Just some reconfirmation [Please]

[white cloud 8]

Hi,

I planning on heading out to a hip-hop nightclub later (Au Bar) on tonight (by myself), I would just like some reconfirmation. When I go there, just play it cool and have fun. This place gets packed on friday nights. [I know this may sound redundant but could someone please give some quick tips just to keep in mind, please?]

:nervous:


~thanx

 

[white cloud 8]

So just go and have a good time, let loose and have fun. I might make a fool of myself on the dance floor but who cares, I'm going to have fun .

 

[toasttopper1879]

I think this is impossible in a English bar,club.pub.Ok possible to go in alone but to gain any social status,no way.No bugger does it alone.I really think its different here.No one does it.I dont care how much front you got or how much game you,d still get totally blanked.
Any other English lads agree or am i wrong.I,ll take the advice and a telling if i am wrong.

 

[white cloud 8]

Well, just woke up a little while ago, about last night: I arrived at the club around 12am and the place was packed. When I got in there I took one walk around and headed to the bar, got myself a couple of drinks, looked around (some pretty hot girls), took another walk around to see if I knew anybody (sometimes I run into people I know). The dancefloor was packed, I looked around and there were quite a few females so I headed onto the dancefloor, started dancing and some girls started to come around me (I was like whoa... ). I started dancing with this one girl, she had a big ass, she started grinding me from behind (that ass was soft ). I tried dancing with this other group of girls but, after a while of dancing I got shut out by one of them (she started dancing over to where I was drifting away and closed the circle ). Oh well, their loss. I danced for a little while longer (man, it was frickin' hot on the dancefloor) and decided to call it a night, I was a little bit juiced but, I kept hydrated with water throughout the night so it wasn't that bad. No numbers, talk to a couple of girls, girls smiling at me/making eye contact and me not doing anything about it (smacks forehead), danced with a couple of girls.

 

[white cloud 8]

so when a hot girl in a club makes eye contact with you a couple of times, you have to make a move immediately or she will lose interest?

 

[white cloud 8]

Originally posted by SuperGigaloDJ
White cloud 8 props to you for having the b@lls to go to a club by yourself and not sit around like a loser.

For you quote above use the 3-second rule. And soon as you see a hot girl/she looks at you/makes eye contact and few times go up to her!! She will lose interest if you just hesitate and stand around. She will be thinking "why doesn't he come over to me? What a coward!"

LOL! Are they thinking that? *smacks forehead...* it happened a couple of times last night . As for dancing, when I was around the bar area, there were a bunch of guys just standing around. I was like "Okay, f*ck it I'm going onto the dancefloor" and I did .

 

[white cloud 8]

Another funny thing was once I got onto the dancefloor, most of the girls that were dancing all glanced at me like "Who the f*ck is this guy getting in my space?" or is it the fact that I had the balls to get into there space in the first place that made me look good? It didn't affect me any if a girl didn't want to dance with me . I am starting to feel more comfortable with going out on my own because I would usually go with my friends but, I noticed alot more girls looking at me when I was on my own, why is that?

 

[Caveman]

I go out to clubs alone lots of times and I rarely use the 3 second rule. If a girl starts making eye contact and try and create a situation where I am walking past here and start a convo in a more spontaneous way. It doesn't always work but I get my share of girls this way. (I don't think every DJ needs to be some sort of pick-up artist.)

I would recommend you shouldn't wait too long though because even though a girl might not instantly think you are a loser for not coming up to her, other guys will approach and she won't always shoot them down.

So she might think you're interesting, handsome, gorgeous or whatever.. if you wait too long, she will think you are either a coward or presume you are not interested and give you a little extra stab by chatting with any other guy that approaches her.

But good for you that you started dancing instead of standing around and not being scared off by that girl who closed the circle on you. Cheers!

 

[PVSSY-EATER]

Last question I will answer,

you can get girls being alone, being with a group, being wit yo momma, yo daddy, yo probabtion officer, or whatever.

You guys are going to continue coming to this site looking for the ANSWER only until you re-program your thinking, it is all about your mind, you should know that your mind is made up of two separate parts...do some research on this, re-program it, and just live and watch.


And now, PVSSY-EATER IS OFFICIALLY OUT.

 

[ikkenai]

You're from winnipeg?