usernamedox11
Master Don Juan
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This is my problem with women...
When I meet a woman I'm not crazy about, even if she is attractive I can control myself...won't overtext, won't seem needy, nothing.
When I'm with a woman that just does it for me, my AFC behaviors come out. usually these are the more attractive women with options who play the "game," too. they purposely ignore texts, (i've seen girls I've hung out with purposely ignore texts of guys they like just to drive him crazy), and they are so in control of themselves. When I deal with these girls and I feel like I am being ignored if I send a text to hang out, I panic a little and start sending multiple texts, and that's when I lose. I'm not suppose to do that but I just get to the point where it's like fvck you, reply or fvck off, I know you saw my text.
How do I know these girls purposely ignore/delay their response to my my texts? I'll text them with a google voice number and they'll reply within the first 5 minutes asking "hey who is this?" And again, i've also seen very attractive girls I've hung out with as friends purposely ignore the texts of guys they actually like...just to drive him crazy.
Any idea how to manage neediness with girls you are crazy about?
Thing is, I know how to seem aloof in person and not say much. But over text or email, I write too much and you know girls don't look at substance, they look at subtext and figure I'm desperate or something.
When I meet a woman I'm not crazy about, even if she is attractive I can control myself...won't overtext, won't seem needy, nothing.
When I'm with a woman that just does it for me, my AFC behaviors come out. usually these are the more attractive women with options who play the "game," too. they purposely ignore texts, (i've seen girls I've hung out with purposely ignore texts of guys they like just to drive him crazy), and they are so in control of themselves. When I deal with these girls and I feel like I am being ignored if I send a text to hang out, I panic a little and start sending multiple texts, and that's when I lose. I'm not suppose to do that but I just get to the point where it's like fvck you, reply or fvck off, I know you saw my text.
How do I know these girls purposely ignore/delay their response to my my texts? I'll text them with a google voice number and they'll reply within the first 5 minutes asking "hey who is this?" And again, i've also seen very attractive girls I've hung out with as friends purposely ignore the texts of guys they actually like...just to drive him crazy.
Any idea how to manage neediness with girls you are crazy about?
Thing is, I know how to seem aloof in person and not say much. But over text or email, I write too much and you know girls don't look at substance, they look at subtext and figure I'm desperate or something.