Keeping a woman interested when you can't meet?

NickSCFC

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So I've met someone online (not in person yet), conversations have been going incredibly well (she's shown enthusiasm and has been very positive so far.

I've told her I'd like to meet but haven't set a date, she's agreed but already has plans on the day I'm not busy, so I don't plan on meeting her for nearly 2 weeks (it's nearly 2 hours to get to her city in the week because of work).

My question is, how do I keep her interest level high without boring her over email/text over the next week and a half?
 
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NickSCFC said:
So I've met someone online (not in person yet), conversations have been going incredibly well (she's shown enthusiasm and has been very positive so far.

I've told her I'd like to meet but haven't set a date, she's agreed but already has plans on the day I'm not busy, so I don't plan on meeting her for nearly 2 weeks (it's nearly 2 hours to get to her city in the week because of work).

My question is, how do I keep her interest level high without boring her over email/text over the next week and a half?
you can't. You must meet face to face. So she can see your mannerism and you can see her mannerism this can not be accomplished online. You can only keep interest levels high once you guys go out and have fun together. Once again this can not be accomplished online. I think online conversations/meetings are for the weak. You must get out there and meet women face to face!! That's where you will learn real game. Plus it's way easier in the real world!!
 

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I_was_born_a_PIMP said:
you can't. You must meet face to face. So she can see your mannerism and you can see her mannerism this can not be accomplished online. You can only keep interest levels high once you guys go out and have fun together. Once again this can not be accomplished online. I think online conversations/meetings are for the weak. You must get out there and meet women face to face!! That's where you will learn real game. Plus it's way easier in the real world!!
This is spot on. Don't you think this girl is going to consider how you are pursuing someone so difficult to be with? What options must you have to be so persistent for something that is just not convenient for you? Best thing you can do is try to leave a good impression to maybe catch a lay next time she is in town.
 

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You have to meet her before you continue anything. Indirectly force her to make a decision, with out looking needy, or desperate.
 

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I agree. Your only option is to text here and there. Calling is too much. Keep it light.
 

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Here's how the game is played, gentleman:

So, you can't meet up with her for a couple of weeks but still want to keep her interested? Time to play the "20 Questions" game!

The rules are simple:

1. Set a date for your meet up, no longer than 2 weeks in advance if you can help it.

2. Say to her, "so, while we're waiting to meet up, how about we play a game of 20 questions? Rules are simple: I ask a question, you answer it, then ask me a question that I have to answer. We do this back and forth, each of us gets to ask the other one 20 questions. You game?" This is the first test to see if she's a fun girl who will play the game, or a dud who's structured and doesn't like to have fun. If she says "yes," it's go time; if she says "NO," don't waste your time.

3. Start the game. Your first 5 questions should all be non-sexual questions where you actually get to know stuff about her - but still make them fun questions.

4. On the 6th question, you want to ask something that's not directly sexual, but could be taken as such or almost reads like it could be a sexual question. For example: "What part of your body do you like massaged the most?" or "What's the first thing you wash when you're in the shower?" These are softball questions, and they can be answered in a non-sexy way ("I wash my face first") or in a naughty way ("Well, I just let my hands go wherever they'd like, lol"). Depending on how she answers question 6, you can determine how intense later questions should be.

5. On the 7th and 8th question, it's back to normal questions.

6. By the 9h question, the way in which she's been answering your questions should tell you how open she is about going into questions that are more flirty. You may want to ask something like, "where's someplace you've always wanted to do it but haven't?" or "What do you usually wear to bed?" These are things that definitely lean more towards the sexual realm, but they're foreplay questions: they have her thinking about sex but because you're not placing yourself in the question scenarios yet, it's almost like mental masturbation for her, i.e. it's getting her prepped....

7. 10th and 11th questions are softball ones.

8. Questions 12 thru 15 should be a mixed bag, but 3 of the 4 questions should hint at sexual stuff while, at the same time, not being explicit. Women are all about subtleties in the beginning, so you don't want to ask something like "So, would you be down to bang out on the first date?" Will definitely have her stop playing the game with you, lol.

9. 16 and 17 should be regular questions. 18 and 19 should be sexual fantasy type questions, or questions that make her give you stories about sexual things she wants to try or has done. This is the point in which she will probably be thinking about YOU and SEX in the same scenario, to the point that she'll be thinking about you in that light until you guys meet up.

10 And question 20... should be something so far from sexual that it makes her go "Huh?" See, she'll be EXPECTING the last question to be a sexual one, so when it's NOT, it will put her mind in the frame of "hey, I though he was gonna be all sexual with his question? I WANT A SEXUAL QUESTION!!!"

This game should last from when you set the date to when you have the date, so make sure to spread it out. I've done this with the last 4 girls I dated, and was able to have sex with ALL of them by date #2 simply because they were already sexually comfortable with me as a result of this game. Hopefully this answers your question, lol.

Oh, and I almost forgot - don't be surprised if, after question 9, she starts asking you sexual questions of her own - then you know she'll REALLY be ready to hook up with you sooner than later. Good luck!
 
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