Last post about the room mate I promise

[Jaun_Don]

I just need to know why the **** she messes with and stays in my head so much...why?

This is actually amusing but it annoys me as well.

Okay, she moves out this weekend (finally) and she has been staying with friends but boy she has made this move as drawn as out as she can, half of her **** is still here.

But this is what annoys me, she comes home and does little things like look in her cupboards and the fridge but here is the thing she has hardly anything in there, and she did this one weekend when I was talking too a girl on the phone and she always looks at me without saying anything, anyways she heard me say this girls name and came back in and told me off about not shutting her door when I was showing new roomies.

she then walked in and grabbed a sheet off her couch when there was so much else she could have taken.

She did the same thing on Friday night and came home with a friend looked in her cupboards and fridge and then said "right shall we have that coffee"?

She came home yesterday and gave me a strange look then went upstairs and did god know what as she took nothing I have to open her windows and doors everyday to air her room out as her horrid perfume is trapped in the walls

So, today I rang her at work because i needed to talk with her about home stuff, I left a message but she didn't call back NO instead she came home and bought a friend with her, came in the door looked at me and went up to her room and played a CD really loud...now this is funny

she has this t-shirt right that was too small for me so my ****sucking ex friend gave it too her (I am sure it was planned that way) anyway I said to her "why do you rock a t-shirt of a group you never listen too?" and she snapped back and said "How the **** do you know I don't listen to them?"
and I said because I hear the music you play idiot"

so yeah she played the CD of the group on her T-Shirt and then spent 20 minutes or so upstairs,came back down slammed the door then left.

All I want to know is, is she doing this **** to annoy me?

I know you will think I am analyzing **** but the truth is I don't want too and I don't understand why I do...please help...and oh yeah this is funny too, the other room mate (the ugly one) told me that K was right I was a nasty person to be around but this ***** moved next door on Sunday???

any thoughts?

don't diss me, please just know that I am asking for help here...too me it seems like little games she gets off on and for the record we don't talk too each other as we just fight and I am bored with it, bored with it all.

I said this was the last thread about her and it is.

 

[NewMan]

because she knows it fvcks with you.

really, how many times does it need to be said?

 

[WestCoaster]

For the MILLIONTH TIME ...

... everyone here, listen up: Quit trying to read women's minds/thoughts and actions! Stop it, just stop it, quit doing it.

Why does she do these things? Because she's a woman and she's illogical.

Why does she act like this? Because she's a highly emotional person.

Why does she do X, Y, and Z? Because she likes to push your buttons?

Why does she do any of this? Because she's a WOMAN!

How freaking complicated is this anyway? Why are all the fellas here trying to figure out women? That's for the high school board. They do things just because ... honestly, do you really think there's logic behind most women's motives? C'mon ... read the paralysis by analysis post below.

Also, even if you figured out what this woman is doing and why she's doing it, what good what it do? Would you lecture her on it to prove you're right? She wouldn't listen anyway.

Read "Kiss of Death" also ... it's in the articles section by Allen Thompson, great read.

Why in the h-ll are guys trying to decipher the female psyche?! It's an utter, complete waste of time.

The initial post here is some of the biggest AFC stuff I've ever read. Here's an idea: Get a new living situation, find some guy friends to pound brews and do sports with, meet and date dozens of women, and find those nads of yours that you lost in your apartment.

 

[flexion_]

The more you think about it the more down the path to the oneitis darkside you will go.

Start dating other women that don't live or work with you and develop your own life at work and at home.

 

[Jaun_Don]

Re: For the MILLIONTH TIME ...

The initial post here is some of the biggest AFC stuff I've ever read. Here's an idea: Get a new living situation, find some guy friends to pound brews and do sports with, meet and date dozens of women, and find those nads of yours that you lost in your apartment. [/B]

I am far from an AFC and if you bothered to read my full post then you would see that i actually DON'T want to think about this **** and annoys me that I do, I have already got the new roomies and it is 2 guys who move in next week, I have a date this weekend...again thanks for your advice but I was only reaching out and tellling you that I don't want to think about this ***** and her actions and you are right it is illogical.

 

[Golden Arms]

OK, I just have one question - What does this have to do with DJing ? Shouldn't you be posting this on a roommate forum or something ?

 

[penkitten]

shes doing this because she can .
shes doing this because she thinks it is funny.
shes doing this because you have not put your foot down.

is she paying any rent? is she on your lease with you?

when you let me know these things, i will let you know exactly what to do to finish this whole thing.

 

[Lost In Translation]

so everyone knows your back story

your other threads

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=80656

and

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=81744

go back and read those threads Jaun_Don

see what you wrote and see what was going on

Quote : WestCoaster
Why in the h-ll are guys trying to decipher the female psyche?! It's an utter, complete waste of time.

he is 100% right and that is your problem

all these months later you are still trying to understand why she hates you and wants you dead

the answer is obvious and it is in your old posts

go back and read your original threads i posted links to

stop trying to have sympathy for the devil


Lost In Translation

**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**

" stop being insecure " i hate that saying. it's a cop out for not having enough balls to confront a woman about what she is doing THAT IS WRONG or potentially damaging to a long term relationship. – Lost In Translation

 

[Jaun_Don]

Originally posted by penkitten
shes doing this because she can .
shes doing this because she thinks it is funny.
shes doing this because you have not put your foot down.

is she paying any rent? is she on your lease with you?

when you let me know these things, i will let you know exactly what to do to finish this whole thing.

Her rent payments end tommorow, no she isn't on the lease...she tried to get me kicked out twice but it didn't work...she moves out on Sunday, but she hasn't really put the effort in to shift all her stuff out, it has been a long, annoying and drawn out past couple of weeks.

What do you mean I haven't put my foot down penkitten?

 

[penkitten]

she isnt on the lease anywhere so she isnt legally binded into being your roommate, and as of now she doesnt owe any money for rent.
when sunday comes , if she doesnt pack it all up, it still gets packed up.
id wait until the next day just to be a good guy and after that id pack her crap up and place it outside the front door.

 

[amano]

Ok heres the scoop.

She is probably madly in love with you. She is waiting for you to profess your love at which point she will say "Ive always felt
the same about you" and you will have mad animal sex right on the spot. Then she will move back in and you will live happily ever after....

Sounds like thats all you want to hear at least...

Get over your damn Oneitis already. As much as you say you dont have it, its tattoo'd on your forehead.

 

[Jaun_Don]

Originally posted by amano
Ok heres the scoop.

She is probably madly in love with you. She is waiting for you to profess your love at which point she will say "Ive always felt
the same about you" and you will have mad animal sex right on the spot. Then she will move back in and you will live happily ever after....

Sounds like thats all you want to hear at least...

Get over your damn Oneitis already. As much as you say you dont have it, its tattoo'd on your forehead.

WRONG...read the post again please...I wanted to know why she does all this **** that ****s with my head and what she is trying to gain from it all, I have no attraction to her anymore and haven't for a long time.

She is a worthless groupie slag that I have heard many stories about, I wouldn't put my **** anywear near this walking disease/mattress.

It's nothing about oneitis dude...it's about she has already ruined my ****ing life so why is she still doing this dumb ****.

I just don't understand and the other posters are right what is the point in trying to figure her out.

The thing is for me is she is still in my life and that is why i think about this dumb ****, it constricts me but it will all be a different story next week...thank christ.

To sum it all up it has always felt like that she has punished me for liking her and that is just insane and abnormal behaviour and I miss my friend ...****ing sue me I'm only human.

 

[NewMan]

People fvck with your head because YOU let them.

End of story.

it's about she has already ruined my ****ing life so why is she still doing this dumb ****.

that is why she fvcks with you.

you've got to toughen up, and stop being so mentally weak - and letting any ho get to you. You let a Ho get to you and you are in a world of hurt.

 

[penkitten]

i agree

change the locks, set her stuff out and be done with her.
find a better room mate.
in fact , theres a guy on the anything else board who is looking for a new place to rent because of his stupid roommate/landlord.
if you are anywhere near the same area as him, have him move in with you and share the rent . look up willie sacks
2 problems solved at once !

 

[Jaun_Don]

You screwed up when you ended this crap when your buddy screwed her. You broke the code. Your put a ho before a bro. How messed up is that .

NOT me my friend that was HIM...he broke the code, all 3 of us had a good friendship and we used to hang out and go out a lot together...He Broke the code, I don't see why I am the one to blame for this...

I have told her exactly what I think of her is that not having balls?, she gets really pissed and upset when I tell her she is a ***** and I don't want her in my life.

It's human nature to care about people, I don't actually enjoy having enemies in my life and she did thank me when I picked the clothes up from the street and she never told me to **** off when I tried too help her find a place.

So now after all that you realized that it was a mistake to do all that you did so now your trying to do a quick fix situation by getting her out of your house.

It's not a quick fix situation at all, we don't get on and are very, very different people...I want nothing to do with her and have wanted her out for a long time, again she tried to get me thrown out twice but it didn't work. and I DON'T want a connection with her of any sort, we aren't friends and never will be...it's as simple as that.

I was over her a longtime ago, you can think that I'm not but I KNOW ME...I got the answer I was looking for in your reply anyway so thanks

You can’t get over someone if they’re still in your face.

You still have interactions with this girl that it is why you still can’t get her out of your mind.
You can’t get over someone if they’re still in your face.

EXACTLY and she FINALLY leaves on Sunday but yeah it has annoyed me that she has drawn this move out I am going to call her today and say I want you out on Saturday as I have someone moving in on Sunday and if she isn't out then yep I will put her **** out on the street.

I don't think she has ever had a guy tell her straight that she is a game playing ***** and this annoys her prissy, pretentious ass...she is a fake *****...I saw an old photo of her and it told me what I always knew she is all make up and she used to have really ugly stringy hair and a gap through her front teeth, she is a small town girl that moved to a big city and got the fake tan ****ed a few people in the "scene"
and tries to up her status but you know what she has never held down a long relationship and always gets burnt by guys.



It's all over after this weekend and I can be free and happy again, I can get her out of my house but sadly not my town

 

[Jaun_Don]

Originally posted by OneArmDeeJay
Thats were you are wrong my friend.

Reread the first sentence...



You all were friends not bf and gf just good friends.

They decided to take it to the next level. The level you wish you could take but you didn't and couldn't and for that you punished your friend.

He did nothing wrong.

He did NOT break the code. He never put her before you they just decided to get intimate.

It had nothing to do with YOU

But you saw it differently. You saw it as betrayal.

When everybody else saw it as them being more then friends.


You put ho before bro. You were willing to end and sacrificed everything for her.


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You told her you were interested and she turned you down.

Your friend had more game then you and got her.

Probably wasn’t even going to date her and still isn’t just probably was just going to be FB.

But instead of you congratulating him were you failed you c0cked blocked him and ended the friendship because YOU want her.



How selfish is that?

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I don’t blame her for all the stuff that she is doing to you.

You know why? You know why she looks at you a curtain way then walks off?

It’s because she knows why she's being kicked out not because she did anything wrong but because of your jealously.

If you can't have her then no one can or at least no one in your house.

You’re trying to look like the bigger man by kicking her out, your not.

I think it’s showing that you have some serious issues and priority problems.

I see it differently he used to diss me in front of her just too impress her, he was selfish and pretty much used me for free music, he would talk **** about me to other people,he lied to me about it and tried to hide it from me....he also **** blocked me from a friend of his I was interested in.

I haven't kicked her out she said she was going to move out, it has nothing to do with jealousy, it has to do with the FACT that we don't get on and cannot live together, I can't stand her or her disgusting perfume we have lived together for over 7 months and in that time we have fought and argued a hell of a lot even before my ****head ex friend ****ed her.

She is a status girl and uses people I have heard from people what she is really like, this is the reason she came to live in my town she ****ed too many people over where she last lived. and she did the same here, having her move in was the worst mistake I have ever made.

I don't have serious issues dude I just know what sort of people I like and get on with and both of those 2 are superfical and not real too me.

and NOT do anything wrong?, dude she lied to a girl I was dating...she deleted phone messages from other girls that is WRONG.

 

[Jaun_Don]

Originally posted by OneArmDeeJay
But I thought you said you were good friends?

All three of you.

Now how can this be so if he’s dissing you?

Are you sure he wasn’t being C&F and just teased you?

But now you see it differently after he banged her?

And I doubt blame him for lying about it because he knew you would blow up like you did.

And we told you this was going to happen when you have a chick as a flat mate. It wasn’t going to be like ‘Friends”. This is real life and shyt happens.

You don’t get along together because she just might be a psycho.

But remember you aren’t getting along because you want to bang her and you can’t so it’s frustrating for you.

Yeah I’m sure she is a real b1tch. But you got to realize she’s playing off of your strong emotions.

She knows what you want and she knows how to just push your buttons.

I’m glad you’re kicking this ho out. I don’t blame you.

But again how come you haven’t changed the locks?

Throw her stuff out side?

You keep giving her grace periods and excuses but I think we all know including you know the reason why.

No he wasn't being C & F...I saw the true him when we lived together and he turned out to be an arrogant **** that ****ted on me when I did so much for him, you didn't mention the **** blocking thing...that was a ****head thing to do.

I’m glad you’re kicking this ho out. I don’t blame you.

Thanks for saying that I think you are seeing how it is for me now...we were good friends but I have no time for either of them anymore...I haven't changed the locks because she moves out in the weekend and what's the point really?.

and please OneArm...I have no attraction to her, understand this...it faded a long time ago, it's just while she is still in my life it makes it hard to truly move on that's all...and that my friend is all I want to do and why I out this post up, I don't want to think about this bull**** or her actions or her behaviour.

 

[amano]

WRONG - Think
of it this way dude, if there was another girl (or girls) in your life you could focus your attention on none of her CRAP WOULD MATTER TO YOU. DO YOU NOT UNDERSTAND THAT?

This thread is pathetic because you refuse to admit to the real source of the problem, which is YOU. Keep crying about what she does, and keep showing us you care. Because thats what youre doing. You are still analyzing her every action. REREAD YOUR POST!

Sorry I wish I could feel for you bro but thats the truth. Go out, get in the field, meet some new women, and forget about this biatch. Please...

Originally posted by Jaun_Don
WRONG...read the post again please...I wanted to know why she does all this **** that ****s with my head and what she is trying to gain from it all, I have no attraction to her anymore and haven't for a long time.

 

[Jaun_Don]

^fair enough but you obviously haven't read the "I'm such and idiot"post then.

 

[Jaun_Don]

:cheer: She has FINALLY gone and I was thinking tonight that she has affected me in a lot of areas of my life that I just haven't really been me since she was in my life but now she has gone and I am free from the blonde poison .I feel free, relaxed and happy again.



oh and for the record, her and my ex friend are no longer seeing each other, she cut it off.