Fruitbat
Master Don Juan
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So, kind of fvcked up by being too intense too early.
Plate basically called with "problems" with compatibility. Long discussion but at the end she seemed OK and issues dealt with. However, I lost a lot of frame and it felt as much as a shyt test as anything. I ended up being a bit weak and convicning her of why I was "right".....urrgh. She was super, super keen and then hit me with that out of the blue....that's why i think shyt test.
So, confirmed date earlier (e-mail, usually responds in 3 seconds, arranged before and happening monday) and had nothing back all day....shyt test failed.
So, I left it a long time. The only thing I could do to regain some frame was to dump her first. So, I basically called her on not responding, and sent " I am through with explaining anything and if you're not on board, I am out" roughly..
I have never been this ballsy but according to much of what I have read, this was probably the best thing to do for a woman with options, where you have lost all frame.
Otherwise, I felt a dump text coming back, and that would have been game over, forever.
I am probably dead anyway, but guys, this was the best move? I was basically becoming the keen one, justifying myself......I had to walk away. Even if she is still half interested, I don't see how this will hurt, given she isn't speaking for whatever reason.
I felt myself worrying and fvck that. I may have dumped a girl I like prematurely but I feel good not to be hanging on her word like a pvssy.
If she comes back wanting to see me I will say I made other plans. I have another plate I could possibly see that day anyway.
Thoughts?
Plate basically called with "problems" with compatibility. Long discussion but at the end she seemed OK and issues dealt with. However, I lost a lot of frame and it felt as much as a shyt test as anything. I ended up being a bit weak and convicning her of why I was "right".....urrgh. She was super, super keen and then hit me with that out of the blue....that's why i think shyt test.
So, confirmed date earlier (e-mail, usually responds in 3 seconds, arranged before and happening monday) and had nothing back all day....shyt test failed.
So, I left it a long time. The only thing I could do to regain some frame was to dump her first. So, I basically called her on not responding, and sent " I am through with explaining anything and if you're not on board, I am out" roughly..
I have never been this ballsy but according to much of what I have read, this was probably the best thing to do for a woman with options, where you have lost all frame.
Otherwise, I felt a dump text coming back, and that would have been game over, forever.
I am probably dead anyway, but guys, this was the best move? I was basically becoming the keen one, justifying myself......I had to walk away. Even if she is still half interested, I don't see how this will hurt, given she isn't speaking for whatever reason.
I felt myself worrying and fvck that. I may have dumped a girl I like prematurely but I feel good not to be hanging on her word like a pvssy.
If she comes back wanting to see me I will say I made other plans. I have another plate I could possibly see that day anyway.
Thoughts?
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