Kind of stuck.

spree8213

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Hello guys

I need some advice from you guys, who doesnt on this board.. A little background on the situation took a class with this girl during summer, had an idea she was interested in me looking at me, smiling etc but i didnt do anything and i let the opportunity slip by.. Then i saw her again in hallway when we got back to college, without really talking with her and getting to know her i asked for her # after about 30 seconds, and to my suprise she gave it to me.. I was suprised because i never opened my mouth to her and was thinking she is not gonna give her # to a stranger.

After that i called her few times. I didnt really wanted to go out with her yet so i asked if she wants to hang out between classes. We agreed that i would call her, so one of the days i called and asked her if she wanted to hang out, as we were agreeing where to meet in the school, cellphone went dead i didnt call her back. She called me back within 20 seconds. So we meet and we talked for about 5 minutes, she then said she had run to class which i thought she didnt have, but it turns out she did have a class at that time, and i made her late :D

Following that i didnt really care, saw each other couple of times in school kiss/hug small talk. Walked with her to train once. After that we lost contact for about a month, i saw her couple of times with some other kid, sometimes alone but i didnt approach just didnt feel like it. Yesterday. I text messaged all my friends at midnight (greetings) and i included her in the message for the fun of it, to see if she would respond or not, and she did with her greetings.

So basically my interest is increasing and i want to go out with her.. Should i call her tommorow? And just ask her out.. Or wait when we get back to school and then ask.. I actually planned to call her tommorow ask how her christmas, new years were etc and to ask her out... But im not sure how to ask, she is gonna be thinking this isweird this guy called me couple of times and then completely lost contact with me and now out of nowhere he is coming out asking if i would go out with him... Do you guys still think there is some interest on her part?
 

Grey Fox

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Wait till your back in class and take her out dancing, girls like that and good kino oppurtunity there.

-Grey Fox
 

California Love

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If you really wanted to, you can definitely attempt at a casual relationship with her. However, it seems as if her attraction is simply minimal - she may think that you are cute, and nothing more. It would be best to first look for other girls to add to your life. Going back for her is similar to trying to get back with an ex - it may or may not pay off, and will take a considerable amount of time and effort. In the end, it is simply a matter of choice. Ask yourself if you really need to be with this girl, and how much she actually means to you.
 

yankees13

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Well lol

She doesnt mean alot to me, but i feel it wouldnt hurt to make a another friend, and bang her a couple of times when im bored:D
 

Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.

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