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Lasting longer in the bed?

women haze

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I tried a search on this issue, but I did not meet much success. Is there any tips on keeping an erection and lasting longer when having sex with a hb9?

Any techniques for experienced DJ's out there?
 

danro

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Do kegel exercises. If you don't know what they are you can google search them, but basically all you have to do is clench the muscle that would stop the flow of urine. Just keep tensing it and releasing for a couple minutes every day. These exercises usually help eliminate premature ejaculation, help you last longer in bed, can help men experience multiple orgasms (if you gain enough control over your kegels), and provide a harder erection. Hope doing these helps you out!
 

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Nothin wrong w/ busting quickly if you're back ready to go right away
 

piranha45

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Use a condom.
 

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I think the idea of lasting long is way overrated, and is mainly a militant feminist thing. Anything over 15 minutes of strong sex (for the first ejaculation) is too long. It's far better to get in good healthy shape to be able to reload for a 2nd, 3rd, 4th time.
 

bukowski_merit

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MatureDJ said:
I think the idea of lasting long is way overrated, and is mainly a militant feminist thing. Anything over 15 minutes of strong sex (for the first ejaculation) is too long. It's far better to get in good healthy shape to be able to reload for a 2nd, 3rd, 4th time.
why would lasting long be a militant feminist thing??? if two people enjoy having long powerful sex - how it that 'militant feminisim?'....

i agree with your second statement... about going more times afterwards....
 

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kegels! there is actually a VERY GOOD article on kegel excercies on this site....search for it!
 

DJinTraining06

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Irs88 said:
kegels! there is actually a VERY GOOD article on kegel excercies on this site....search for it!
Just curious how many of you who have trouble lasting long drink alot of coffee or at least 2 or 3 cups a day. I've read some stuff about how caffeine in particular coffee can cause premature ejaculation. This website i saw said that in alot of cases many men eliminate their premature ejacualtion by not drinking coffee anymore. It said that caffeine does soemthing to the parsympathetic nerve or somethign like that, and causes you to lose voluntary control over it, thus cvmming to soon. I've noticed very recently that if i have sex within 1 or 2, even 3 hours of having my last cup of coffee i am terrible in bed and cvm in like a minute if i dont stop and start a little, and even then sometimes i cant even stop it. But when i have sex later in the day at least 4 or 5 hrs from my last caffeinated beverage which is usually around 3 or 4 pm, i can last alot longer, sometimes as long as i want. I also find that when im tired i dont last very long and when im well rested i am better. Also when i do exercise earlier in the day i usually last longer. I think erection strenght also has somethign to do with how long u can last, but nothing ive noticed is as major as the coffee thing.
I'm thinking bout giving up the coffee. it's very hard for me though, ive made it such a huge part of my life. Im crazy addicted and i really like the taste too. I also like having the cup to sip from when im doin soemthing, its like a psychological thing.
 

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MatureDJ said:
I think the idea of lasting long is way overrated, and is mainly a militant feminist thing. Anything over 15 minutes of strong sex (for the first ejaculation) is too long. It's far better to get in good healthy shape to be able to reload for a 2nd, 3rd, 4th time.
I think the people that are suffering from this last alot less than 15 minutes. believe me coming from someone who has dealt with this a little, i wisah i could last 5 mintues sometimes let alone 15. Guys with PE cvm in like a min or 2, and some of the extreme cases cvm before pentration which is just insane to me, i cant even imagine that. Now when u say 15 minutes, are u talking about 15 minutes of noninterrupted thrusting? Or do u get close to cvmming and stop for a few seconds here and there. I mean obviouisly ur not a robot u gotta take abreather every once in a while but im talkin bout intentional stopping so u dont come.
 
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