Just looking for some msn feedback

[ebey11]

Was recently talking to a girl I've known from school for a little while, I think she may have some interest now. just looking for some criticism. Bear in mind I wasn't really trying to game her per se as she is a somewhat old aquaintance (sp?)

Feb 13, 2007

her: Hey you

me: What's up brat

her: not to much u

me: just talkin to you

her: cool

me: watcha been up to lately?

her: not much u?

me: not a lot, went to this monster truck show thing last weekend with a girl, sooo many mullets in the crowd, it was unreal

her: lol sweet

me: so where you livin now?

her: Well moving out of x town

me: to where?

her: dunno yet

me: hmmm well ya cuz i might be headin to y town the weekend after next week so we may be able to do somethin if you're in town

her: ya sure

me: why are you movin so much haha?

her: well me and joe just broke up so I'm movin out

me: I see, fresh on the rebound, uh oh

her: uh no

me: haha, im only kidding dork

her: ya ya

me: no sense of humour, just awful

her: right now ya

me: dont be so glum chum, I'll tell ya what, ill be your valentine if you promise to get me some nice flowers and chocolate

her: haha your gonna get me flowers and chocolate to make me feel better? aw your so sweet but you dont have to get me flowers chocolates just fine

me: psh here how about a card (sent a picture of ralph wiggum's choo choo choose me valentine)

her: thanks

me: get it, it says choo choo choose you and theres a picture of a train

her: ya i get it

me: ok just makin sure

her: lol ok, well im gonna header, thanks for the card

me: hey no problem, ill be expecting the flowers tomoroow
later

her: (msn rose emoticon) cya


Feb 17, 2007

me: hey

her: hey

me: what did you get up to tonight?

her: had some crazy kinky sex. jk went to the hockey game and watched a movie you?

me: haha the kinky sex sounds like more fun, bumer. I went to a frat party

her: haha you're a dork

me: hey quit stealin the names I call you, brat

her: haha sure sure. so how was it did you wear your fedora hat thing

me: nah I've kinda put that into retirement for a while

her: lol oh, well how was it

me: you know, the usual

her: lol oh ya those frat parties

me: haha theyre pretty lame actually

her: haha oh ya out of all the ones ive been to i totally kno what ur talkin about

me: ya tell me about it. haha we can hit some up one you move down here. Except I think im more into the club scene now

her: haha u are a dork. we will go to a club when i come down.. u can dance on the speaker with me

me: haha i think thats all you, and once you start pukin, im bailin

her: ur a meanie. I dont puke often actually. it usually doesnt come up til the morning anyway

me: haha ya thats usually how it is

her: yup. you just gotta take me home on the bus so i dont get attacked

me: haha you got your pepper spray

her: haha ya i do. but you still gotta ride the bus with me

me: busses might stop runnin when it gets too late like they almost did before, then you're screwed

her: haha ya like almost last time

me: you can always stay at my place... i charge comparable hotel rates

her: hah maybe if you clean up your room

me: hey its usually spotless, you caught me on a bad day. You're the one who always had a messy room if I recall

her: haha ok

me: mhmm, so wheres my flowers, I thought i was your valentine?

her: (rose emoticon)

me: thats weak haha

her: lol so is the holiday

me: ya pretty much just a who has the best boyfriend competition

her: ya its gay

me: agreed

her: good stuff

me: yep but anyways im gonna head to bed, way past my bedtime

her: awww poor baby

me: can you tuck me in?

her: lol well have a good night. haha how?

me: haha that was kind of a joke but good to know you'd do it

her: haha

me: sweet dreams lata

her: ya u 2

 

[ebey11]

nobody?

 

[banGbro]

HER: Hey
YOU: whatup?
HER: not much

YOU: Give me your number




You call her, and setup a date so you two can talk. The above crap is meaningless. SHE IS USING YOUR AFC A55 BECAUSE SHES BORED.

Face to face talk baby. You use body language, posture, and a thousand other things that talk to her and make her attracted to you. The above is giving her a confidense boost because you feel affection for her. Shes such a nice chat buddy, isnt she, DJ dumbass? :yawn:

PM me your email address.

 

[girl_in_a_boy_forum]

Get off the internet and talk to her in real life. If you don't, you'll probably end up becoming her online diary, if you haven't already. Set up a date, hang out face to face, and have real conversations. THEN you can figure out if this is going somewhere.

 

[ebey11]

Well she lives in a different city but we go out whenever she's in town

 

[Scought]

Good grief......

 

[ebey11]

Obviously in person would be better but given the situation it's not possible at present. She's moving here in 3 months and is a hb10 otherwise I wouldn't really bother. Given that, there's nothing wrong with msn given that I'm only 19 and it's pretty common... I know my convo wasn't perfect but I also know it wasn't bad either. I don't mind criticism, in fact that's what I'm looking for but I would prefer something a little more constructive and relevant/specific. I'm not an AFC, in fact I've gamed some hot chicks primarily with msn, so it can be done...

 

[banGbro]

Ok then, stop playing the msn game. Chat with her right now is not important. When shes near you in 3 months you can proceed, for now, distance. Shes not feeling anything for you, you do, and if you ontis on the idea of her, you will never fvck her. Move on with your face to face girls, even if they are not as pretty.

It is hard, but the idea is to treat her as your male friend from fvcking canada, whos coming to meet you in Miami in fvcking winter.

 

[ryannath]

You can game them at first on msn, no doubt. I have done it before. I know she said you two would hang out at a club when she came down, but dont' listen to what girls say. She could just be saying that to not be mean to her chat buddy. In other words, she is not interested in you romantically. If you had some ballsss, you would ask for her number on there, since it's an interest level indicator, and if she doesn't give the #, you know to move on. But, if she does, you know you at least have a chance. Simple.

Also, when they are interested in having sex with you, they will ask questions like, "so when you coming to see me?" and stuff like that, even if it is on chat.

 

[ebey11]

I got her # probably about a year ago. I said it before but I guess I'll say it again we've known each other from school for quite some time which makes it a little different than your standard pickup.

 

[Bigworm]

Hmm... unlike some other people here im gonna try and give some decent non-judgmental feedback.

Ok... just using ur logic u can problably figure out for yourself that IM is at the bottom of the chain. U have some tools like kino and body languages when IRL and u have even less of those tools when ur trying to mack on a girl on the phone... now imagine how crap IM is as a macking tool.

Me personally thou im using IM just to raise their interest by talking to them once or maybe twice to get their interest going. But then i have to move up... if i cant at the very least get their number by the second IM convo im discarding that girl as a failed attempt...

I asked the same question a while a ago and this the best advice i got.

 

[ebey11]

haha ok that advice doesn't really apply here. Anyways maybe I should make it clearer that the only advice im really looking for is on the actual convo and what I actually said in it. I understand and know what to do with everything else.

 

[Half full]

I like the msn messanger, because it's a good training ground to think up of lines from girls not interested in you, personally I like to make them wiggle and squirm. I talk about sex, bust on them about being boring, small talk on celebrity gossip, events goin on, never answering their question directly etc...

I just use MSN for practise and thats all, if the girl gives me the evils after a few meetings or so i just delete them, simple, effective, ive even had girls come back and add me to their list and say WTF? you canned me? I'll say you got boring and they have to prove their worth to me to stay, and so on and so on.

Have fun having fun...