When you go to clubs just dance. Do not worry about what other people think, its insignificant whether or not you are a good dancer. What matters is that you are care free and that you come off a fun person who doesn’t give two cr@ps about what others think. This is a revolutionary way to go out and one of my friends put me on to this. At first I was VERY skeptical until I saw it with my own eyes. This guy ( horrible dancer, ugly dude , skinny white guy kinda nerdy) goes out on the dance floor and has a ball by himself. By the third song or so smoking hot chicks start to approach him to dance instead of the other way around. Sometimes he even makes out with them. I couldn’t believe it. If you do this you will notice 3 stages…
1.) guys and girls look at you funny like who are these 2 dudes dancing like they are having fun. Most people, even girls at clubs are very self conscious about their dancing. You can sense the anxiety as everyone is playing a weird mating game. Guys are anxious they will get rejected so they stand on the side molesting a beer. Some try to act extra cool and tough. Girls are anxiously playing games trying to get the most sexual attention without looking like a bad dancer.
2.) after a while all the “tough guys” will kinda join in once they notice that “hey its okay to loosen up and have fun”. They start to kinda just dance by themselves or at least nod their head alittle and the anxiety of the dance floor goes down. Pretty soon even self conscious chicks ( this includes the hot ones) start to loosen up also.
3.) by the third song or so chicks WILL, I repeat WILL start to move in your vicinity hoping that you dance with them. Some even try to bump into you. The more aggressive ones just come up to you and start dancing on you and try to feel you up. Why not? You are a fun, non threatining dude who does not give a cr@p.
This will change how you look at clubs. You will actually start to have fun at clubs instead of being another loser who baby sit’s a beer in the hopes of sneaking up behind a girl to rub his crotch on her just to get rejected.
This takes ENORMOUS amount of confidence. And you will initially feel very SELF CONCIOUS especially the first few secs when your prob the only dude dancing. Its preferable to have a friend to dance along with you (NOT ON YOU---DON’T GET ANY WORNG IDEAS). But its a lot better if 2 cool well dressed guys are having fun just dancing instead of one. Chicks do it all the time, but when you flip the script and act like you are there to just have fun it throws everyone for a loop. You might not believe me because this is really revolutionary stuff but just try it. You will never look at clubs and bars the same way again.
1.) guys and girls look at you funny like who are these 2 dudes dancing like they are having fun. Most people, even girls at clubs are very self conscious about their dancing. You can sense the anxiety as everyone is playing a weird mating game. Guys are anxious they will get rejected so they stand on the side molesting a beer. Some try to act extra cool and tough. Girls are anxiously playing games trying to get the most sexual attention without looking like a bad dancer.
2.) after a while all the “tough guys” will kinda join in once they notice that “hey its okay to loosen up and have fun”. They start to kinda just dance by themselves or at least nod their head alittle and the anxiety of the dance floor goes down. Pretty soon even self conscious chicks ( this includes the hot ones) start to loosen up also.
3.) by the third song or so chicks WILL, I repeat WILL start to move in your vicinity hoping that you dance with them. Some even try to bump into you. The more aggressive ones just come up to you and start dancing on you and try to feel you up. Why not? You are a fun, non threatining dude who does not give a cr@p.
This will change how you look at clubs. You will actually start to have fun at clubs instead of being another loser who baby sit’s a beer in the hopes of sneaking up behind a girl to rub his crotch on her just to get rejected.
This takes ENORMOUS amount of confidence. And you will initially feel very SELF CONCIOUS especially the first few secs when your prob the only dude dancing. Its preferable to have a friend to dance along with you (NOT ON YOU---DON’T GET ANY WORNG IDEAS). But its a lot better if 2 cool well dressed guys are having fun just dancing instead of one. Chicks do it all the time, but when you flip the script and act like you are there to just have fun it throws everyone for a loop. You might not believe me because this is really revolutionary stuff but just try it. You will never look at clubs and bars the same way again.
