just got dumped before the new year ouch

[thekcguyme]

I got dumped last night and by text non the less. I told her i dont understand. She told me I'm a good guy and doesnt want to hurt me. She said we arent good together. So i stopped texting back last night. This morning she says she doesnt want this to be awkward between us. Then she says please talk to me. What does thAt even mean.? I really like this girl but im not what i should do.

I havent text her back and dont plan on it today. Is it even worth trying to get back with her at this point? I plan on cutting off communication for awhile and see if she misses me. im a good looking guy and can probably do better but i fell for her and didnt even mean to.

 

[thekcguyme]

Oh yeah and we live together btw.

 

[SAYNO]

I got dumped last night and by text non the less. I told her i dont understand. She told me I'm a good guy and doesnt want to hurt me. She said we arent good together. So i stopped texting back last night. This morning she says she doesnt want this to be awkward between us. Then she says please talk to me. What does thAt even mean.?

Ok heres a quick breakdown:

Not good together = You dont make her p@ssy drip like a faucet.

Good guy = boring, weak, easily manipulated beta etc.

Doesn't wont to hurt you = Shes ****ing someone else.

Please talk to me = Keep being a sucker and giving her the same attention as before she laid this 10 turd on you.

What it means = It means move on and never look back, don't give her the satisfaction of seeing you hurt just say, you know what honey I agree with you, and I've been thinking the same thing but didn't know how to tell you.

The last female that tried this sh!t with me regretted it. She said the same stuff this one is saying but I found out that she had already started seeing someone else behind my back. But before that point I had already made up my mind that when a woman leaves or breaks up she has long since moved on emotionally, therefore YOU have to do the same. The previous female in question much like the one your dealing with over estimated her SMV its a common mistake that they make since most men date down. But two weeks later he gave her a nasty STD and then dumped her, guess who she came running back to? :nono:

What they fail to realize is that these really good looking guys can do much better than them so they come along and smooth talk her out of her cookie and the female starts thinking that she has HIGHER VALUE than you so she starts plotting an exit to be with the new guy, but he just wants a nut and not a relationship therefore as soon as he nuts its over!

I laugh and chuckle every time I think about it, because I had four other plates when my main one pulled this nonsense, :crackup: later (after Mr Std dumped her) she called me crying trying to get back together, she even called my brother but I just told her to stop calling me or my family and finally got my number changed..

 

[jurry]

She broke up by text and you live together? What the fvck are you talking about lol.. How can you "not respond"?

 

[Between_The_Lines]

She sees you as a nice guy and is trying to let you down gently by means of textbook bs lines (ex. "I don't want to hurt you") "Please talk to me" and "I don't want this to be awkward" in that context means "validate my pulling the plug on this relationship. Either start crying or beg or fight for me or tell me to fvck off, any of those will help support my decision" I say stick a fork in this one. Agree with her decision and silently move on.

 

[skinnyguy]

It's New Years eve and there will be plenty of women out who want to get f_cked.

Take advantage of it.

 

[Bokanovsky]

This one doesn't need much decoding. She's not that into you. There may be another guy in the picture. She's dumping you before New Year's because she doesn't want to spend it with you. Yet, she doesn't want you to think of her as a "bad person" because that would make her feel guilty. Don't indulge her and cease all contact.

 

[Igetit!]

She told me I'm a good guy and doesnt want to hurt me.

OH SH!TTT......

Got the "you're a good guy and I don't want to hurt you" line,eh? I've gotten that deadly combo myself a time or two.

It means YOU'RE F*CKED......and not in a good way.




Ok kid......you're gonna have to help out here bro,help me understand something. You said...

I havent text her back and dont plan on it today.

and this...

I plan on cutting off communication for awhile and see if she misses me.

SO...you're not going to return her texts,and you're going to cut off all communication with her,in hopes that it'll make her miss you.

You said ALL THAT. Then you go....

Oh yeah and we live together btw.

So basically,you plan to go "No Contact" on a girl who LIVES WITH you. :crackup:

Boy I love Sosuave........A good laugh is always just a click away.

:crackup:


If you don't mind me asking....umm....just HOW do you plan cut off all contact and communication with someone who lives in the SAME HOUSE as you?

You said you're not going to return her texts. Ohhh-kay,but.....well good will that do with the two of you both sitting in the same living room,or walking past each other going to the kitchen,bedroom,bathroom,or other place in the house......EVERY SINGLE DAY???

Just curious..................

 

[thekcguyme]

All very valid points. This relationship started out as **** buddies. By far the best sex Ive ever had. I would actually live to go back to being just **** buddies but i dont see how she would gor for it.

 

[sylvester the cat]

You live together, she dumped you by text and you're going NC?

Oh this is going to be a riot.

 

[thekcguyme]

I see no contact wont work. How can i go back to being fock buddies?

 

[djthiago1]

I see no contact wont work. How can i go back to being fock buddies?

My friend you can't. You're a good guy. Or have you forgot about that? Better to just move on. And no i'm not being a douche, i too got dumped recently, hurts like a mofo, and still does.

 

[bigneil]

She thought you were so weak you would be hurt by the idea of not having her. And here you are proving her right.

 

[thekcguyme]

Well that blows. I guess i need to toughen up.

 

[nismo-4]

Judge nismo on the case. This is why you can't depend on a woman for your happiness. If you ever have thoughts of falling in love first, read this court ruling over and over. Print this out and post it on your wall (at home, not Facebook).

I got dumped last night and by text non the less.

Your princess is in another castle. Accept it.

I told her i dont understand.

You told her you still care even though she's getting railed by me. Your interest=11. Her interest=-2.

She told me I'm a good guy and doesnt want to hurt me.

You're too soft and she's got another man who makes her wet.

She said we arent good together.

Unless you're just friends (her beta orbiter).

So i stopped texting back last night.

Good, but that doesn't nullify the fact that she dumped you first.

This morning she says she doesnt want this to be awkward between us. Then she says please talk to me. What does thAt even mean.?

It means she still wants you to be a source of attention and ego boosting. If you go that road, you won't get any pu$$y, but you'll be carrying around her Victoria's Secret bag with the lingerie that she'll wear for me when she tells me to take her into chambers the next day!

I really like this girl but im not what i should do.

She has no interest past friendship and you care too much. It's a lost cause. MOVE THE F**K ON MOTHERF**KER! IT'S THAT SIMPLE!

I havent text her back and dont plan on it today.

Please don't. Just. Don't.

it even worth trying to get back with her at this point?

Hell no! Why the f**k are you considering it?

I plan on cutting off communication for awhile and see if she misses me.

Snowball's chance in hell she'll call back. If she does, don't answer. Just delete her from every platform, but I don't think you will.

Im a good looking guy and can probably do better but i fell for her and didnt even mean to.

The crux of the issue. She did better than you, hence why she is in another castle.

Read between the lines.

Case closed. Happy New Year and get out of my court so I can bang her again!

 

[mikey2012]

She found someone better. Just forget her.

 

[logicallefty]

Who's place do you live in? Who is going to move out? Unless its her house tell her to gtfo pronto bubba. If she don't right away bring another woman home, introduce her as your friend and roomie, tell her she has to leave for a few hours, and b@ng the new woman in you guys' bed..

 

[LMFAO]

I genuinely think going no contact with a girl who broke up with you is a bit retarded. Especially if it's for a longer relationship and you're holding some things inside. Laughing and smiling and telling her should I help you pack your bags is usually the best policy. You won't get her back, and you shouldn't want her back, but she'll doubt her insecure self big time wherever the fvck she's going, instead of validating that she was going out with a beta pvssy that cares more than her.