Keeping girls on the "backburner" when having a girlfriend

[otr4]

Hey everyone--
I've been in a "commited relationship" with a girl for over a week now and have been dating this same girl for over three months. She is cool, I like her a lot, and she seems to really like me.
HOWEVER, I'm still not sure how much I can trust this girl. (She has a lot of guy friends, etc. but I'll save that stuff for another post).
Right now, I have two other girls I'm interested in. I would NEVER cheat on my girlfriend, but since I'm still not completely sure if I can trust my girlfriend, I would like to keep these other girls around just in case my current relationship doesn't work out. Is this possible to do? I have not told either of the other two girls I like about my recent "relationship" status with my girlfriend. How can I most productively and positively work this situation so I can keep these other girls around? Is this possible? Thanks.

 

[Big Pappy]

Trust issues. If you don't trust her, call it off now. Why second guess everything she does or says when she's not near you?

Also worth looking into: Why don't you trust her? Just because she has guy friends? The reason why girls have guy friends is because she's too lazy/smart to put up with all the crap the afc's will put up with. A guy girl friendship, when neither wants to have sex with the other is a much easier relationship than two girls. They tend to be competitive, catty and some are downright spiteful. A girl with a lot of guy friends usually means that she doesn't like drama in her life, so that's a plus.

 

[gentleman193]

"I've been in a "commited relationship" with a girl for over a week now"

LOL. A week? And you didn't send out the official notices yet?

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

Get the girl you are atracted to or like the most and keep the other two on the back-burner. Trust is an issue that is necessary for a ltr or wifey material - if she is neither and just a play thing then why care about trust. Remember wh@res are loyal to no one - you are just the next guy in line. So don't be surprised if your suspicions come to fruition!

 

[InLawsHateMe]

Always keep at the least two on call...... anymore and well, things can get a little complicated.... I'm sure it can be done, but I'm unorganized, and can be a little lazy at times.

..or as David Lee Roth once said, 'I always keep two around, that way, if there's a conversation, I don't have to be involved.'

 

[Ricky]

Interesting reading.