Kino...d'oh!

[abcd_z]

I've been following the Don Juan site fairly closely, but I didn't really look at the boards much. Big mistake. The site itself doesn't really cover kino too much, and I glossed right over it. A little later, I noticed one of my friends had quite a bit of luck with the ladies. I couldn't for the life of me figure out the difference between the two of us, until I read the boards. It makes sense now: he was doing kino! He didn't even realize that he was doing it, so he couldn't tell me how he was managing so well. Rather ironically, he's afraid of rejection, so hasn't gotten numbers or asked anybody out on a date or anything.

Anyhow, now that I'm aware of it, do any of you guys have suggestions as how to integrate kino into my normal approach? I normally maintain a little more than an arms-length of distance, and I can't for the life of me figure out how to work in kino. I'm not exactly what you'd call a touch-feely person.

Any suggestions?

 

[CrzyBadBoyDJ]

Well first thing that I'll tell you is to continue breaking out of your "comfort zone". You are already doing this when you approach girls, so you should try to integrate kino. Stay alittle closer sometime. Try putting your left hand onto her right shoulder and rub your thumb around on it, do this to judge how she reacts. If she pulls away, you might have gone to fast. Most girls won't react badly or slap you or anything so there isn't anything really to worry about. Just have fun with it.

 

[123guy]

Can somebody create a post for newbie Kino-ers?

The bible doenst really cover much on that..

For example, what is considered rude, and not..

For some people, they are known not to be the 'touchy type' so how can they change and become more touchy so they can kino some girls? Wont kino'ing come off as being a horn dog?

 

[Evil-Rom]

Wow, firstly, I would like to say THANK YOU!

At last, a newbie I see that can actually type and make sense! This is when people will actually TRY and help you! (like me )

Okay then, you want to integrate kino into your approach with new girls or is it with girls you currently know or want to "convert"?

I'll try and explain both if i can...
NB: This is taken from pimpologists post/s, "The ultimate kino guide" and my memory.

Approach:

"Hi, what's you name?" - Friendly voice!

Her saying her name is your cue to extend your hand.
*Reach out to shake hand* - FEMALE shake ie palm up. (The starter kino.)

Once you make hand contact say:

"It’s nice to meet you [her name] my name is [your name]”

When you or her are laughing, lightly brush her upper arm. Remember, kino (in first contact situations anyway) should not be noticed! It should also be natural with timing and duration being situational I guess.

"After you touch her, judge her reaction. If she touches you or smiles then you know your touch was acceptable and you can continue to use kino. Increase the frequency of your touches and move a little closer to share some personal space." - Lexomatic posted 10-12-2001

"If she reacts badly, like pulling away, opening a larger area of personal space between you two, or spraying you with mace and then kicking you in the balls, then chances are your kino was unwelcomed, too early, too clumsy, or she is just not interested in you. Actions speak louder than words. However, no damage is really done, so don’t worry about it. In fact you just did yourself a favor and found out what her interest really is. My advice would be to thank her for an interesting conversation and then move on. You can always come back and gage her interest gain after she sees you woo others with your DJ skills." - TesuqueRed posted 12-09-2001

Ummm... welcoming girls with hello and goodbye hugs gives social proof and "kino practice".

Tickling. Best. Kino. Ever. Just dont be an ass and do it in inappropiate situations or ALL THE TIME.

So yeah, Im tired now... thats all I could find and remember.

Links:

The Ultimate Kino Guide

Pimpology 101: The Conversation - Part I

The High School Don Juan Bible

Thank you have a nice day!

 

[abcd_z]

I just found an excellent page on kino (http://www.pickupguide.com/layguide/kino.htm).
Thanks for the advice guys, let me know if you have any more.