Lay Report: That weird thing you are feeling is sexual tension

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Don Juan
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Quick Summary:
60 days NC from the last girl I was serious about
Plate 1: Not Banged. Barely any time to hang out with her, she’s not going anywhere.
Plate 2: Banged!
Plate 3: Banged!
Plate 4: First date planned this weekend

Plate 3 was super easy. She was actually a POF pick-up who messaged me first, so interest level was a given. I did not waste time on POF writing endless emails. I told her I didn’t like trying to get to know someone online, and that I was a face-to-face guy. Got her number and suggested grabbing a beer from a local bar.

Next two weeks, I hardly text her at all. No how are you doing or crap that that, just a few texts to setup a meet. Two weeks straight she flaked. I just was like whatever, I’ll be in touch.

Third (and final if no results) I send a text that said “Sunday Funday?” We met up for drinks after she got off work.

She’s a solid 7, maybe 7.5. Very shy, nerdy art girl with cool glasses. Her clothes were nice looking but loose, so I couldn’t really tell what her figure was like.

I have to admit, I didn’t game her very hard on the first day. I found her pretty interesting, and found myself actually having real conversations. This was also my first POF pick-up, so I felt a little weird being on a blind ‘date’. This caused me to stumble a little bit at the end of the night when I walked her back to her car. Didn’t go for the kiss close because I was wondering if I built up attraction enough or if she was just shy, pretty weak!

We agreed to hang out again during the week to play some music. I recovered from my lack of closing by texting her “totally would have went for the kiss, but I have pizza breathe, so I thought I’d spare you!”

Her reply “ Maybe next time ;)

My reply: A photo of Donkey Kong with the words “It’s on like me!”

We make plans to play music at my house, she brings her guitar. We rock out. She is impressed. I catch her twirling her hair like crazy. Light conversation, few glasses of wine, very causal. At 1AM in the morning, I tell her it’s getting late and she makes this show up looking up directions on getting home on her phone.

Most guys don’t know what sexual tension really feels like. Well, when you are new to women, you feel this weird awkwardness and if you don’t understand the game, you are frozen up thinking “oh man, this feels like the right time to make a move, should I make a move?”

You don’t realize it, but what you are feeling is the sexual tension and you just aren’t comfortable with it yet. You are picking up this ALL SYSTEMS GO signal and you don’t know what it means because you are inexperienced.

Trust your gut and bring it. Once you recognize what sexual tension really feel likes, you will respond completely differently.

I just push her hand down away from her phone, and say “come here” We start kissing. From there it’s to the couch for a make-out session where her boobs come out. Then I take her hand and lead her to the bedroom, and it’s on.

Turns out she had a great body under those nerdy clothes.

First date with plate 4 should happen this weekend!
 

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Nicely done!

I'm impressed that the "pizza breathe" line didn't blow you out of the water. I was just waiting for the follow-up about how you recovered from it, but it seemed like it actually worked.
 
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