Kind of a waste of our time no?

[narcissist]

I have a question for you guys.

Does anyone else get that feeling that chasing women is somewhat a complete waste of fvcking time ONCE you actually get good at it?

Of course, someone who has never kissed, or never had sex with a girl must spend a LITTLE bit of time getting good with girls and go through that experience. BUT for those of us who can actually sleep with at least 5 girls a year, it seems like a waste of our time in this ONE life to spend 50% of our week or more pursuing and focusing on women. And for what?

How does it really benefit us? sex? a little companionship for a very brief period of time? well to me that doesnt seem like a good trade. Our finite time for sex?

In the beginning stages the benefits are there of course - teaches us about confidence, and gets us out of that AFC mindstate. But after when we have a good grasp on red-pill/blue-pill shouldn't we be transforming into better men? Going past this? This CANT be the last stage of manhood. Getting good with women is just the beginning.

I feel like actually going out and trying to contribute something to this world would be FAR more fulfilling than putting SO much damn effort into chasing some pvssy. Like writing a book, or getting a PHD, or mastering a martial art, or developing a new technology.

The formula for women is simple: A unhealthy amount of confidence, being on a path of self-improvement, talk to as many as possible, find the ones who are interested, escalate to sex, and dont be affected by the inevitable drama that follows. SIMPLE. But it seems like a lot of guys spend decades focusing on women, and get all tangled up in their own self induced complexities, perplexing over the solutions to their seemingly endless women problems.

I say if you are not good with women, learn the formula, master it, and when you can comfortably sleep with 5 new women each year, move the fvck on to the next stage of life. DONT become consumed with the endless phalanx of issues that derive from chasing women. Move on to what you are going to contribute to this world and how you are going to change society for the better. Chase enlightenment not fvckin' women.

end rant.

 

[jurry]

Spot on.

I think some are addicted to the chase, much like a drug. And others are just bestial creatures who dont know what else to do in this world if it isnt humping, drinking or working out.

Learning to love (which is not synonymous with getting a girlfriend), open up, let go of yourself and care for other people is the greatest challenge to me.. And much more valuable than banging 5 or 10 new girls every year.

 

[pyros]

I dont know who said it, but it was something like:
"everything you do is sexual energy"

You're a man, you main duty is to find females and reproduce, but in the meantime you should do other activities as well LOL.

 

[Eternal_water]

Here is an interesting thought.

Let's say tomorrow you lost ALL of your sex drive. ALL of it.


How much time or effort would be spent from that point forward trying to figure out women? How to "be alpha"? How to appear confident.? How to get her interest? Whether she is losing interest? How to escalate? How to "fix relationships"


Do you know how much MONEY you could make and save/spend? The lifestyle you could have? The peace of mind you would have?

yeah and.......

There is 0% percent chance I will lose all my sex drive tomorrow.

 

[Great being a man]

Good post.........I like it a lot.

I suppose this is the main reason I've gotten to a point in my life where if the woman doesn't basically come after me, I lose interest real fast. After all, chasing get's kinda dull after awhile............seldom is the payoff worth it.

I'm a huge advocate of just getting out and around........circulate........and let women see you. It doesn't take a degree in rocket science to be able to pick up on who is looking at you, likes you.

It's a lot easier, and a hell of a lot more fun.

 

[_sideways_]

Why are we even thinking about a life without wonen, and having them cater to us.

Im sorry OP, but i subscribe to the notion that beautiful women around who make me laugh when im down, cook for me, drive me to events...and pretty much wish me the best everyday is what is all about ..AFTER i have done my hobbies and responsibilities.

You want to be a monk?

Or is this just another women arent everything in life thread.

Not the right forum for you then.

Its not like 60 and cant get it up. As a young man every boner you pop should have a girl running for it. Dont brainwash younger dudes into thinking they should not follow their first instinct to fvck every girl he likes and fvck their feelings.

Seems like youre ready to settle down and "pursue othet interests".

Oh well...more for the rest of us.

 

[Eternal_water]

Me neither. But you miss the point. The OP was trying to state your life should be more full, wider interests, etc than just trying to game women.

Ok I can see the sanity saving logic in there.

I do that to an extent by going to the gym and taking coaching to be as good as possible in the sports I play - and here I excell.

Although technically his post doesn't apply to me, only to the non virgins. The funny thing is I actually save all that time and money you mentioned purely because I'm not good with the girls.

 

[narcissist]

In my mind there's ALWAYS room for improvement. ALWAYS a way to get better at something. ALWAYS a better-looking, hotter woman to pursue.

But is it that worth it? It seems like once you overcome that obstacle its like a "whatever" feeling.

Maybe it feels good for a couple days, but is it an everlasting overwhelming feeling of pure bliss? Nope, at least not for me, because the very second a hotter, sexier bish comes along youve lost that prior feeling of accomplishment. Its a never ending labyrinth. There is no successful end. A means to NO end.

Getting bishes in bed isnt hard. Getting a PHD is. Curing world hunger is.

We all spend so much time figuring out women, when we have ALREADY figured them out. haha. Why not move on? Why dont we figure out how to change society for the better? Is that too ambitious?

Why are we even thinking about a life without wonen, and having them cater to us.

Im sorry OP, but i subscribe to the notion that beautiful women around who make me laugh when im down, cook for me, drive me to events...and pretty much wish me the best everyday is what is all about ..AFTER i have done my hobbies and responsibilities.

You want to be a monk?

Or is this just another women arent everything in life thread.

Not the right forum for you then.

Its not like 60 and cant get it up. As a young man every boner you pop should have a girl running for it. Dont brainwash younger dudes into thinking they should not follow their first instinct to fvck every girl he likes and fvck their feelings.

Seems like youre ready to settle down and "pursue othet interests".

Oh well...more for the rest of us.

No i dont want to be a monk, I just want to be more than a sentient being who is literally bounded by the prospect of pvssy for all of his time in this fantastic existence.

To me, chasing women feels like a waste of time. We should be chasing NEW unexplored experiences. Fvcking women over and over and over and over again is living the same old experience over and over again, and ceases to be a fulfilling life goal.

All i know is that once i fvcked a couple hot girls I was left in a state of "alright, what next." I felt like i accomplished what I wanted and itched to find something new.

Maybe you are right, this forum might not be congruent with my goals anymore, I might just have to move on.

Last but not least, Im not brainwashing young dudes. Im saying get good with women, and then move on, evolve, into something better, something that will get your name remembered, something that will impact this earth positively. If thats brainwash, then Im going to continue "brainwashing" these young dudes.

Here is an interesting thought.

Let's say tomorrow you lost ALL of your sex drive. ALL of it.


How much time or effort would be spent from that point forward trying to figure out women? How to "be alpha"? How to appear confident.? How to get her interest? Whether she is losing interest? How to escalate? How to "fix relationships"


Do you know how much MONEY you could make and save/spend? The lifestyle you could have? The peace of mind you would have?

Oh man, if only there was a pill I could take to make me lose my sex drive.

But I swear we can actually move past our sex drive and become successful, enlightened beings regardless.

Spot on.

I think some are addicted to the chase, much like a drug. And others are just bestial creatures who dont know what else to do in this world if it isnt humping, drinking or working out.

Learning to love (which is not synonymous with getting a girlfriend), open up, let go of yourself and care for other people is the greatest challenge to me.. And much more valuable than banging 5 or 10 new girls every year.

Fvcking exactly. This is the path Im trying to take. Open up and spread positivity, while studying hardcore to try and change the world in some positive way. Have an impact. You know? Fvcking girls over and over again, isnt going to get me closer to that impact. Its only going to engulf me in a labyrinthian addiction.

I guess it may be too ambitious a project to try and enlighten those who are too addicted and blinded by the pvssy.