yes, the one who LJBF'ed me after 6 months of huge investments, hot and cold behavior and limited reward from her side. At the time she told me she wasn't over her ex (of course after having benefitted of my time and effort) and that I was awesome and she always loved to think about me and her together (yes, words, only words...). At that time I said "**** it" and went NC, now I tested myself and... my "i don't give a ****" attitude annoyed her a lot, she quickly escaped without saying anything apart "I need to go, I've a urgent meeting". But come on! i was really polite and nice with my smile :cheer: .. as I would be with any other girl. Now I feel empowered, thanks guys, lot of awesome material here, Brad lessons helped me a lot