Lean, mean, muscle machine....

[Belmar2009]

I want to hear from guys who have transformed there bodies into lean, mean muscle machines.

How has it improved your confidence?

How do women react to you? Do women stare at your more or ogle you more?

Do women approach you now?

I am 6'0 and 185lbs.....In pretty good shape, but not a lean, mean muscle machine yet. I go to gym 5 days a week....lift one body part and then do cardio.

 

[Drum&Bass]

confidence definitely grows BIG TIME !!!!! in fact if you dont have self control and go out of your way to be nice to people, jealousy will creep in and people will think your a tough guy that needs to get knocked down a notch. Its easy to become a douche or meat head jerk so you gotta figure out who you are as a person and choose which role you gonna play.

Alot of times women will be intimidated by me or they think Im after 1 thing which is mostly true but not always.

Other times I get girls that use me for confidence boosters to help take there mind off the the dorks they settled with. Other times women will cop free feels, which isnt as nice as you would think and annoying as hell.

I can get away with staring at womens bodies without worrying about anything because they like that a fit guy is thinking about them sexually.

Honestly though, the game doesn't get any easier, women will act like they wanna f-ck but when you actually try to take things to the next level they all act the same...shy, scared, flaky

If your game is weak, being fit wont really help you out that much. However if your good at talking with women and your fit, you will have a much higher chance of sleeping with them.

 

[lorekeeper]

when i seriously went to the gym i was in a depressive funk. I lost 20lbs then gained 60 bringing me up to 265. I was the strongest i ever was in my life and once benched 315 5x5x5 I can barely do 135 now. my confidence was through the roof but i was very intimidating. I had a 8 inch goatee and a shaved head. yeah, it didnt help that i scared a lot of prospects away but i did have confidence

I'm 220 now and ready to hit back the gym. I'd like to lose weight this time, and im all clean shaven lets see what happens

 

[muscleman]

Confidence increases a lot. You get more respect from guys and girls. No one really wants to fvck with you when you get to a certain size (only other big guys can take you ... and all the ones I've met are cool and don't want ... it's like you're party of a family).

You will get a lot more attention from girls, but if you have no game/don't approach it won't make a difference.

It's not a panty dropper if that's what you're asking, but it helps. You should do it for yourself though. That sounds cliche but it's true. If you lift to get girls you'll never become elite because of lack of true motivation.

 

[TheAsianLover]

I'm a beefcake. I didn't get women when I was all buffed out.

When I became confident and built, a whole new world of p*ssy opened up to me.

I got buffed pretty quickly through dedication and trial and error. Confidence took much longer.

 

[JCballin88]

Over the last 16 months of hitting the gym hard and eating I went from about 175 pounds to 200 (I'm 5'11")

A lot of my guy friends here at college have told me how much more ripped/jacked/bigger I am, etc, but I have a problem of always seeing that "scrawny me" in the mirror. It's only when I look at pictures of myself or something that I think "wow I actually do look a little bigger."

Since I'm probably in my head too much, I have honestly not noticed any real difference in response from women since I buffed up. Obviously I can't exactly walk around topless at college, so sometimes it's hard to notice. I do feel like my shirts are fitting more snugly on my chest and stuff, but I have really not have any change at all in women checking me out from what I can tell :/