"Kim 15 Year Old AlphaMan" verses "Jason 32 Year Old Wuss"

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I want to use this opportunity to fill you all in on two vastly different guys who I know very well.

Kim, is a young guy who is only 15 year of age, he looks very much like, Brad Pitt, in his physical appearance, he is super confident, very flamboyant, and he is a Chick-Magnet, he has what you could only term as having an X Factor type personality, he stands out at such a young age, the Hot young Babes are all over him, and he has the Hottest 28 to 40 year old Babes virtually eating out of his hands, he can get a HB10 Lawyer and Doctor if he so desires, but he never tries to be confident or win the Hot Babes it just all seems to have fallen into his lap, yet he is otherwise just a normal High School Boy student, with Michael Jackson, Elvis Presley, Rod Stewart, Justin Timberlake, and, 50 Cent, type Above AlphaMan Powers, even though he isn't a Celebrity, just an everyday kid.

Jason, on the other hand is a 32 year old guy, who is not very good to look at, he is unfortunately Cross-Eyed, has alot of Acne on his face, and he is a Wuss to boot, he doesn't have any confidence at all, and no Hot Babes nor even the more Average types of girls will ever go out on a date with him.
Both Kim and Jason, are similar in many other ways though, they both are great guys, most people like them both as friends and people, both have similar IQ levels, yet, Kim, is a WINNER and, Jason, is a LOSER.

Kim, is still at High School and is achieving very good grades, he hopes to further his education at University when he leaves school, he is only 15 and he has a HotBabe10 Doctor as his girlfriend, she is 27.

Jason, is a High School Science Teacher, he has achieved many University Degrees, yet he being a Wuss and a Loser with the girls cannot find a woman that will marry him in Australia, so at 32 he has made his way to Indonesia to marry a native girl and teach over there, he like, Kim, is a white guy.

What I am wondering is if it is possible for a man like, Jason, to become an AlphaMan from where he now is in his life, or does he just have to accept where he currently is in his life, always the Loser and Wuss.

Also regarding, Kim, is what he has just a gift or an extra part of his personality that was always destined to be with him, as he doesn't seem to do anything to be like he is, it is just there with him it seems.

I myself am very much in between the two of them as far as attracting the Hot Babes goes, but I would be interested to read anyone elses veiws concerning this. :cry: JASON:down: :up: KIM:crackup:
 

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what's you point?

Read much anything on this site, and the subtext is always the same-- that if you WANT something, and WORK to get it, you will

so short answer yes.. but whats with this rando story about a 27 yr old hottie's pedophiliac tendancies.......??
 

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What the hell is with this story. A boy attracting pedo's vs a nerdy man banging an asian. Whats the point of the whole story??
 

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Dude, you guys are morons, it was all a story he made up to ask a question...can someone develop the kind of confidence later in life that this 15 year old boy has been pertrayed to have, even though they grew up with very little self-confidence?

I personally don't have an answer for you man, but I thought I might clear up your question a bit for ya.
 

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"Hey guys, I got a friend who has a problem..."
Yeah, sure.
You're such a wussy you don't even have the heart to admit that you are that Jason.
 

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Kim has natural confidence because he has a REASON to feel confident and his confidence will grow as more things go his way!

Jason is in a downward spiral. Being ugly he has no reason to feel confident with women and his lack of confidence makes him even more undesirable.

Jason needs to break the circle and take control of his life and push himself to becoming the best man he can be.
 

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Whilst I was writting this I just knew that some idiot on here would just assume that I myself was "Jason" after what I have read someone write on other similar threads.

People always want to think the NEGATIVE about others to make themselves feel better, why couldn't have I been "Kim" in this story.

Both "Kim" and "Jason" are real guys that I know in my life, I don't know either of them very well, but I have known them both well enough to see that there is a huge difference in the ways of which they react.

My name is "Jeremy" and "Jez" is the nickname of which I have had for many years.

I don't know if anyone has ever heard a Hot Babe say, "I don't know what it is about that guy there is just something about him that attracts me", a power that the majority of even the most confident handsome and successful of guys just don't have, "Kim" is that type of guy, he isn't "****y and Funny" yet he has a "KINGSHIP" type personality.

With the other guy "Jason" most people who meet him and know him think of him as being a great guy, even girls like him as a person, but they just don't see him as a playa or a romantic prospect, in fact not even the average girls desire to ever have him as their boyfriend, even though they like him.

As I have written about in another thread "KINGSHIP" is a thing that has to be learnt and then appropriated to make you a success with the ladies and all other living creatures.

Success seems to breed more success and failure seems to breed more failure, it is breaking that cycle that is very difficult for many to do.

I believe that having an air of confidence or "KINGSHIP" is the real key to success and if you don't naturally have it then it can take time to develop it so that you can use it in your own life, but the majority of guys like every other living creature just seems to accept the pecking order of which they have been placed within and don't even think that they can change it, thankyou all for you comments about this topic. :D
 

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hahaha aussies...:moon:

that 27 yo woman doctor has got prob of her own...going out with a 15 yo? she must b ****ed in the head.:nono:

if jasons got so many "DEGREES" not just a degree, then why is he teaching at high school? why not become a uni lecturer?

great fiction by the way:up:
 

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I don't know how many Degrees that Jason has got but he has been to University and graduated, he does teach science to secondary school students, I don't know if he could lecture at a University or not, but he will be teaching in some capacity when he marries in Indonesia soon.

Kim is just too much of a hunk that although the hot babe Doctor tried to resist his advances she couldn't escape from him, he knows that he has these powers and uses them, it doesn't bother him if ladies jobs are on the line as long as he gets a Fu-ck. :cool:
 

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JezDuffield said:
I don't know how many Degrees that Jason has got but he has been to University and graduated, he does teach science to secondary school students, I don't know if he could lecture at a University or not, but he will be teaching in some capacity when he marries in Indonesia soon.

Kim is just too much of a hunk that although the hot babe Doctor tried to resist his advances she couldn't escape from him, he knows that he has these powers and uses them, it doesn't bother him if ladies jobs are on the line as long as he gets a Fu-ck. :cool:
lol

ya no **** hes got a degree from uni to teach that shiit at high school...so is he gonna convert to islam?

as for that hot babe doc..ya shes got some mental disorder alright..she mus be a paedophillia, how sad...i thought docs had no time to fool around!:nono:

lol 15yo and got game..hes the man! mayb not a man yet...i wonder if any older chics would fancy a 13yo playa:rolleyes:
again, good story mate!:up: hows oz these days?
 

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Things are alot different here in Australia than they used to be, 20 years ago it was only 27 year old guys who Fu-cked pretty 15 year old girls, but now we have 15 year old schoolboy hunks Fu-cking pretty 27 year old ladies.

It is a new trend, a 13 year old schoolboy hunk can be a playa these days with the pretty 30 year old babes, in the same way as a pretty schoolgirl of that age can get an older hunky man to do her over.

When my Dad who is now 65 was a 15 year old it was impossible for a boy of that age in his time to get to Fu-ck one of his friends hot mums or a pretty lady Doctor or one of his hot teachers, things have changed.

It would have been alot easier for a guy like Jason to find a wife 40 years ago as things were different in those days.

The hot babes now have more money and can get great jobs so they have the power to be fussy and so they only go for their ideal guy.

Alot of this has to do with the media and all of the technology that is in the world today.

If you are a handsome 55 year old guy you can still get a hot 28 year old babe as well now, but this has always been happening.

The biggest changes have been young boys dating older woman and a much greater acceptance of interacial dating and marriage both of which were frowned upon 20 years ago but are common practise today. :cool:
 

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When I was 11 years old, I had a short affair with my 34 year old math teacher.
She liked it really raw, though.
 

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he can change without a doubt but only he can do it, nothing you say or advice will help.
Maybe direct him to some material and encourage him to read, but seems to me he has settled for is lot and is more often then not at a comfort zone and wont break it.

So will he change i highly doubt it, i really do, ppl dont change for us they do it for them, its nice to think we know whats best for ppl but in his mind he probably thinks things are ok or he masks the truth since the truth is basicly a bit sh**.

Now things i would think that guy need to do at the core:

Get rid of his acne for one, it is at best a confidence killer, there are creams that get rid of it very easily, one is bezamicine gel, works a charm, maybe encourage him to vist the docs for it, if they do it near you or internet it for the ingredients and get something similer.
Once his face has improved he needs to get better more rounded social status type cloths and i dont mean expensive name tag stuff i mean cloths that amplify his looks or make them better.
Then is confidence will slowly start to rise, once thats done he can work on his inner issues.

Outside appearance effects a hell of a lot, to me is outside appearance needs to be sorted out, you can be ugly and still be sexy, ugly guys get hot chicks all the time, actually i see more ugly guys with hot birds then GL ones.
 

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Where I live at Perth in Australia the best looking guys usually have the hottest babes, maybe it is different in other places.

It helps to be confident if you like what you look at in the mirror when you are brushing your hair in the morning I think.

If you think that the hot babes will like you then you don't come accross as being desperate as their are many other options for you to date.

How can an ugly guy be sexy, that I don't know. :D :rock: :D
 

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Alittude said:
What the hell is with this story. A boy attracting pedo's vs a nerdy man banging an asian.
lol... jokes
 

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Nope - I don't think it's possible to change overnight. After all, it's your experiences that define your personality. The experiences of being a loser for 30 years can't be rewritten overnight. I think he can try to mimic other confident successful people but at the end of the day, it will always be false, people will eventually see through it and he won't be happy because he will feel like a fraud.

However I think it was possible for him to improve his life enough for him to get a gf/wife.
 

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Kim is one of those guys that most men hate uless they are gay and that most babes love, he is confident and as the hot babes have always been attracted to him he doesn't really have a care in the world, he is very comfortable in his own skin and as such isn't and doesn't come accross as a needy or desperate person, he isn't flustered by the hot babes and is probably even aloof and stand offish with them, as he is extremely good looking he doesn't really need to posess a ****y and funny personality as there is something about him that draws the hot babes towards him.

Jason is different as he has never been confident and successfull with the girls, he places a huge emphasis on his physical defects like his acne and his being cross eyed which makes his situation even worse.

As far as there lives go there is nothing to say that Jason may well lead a much happier life when he marries his Indonesian bride where as Kim having it all too easy may well be too fussy and never get to experience the things that Jason does, as life is a strange thing. :yes:
 

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KoalaKing said:
Kim is one of those guys that most men hate uless they are gay and that most babes love, he is confident and as the hot babes have always been attracted to him he doesn't really have a care in the world, he is very comfortable in his own skin and as such isn't and doesn't come accross as a needy or desperate person, he isn't flustered by the hot babes and is probably even aloof and stand offish with them, as he is extremely good looking he doesn't really need to posess a ****y and funny personality as there is something about him that draws the hot babes towards him.

Jason is different as he has never been confident and successfull with the girls, he places a huge emphasis on his physical defects like his acne and his being cross eyed which makes his situation even worse.

As far as there lives go there is nothing to say that Jason may well lead a much happier life when he marries his Indonesian bride where as Kim having it all too easy may well be too fussy and never get to experience the things that Jason does, as life is a strange thing. :yes:
wow

koalaking..u sound as if u and jez duffield are same person

or u guys click amazingly well...:up:
 
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