Kino and quelling the inner AFC

[Halo]

Last night I went out with this girl who I've been out with a few times before. We've kissed a lot but that's all. Anyway after our date last night, I asked if she'd like to come in for a few minutes, but it was already late and she had a long drive so she declined. We kissed some, and I felt her up a bit, then she left. For some reason though, I feel plagued with this nagging thought that I somehow screwed everything up.

Maybe I think that way because she is fairly religious, and I have this idea that she disapproves of my roving hand, though she certainly made no protest. I'm trying to remind myself that this is a completely AFC line of thought. What is the worse offense, pushing the sexual envelope or being too unaggressive?

Have you ever felt like you screwed something up, without knowing exactly why you feel that way? At any rate I think I will pull back and make no contact for a while. We've seen each other in pretty quick succession, so maybe that's my problem...I feel like I have overplayed my hand.

 

[GoodOlBoy]

Hmmm... I think what you're feeling is the disappointment of letting your fears get the best of you, by not continuing your kino. For the record, you should have. Also her interest level might be waning BECAUSE you aren't going for the kill. Next time push the intimacy envelope and I'll look forward to reading the lay report.

 

[DJ_Dork]

Push as far as you can go.. but if she starts resisting, stop! Girls like aggressive guys but not abusive.

 

[THA REALNESS]

What's up,
Halo ,it sounds like you either you wanted to take it a step futher or you really like her and you just want to take everything step by step to make it seem perfect for her.(how sweet)j/k.

In either case you should always go for the jackpot.

 

[Halo]

I guess my gut feeling was right with this one. We had previously talked about going to this art fest going on this weekend, so I called her Thursday and got her voice mail. I left a message telling her to call me and we'd check out the festival one night. Still nothing back from her. She had previously responded to my messages within a few hours.

I still don't think I did anything wrong though. By a fifth date what is the harm in feeling on a girl's tits while you're kissing? I've done a lot more than that with other girls, well before the fifth date too. Maybe I just got a prude this time? I guess it's time to ship her off to Nextville.