Just spoke to a girl whose phone number I picked up last week. The conversation went very well. I was "on" as it were. Eventually she broke in with "we should definitely get together" etc etc. Knowing that she has a wacky work schedule, I asked her what nights she is free. At that point, she backed off of this weekend and said she won't know next week's schedule until Thurs. She asked me to call her Thurs or Fri, I told her no, she can call me when she knows. Hmm. I think this works, but did I inadvertently give up control of the situation? The way I see it, there is no avoiding working around her work schedule...and when she calls me back, it will be proof of IL. (I am confident that she WILL be calling.) Thoughts?