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Don Juan
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Alright, I'll try to keep this short. (note, I'm 17, she's 17)
There's a girl here, pretty good looking but nothing serious, we've seen eachother a few times but it's gotten pretty complicated and I'm not sure what to do. She has a busy life, and I feel like I'm not worth much to her. I know, I know, greatest catch, I'm the best thing that could happen to her, etc. but this is getting annoying.
I'll give you a situation two weeks ago: We were scheduled to hang out Thursday. She calls me up and apologizes saying she can't hang out Thursday, she has basketball, but we could perhaps see a movie afterwards. The next day, I call her up at around 7:00 after it ends. She says she can't, she's sorry, and she promises we'll see eachother tomorrow. I ask her why and she says there's 'a lot going on.' I say 'It's fine, do what you have to do. See you tomorrow."
The next day I found out she went out with her friends that thursday, and I pretty much told her that if she didn't want to hang she could've just told me. Maybe I'm being a bit of an AFC, IDK. Or a lot of an AFC...
She said she made a promise, but it was her brothers birthday on Friday so she couldn't come. I asked her when the party ends - 6:00. I said "That's not enough time to do something?" and she said "I know I've let you down a lot, and I'm sorry. I'd make up for it if I could, I simply don't have time."
I said it's fine, just don't let me down tonight. She said she won't.
She calls me later while I'm at a sports bar seeing a band play, says her mom said she couldn't tonight due to the birthday thing. I flat out told her, "I made plans, you keep putting this off. I'm sick of trying to see you; you have my number, you call me if you want to hang."
and hung up.
She called me 30 minutes later and said she was on the way to my house.
Everything went fine that night; I bought her favorite candy since she sounded a little irritated, but when she got there she was alright and everything went fine.
the problem is now; I made plans with her last Friday to go somewhere with her tomorrow. I text her today to confirm plans, and she says "Wednesday."
She acts like I'm totally free and she can see me whenever she wants. I don't know what to say to this but I don't want to piss her off too much.
[****, I didn't keep this short. help?]
String of unlucky coincidence, or should I just stand up and move on?
There's a girl here, pretty good looking but nothing serious, we've seen eachother a few times but it's gotten pretty complicated and I'm not sure what to do. She has a busy life, and I feel like I'm not worth much to her. I know, I know, greatest catch, I'm the best thing that could happen to her, etc. but this is getting annoying.
I'll give you a situation two weeks ago: We were scheduled to hang out Thursday. She calls me up and apologizes saying she can't hang out Thursday, she has basketball, but we could perhaps see a movie afterwards. The next day, I call her up at around 7:00 after it ends. She says she can't, she's sorry, and she promises we'll see eachother tomorrow. I ask her why and she says there's 'a lot going on.' I say 'It's fine, do what you have to do. See you tomorrow."
The next day I found out she went out with her friends that thursday, and I pretty much told her that if she didn't want to hang she could've just told me. Maybe I'm being a bit of an AFC, IDK. Or a lot of an AFC...
She said she made a promise, but it was her brothers birthday on Friday so she couldn't come. I asked her when the party ends - 6:00. I said "That's not enough time to do something?" and she said "I know I've let you down a lot, and I'm sorry. I'd make up for it if I could, I simply don't have time."
I said it's fine, just don't let me down tonight. She said she won't.
She calls me later while I'm at a sports bar seeing a band play, says her mom said she couldn't tonight due to the birthday thing. I flat out told her, "I made plans, you keep putting this off. I'm sick of trying to see you; you have my number, you call me if you want to hang."
and hung up.
She called me 30 minutes later and said she was on the way to my house.
Everything went fine that night; I bought her favorite candy since she sounded a little irritated, but when she got there she was alright and everything went fine.
the problem is now; I made plans with her last Friday to go somewhere with her tomorrow. I text her today to confirm plans, and she says "Wednesday."
She acts like I'm totally free and she can see me whenever she wants. I don't know what to say to this but I don't want to piss her off too much.
[****, I didn't keep this short. help?]
String of unlucky coincidence, or should I just stand up and move on?