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last night i dreamt that i was a man...

iqqi

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and boy was i the sh!t!!!!

i dreamt that i was a man in bed with a woman. but i was both the man and the woman! (dreams!)

for the sake of clarity i will call the man hiqqirius and the woman sheiq.

i, hiqqirius, was in bed with the beautiful sheiq. we were leisurely just abandoning reality for the sheer pleasure of each other's company. whenever i felt like it, i would do what i wanted to sheiq's body. it was as if it was a buffet for my pleasure to sample whatever i wanted. i was in no hurry to appease my hunger. i sampled, and tasted, and savored each bite, each lick, each kiss. i lapped at the fountain of sheiq. and then i would lay back on my back and rest, and sleep lazily. i enjoyed the smoothness of her legs, as they wrapped around my own. each touch of her fingers on my skin was tantalizing. as was each meeting of my own fingers apon her hot, lightly sweaty skin.
the room was dark, and we lay in a bed of red satin and silk. leisurely, and hedonistically, i played and tasted the body of sheiq. i was not concerned with my own "finish", because i was revelling in the fact that this was not to end.

and sheiq, how did she feel?

i was on fire the entire time. it was a slow burn where i was driven almost insane with desire. it was like being water, slowly simmered over a fire of tongues of flame. the entire time was sweet, exquisite torture, as i could not understand a man secure and self controlled enough to not just take me because i was ready. but to sit back, and declare that i was not ready just yet! and let me simmer and burn out of my mind even longer, to the point where even though he would not come inside of me to end this erotic need, i could still feel him, and it drove me even farther out of my mind. until i was so far from myself that i was no longer myself.

i was sheiq, and hiqqirius, and our bodies, and the passion and desire and the fire. and i was part of it, and content to burn at these stakes, in this fire. i was on his level and we were one with our need. we did not consume our need, it consumed us we let it.


ok, ok! what is the point?

the point, my dear juans, is to simmer and sample your pot, not hastily cook it and then devour it.
 

MVPlaya

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Hmm....

I think you just dreamt you were masturbating... its called a wet-dream.
 

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i envy womens sexuality in a way.

it seems they enjoy things a hell of a lot more than we do.

i don't mean that in a gay way its just that they have such a perfect understanding of true sensuality and the value of savoring something sweet.

us guys think foreplay is a neccessity and i don't think very many of uctually learn to enjoy it. i for one haven't completely learned to enjoy the whole experience, but i think i do a lot more than i used to.

don't change your male sexuality, no, but learn to enjoy every touch and feeling in a hightened way.

those of you who have studied tantra know what im talking about.

savor your cake:D
 

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Hmm...

I'm gonna tell this dream to my fb. See how she reacts. :)
 

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Originally posted by DEKKA
ithey have such a perfect understanding of true sensuality and the value of savoring something sweet.
dekka, trust me, it is NOT all women. most of my friends wouldn't have a clue, they are just like the men on here, more concerned with retarded sh!t like size and positions.

it is an individual trait, that a man can tap into as easily as a woman.
 

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Yeah, then find another chick who could "enjoy" such dreams too.
 

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Sensuality is everything =) There is nothing like spending alot of time and focus on the warmup. I like to get a girl so into it, so into the mood, so horny that breathing on her naked body makes her shiver in excitement and squeel. Then starting to stimulate downstairs but never lose focus on the whole thing. Sensuality is GREAT.
 
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It's just your gay side screaming for some action. you'll let it out or get over it.

Actually you are identifying with the fellas on this site too much. You need to get away for a while. Your a girl not a guy and this site is actually for guys to learn how to get next to "you".

I'm not one of those haters but I do have a point. Your spending too much time here...amongst dysfunctional men at that. That is why I've cut my time way back.
 

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Originally posted by iqqi
the point, my dear juans, is to simmer and sample your pot, not hastily cook it and then devour it.
Although there will always be a place for the quickie, rushing sex is, more often than not, like preparing a fine cut of Filet Mignon steak just to swallow the entire piece of steak in one gulp when you could derive much greater pleasure from savoring it one liesurely mouthful at a time. Leave the goldfish swallowing contests, the how-much-you-can-eat-how-fast contests to those unsophisticated palates who seek quantity above all, as they get caught in a vicious circle of using quantity to remedy their failure to fully appreciate any of the fleeting pleasures they hurriedly gulp down. By resisting the temptation to rush, slowing down to draw out and appreciate each and every sensation more fully, you are actually heightening your ability to feel, and your partner's as well, and you will both be rewarded by the discovery of more pleasure in each moment together than what you had ever expected to find.

DeepBlue
 

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hmmm...

Yo DJ Masters, tell me this...what am I to make of this thread? Is Iqqi comming on to me?

LoL

Iqqi, that was a verry interesting dream.
 

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ROFL

Freudian dream interpretation suggests she's not getting any :p
 
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*opens mouth to say something*

never mind ... too easy
 

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Originally posted by Player_Supreme
It's just your gay side screaming for some action. you'll let it out or get over it.

Actually you are identifying with the fellas on this site too much. You need to get away for a while. Your a girl not a guy and this site is actually for guys to learn how to get next to "you".

I'm not one of those haters but I do have a point. Your spending too much time here...amongst dysfunctional men at that. That is why I've cut my time way back.
Umm...I second this.

Seriously girlie, this site is fukkin you up. I don't think that anyone who actually has half a brain can take this website seriously.

I can barely find interesting things to read/post about for 15 minutes a day. Most of the stuff makes me want to jump through the screen and slap these silly nerd guys around.

I can't imagine what it must be like on the other side, seeing this sh*t and thinking that it is the "secret" mind of men.
 

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i think it just means that you have a complex personality/sexuality.
on the one hand you dreamt you were the guy who can be in control of things. and on the other hand you were also the woman who can be submissive without being thought of as a pansy.
it was probally just a dream that didnt really reflect too much but just came for your enjoyment:)
 

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Originally posted by DEKKA
i envy womens sexuality in a way.

it seems they enjoy things a hell of a lot more than we do.

i don't mean that in a gay way its just that they have such a perfect understanding of true sensuality and the value of savoring something sweet.

us guys think foreplay is a neccessity and i don't think very many of uctually learn to enjoy it. i for one haven't completely learned to enjoy the whole experience, but i think i do a lot more than i used to.

don't change your male sexuality, no, but learn to enjoy every touch and feeling in a hightened way.

those of you who have studied tantra know what im talking about.

savor your cake:D
Hey dude, even though I'm still a virgin "OH MY GOD HE SAID IT!!! hahaha", I have every bit the sensual side that is described here. My problem is that there is SO MUCH PRESSURE in these situations, in a sense I just want to get it over with.

So this is your loss you fvckin ladies. B1tches.
 

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Originally posted by icepick
I don't think that anyone who actually has half a brain can take this website seriously.

I can't imagine what it must be like on the other side, seeing this sh*t and thinking that it is the "secret" mind of men.
hmmm....did i imply this anywhere in my post that i thought that there was a "secret" mind of men?

there is no "secret" mind of men, no more than there is a "secret" mind of women. where did you get that from?

anyways, this wasn't to analyze my dream, it was to illustrate how strong of a desire you can create by withholding ultimate gratification. how maybe you should try forgetting your own needs for a moment to focus on your lover's, and to focus on less obvious body parts and sensations instead of obvious ones.

it was an illustration of sensuality.

oh, and damn! it was amazing to be both the man and the woman at the same time! can you imagine?!
 

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Originally posted by iqqi
hmmm....did i imply this anywhere in my post that i thought that there was a "secret" mind of men?

there is no "secret" mind of men, no more than there is a "secret" mind of women. where did you get that from?

sorry

i was just guessin that yall thought this when i see girls ask questions about what guys think of this or that. sorry to generalize.
 

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Originally posted by Kineti[C]harm
Sensuality is everything =) There is nothing like spending alot of time and focus on the warmup. I like to get a girl so into it, so into the mood, so horny that breathing on her naked body makes her shiver in excitement and squeel. Then starting to stimulate downstairs but never lose focus on the whole thing. Sensuality is GREAT.
Wow... that sounds just like my How To Make Her Orgasm thread. Its all about sensuality, you need to stimulate your partner in many ways. By the way, Iqqi, keeping this thread into account and the one where you talk homo-erotically about all women, Im beginning to wonder whether you've ever ended up on the "other side" of the bed.
 

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Wow, GET TO THE POINT! I DON'T WANT TO READ ALL YOUR POINTLESS DESCRIPTIONS.

You could have said "I had sex with a man in a dream of mine, and learned that you shouldn't rush through things."

If you're replying that's not enough to create a post about, YOU'RE RIGHT! THIS POST IS POINTLESS!

The lesson:

This is a forum, used to get ideas and opinions across, AND I DON'T NEED TO GO THOUGH YOUR CRAP. Jesus.

each touch of her fingers on my skin was tantalizing. as was each meeting of my own fingers apon her hot, lightly sweaty skin.
I DON'T CARE! GET TO THE POINT!

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I just had to say that. I don't care if anyone flames me, don't waste your time.
 

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Is this the prelude to when you admit
to everyone that you are a man?
 

It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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