to me that when a woman does you wrong, enjoys receiving attention from you, or rejects you for a superficial reason...if you accept the rejection and move on, or start behaving in an unpredictable and unexpected manner, she suddenly starts to show an interest in you because she's no longer getting the attention. She misses the attention she once enjoyed. I can say for sure that I'm certain it was a good decision for me to switch my working out days at the gym because of my former oneitis. While I could care less what she does, who she sees and have no interest in getting back with her, the constant lack of communication between us, her inability now to find a venue where she is certain to run into me to play off a "power trip," certainly works in my favor. It shows her that not only have I moved on, but that I have a life. It shows her that she is a past I am unwilling to revisit, and not having been in contact with me for so long definitely shows her that I am a new man.
Last summer, I noticed this very tall, slender blonde chick at my gym. She has some amazingly long legs, and her ass shakes when she walks. She often used to run on the treadmill for about an hour and a half. One afternoon on my way out of the gym, she was coming in, and I smiled and said "hello" to her, to which she responded saying, "hi." After that, I kept waiting for a chance to make a move on her, and I think she sensed it. Since then, I realized that whenever I tried to make eye contact with her, she would look away so that our eyes don't meet. And the vibe I was getting persuaded me without a doubt that even if I tried to motion her toward me with my hand or to ask her to excuse me so that I could talk to her, she was going to try to make a fool out of me. So I let it be and simply focused on lifting my weights and improving on my physical build.
It's been several months since I saw this chick, and she doesn't seem to come to the gym that often anymore, but I saw her last Saturday and also on another Saturday several weeks prior to that. Interestingly, when she sees me now, she looks in my direction. The first time she saw me after such a long while, I had probably changed quite a lot physically, and wasn't the skinny guy struggling to develop muscle mass like I was in the past. Now, my biceps, especially, are quite noticeable. This time, I find myself in the awkward position of acting as if I don't see her or notice her. I don't even bother to look at her or give her the attention she desires. I know she expects me, based on my previous interest, which I think she realized, to walk up to her and try to hit on her. I haven't done any of these things. In fact, whenever I see her, I just stay straight faced and mind my own business. Last summer, she often gave me the impression that she was avoiding coming near any machines I was using so that I won't get a chance to try to talk to her-she was avoiding me, basically; but last Saturday, when I happened to be in an area around her, she made eye contact with me as if she was expecting me to say something. At one point, she actually left the machine on which she was working out, came right to my own section, walked right past me in a circle, and then went back to the machine she was using. It's really amazing.
Then there's also this black lady, now a senior in college, at my university, who I hit on two semesters ago. We went out on a date, I thought the vibe between us was good, but when I called her after our date, she never replied to my voicemail and it ended that way. Every now and then, I run into her at my computer lab at school. I haven't bothered to say anything to her. In fact, we've walked past each other quite a few times, but at every turn, I just stay focused on what I'm doing-typing my papers, studying, looking straight and ignoring her presence, etc. I've been acting as if we never met and she's been doing the same as well. Interestingly, yesterday morning, she was walking toward me in the hallway and she looked at me straight in the face, she slowed down, she gave off a vibe as if she would have liked to say something to me, but I remained straight faced and kept on looking straight, acting as if she wasn't even there, as if I didn't see her.
It seems to me that when a woman does you wrong, enjoys receiving attention from you, or rejects you for a superficial reason...if you accept the rejection and move on, or start behaving in an unpredictable and unexpected manner, she suddenly starts to show an interest in you because she's no longer getting the attention. She misses the attention she once enjoyed. I can say for sure that I'm certain it was a good decision for me to switch my working out days at the gym because of my former oneitis. While I could care less what she does, who she sees and have no interest in getting back with her, the constant lack of communication between us, her inability now to find a venue where she is certain to run into me to play off a "power trip," certainly works in my favor. It shows her that not only have I moved on, but that I have a life. It shows her that she is a past I am unwilling to revisit, and not having been in contact with me for so long definitely shows her that I am a new man.