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Don Juan
- Joined
- Dec 6, 2015
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I am catching myself being on the other side of the story. I could be the one a girl will dump her LTR for.
So since my ex dumped me certain girl from my hometown started talking to me a lot, since she knows ill be back in my town in few days.
Backstory
8 years ago that girl was having a huge crush on me, telling me how she dreams of me every night. She was everything i wanted in a girl concerning personality and hobbies, but she was fat, and i had much hotter girl chasing after me at that time ( and equally as mentally demented ).
So LJBF her.
Meanwhile she lost a lot of weight, got in shape and turned into solid 8/10.
She has 100 orbiters around her, since is a very talented painter and a competitive gamer ( yes some guys like that now, including me ) , so she is semi-famous in the internet world
...Over the years every time we bumped into each other while out drinking we ended in a heavy make-out session. It was never planed, it would always simply happen. We would never talk about it after it, since every time one ( or both ) of us were in a relationship. That would happen ~once a year since she didn't go out much.
She has been in a LDR for 2 years now with a guy she never met in person. They game and talk and skype every single day, and he helped her get over the pain of being dumped by previous boyfriend.
But ever since i got dumped she started to complain to me about him.
He is so: "needy, clingy, he suffocates me, he says i love you too much, he doesn't let me have my space" etc.
In two weeks he will drive his car over half of Europe to visit her for few days, and then take her to his country where she can live with him.
Entire time i was ****y&funny while i was sabotaging that dude while saying "oh dont be like that, he is such a good guy, he loves you more than he loves himself, he will do anything for you, cant you see you is the only one he wants"
Her responses were: "oh i really miss talking to you, we should hang out more" "we must go out drinking together as soon as you come, how about friday??" and bunch of other messages filled with smiley faces
I don't even need to try much in the conversation, i just make jokes and tease her..
She is showing total lack of interest towards that guy.
That guy will get his hearth broked, even if she doesn't cheat on him ( with me lol) and doesn't dump him, sooner or later, SHE WILL BREAK HIM.
Im not sure how i should act in this situation, i can easily make her cheat on him, manipulate her to dump him. Is there a bro-code i should follow, or do those that dont know the game simply perish..
Hypergamy doesn't care you talk to her every night
Hypergamy doesn't care if you think your 2 year LTR is something special
Hypergamy doesn't care you helped her recover from being dumped
Hypergamy doesn't care if you will drive for days just to see her
Hypergamy does care a guy she had a crush on forever is suddenly free.
So since my ex dumped me certain girl from my hometown started talking to me a lot, since she knows ill be back in my town in few days.
Backstory
8 years ago that girl was having a huge crush on me, telling me how she dreams of me every night. She was everything i wanted in a girl concerning personality and hobbies, but she was fat, and i had much hotter girl chasing after me at that time ( and equally as mentally demented ).
So LJBF her.
Meanwhile she lost a lot of weight, got in shape and turned into solid 8/10.
She has 100 orbiters around her, since is a very talented painter and a competitive gamer ( yes some guys like that now, including me ) , so she is semi-famous in the internet world
...Over the years every time we bumped into each other while out drinking we ended in a heavy make-out session. It was never planed, it would always simply happen. We would never talk about it after it, since every time one ( or both ) of us were in a relationship. That would happen ~once a year since she didn't go out much.
She has been in a LDR for 2 years now with a guy she never met in person. They game and talk and skype every single day, and he helped her get over the pain of being dumped by previous boyfriend.
But ever since i got dumped she started to complain to me about him.
He is so: "needy, clingy, he suffocates me, he says i love you too much, he doesn't let me have my space" etc.
In two weeks he will drive his car over half of Europe to visit her for few days, and then take her to his country where she can live with him.
Entire time i was ****y&funny while i was sabotaging that dude while saying "oh dont be like that, he is such a good guy, he loves you more than he loves himself, he will do anything for you, cant you see you is the only one he wants"
Her responses were: "oh i really miss talking to you, we should hang out more" "we must go out drinking together as soon as you come, how about friday??" and bunch of other messages filled with smiley faces
I don't even need to try much in the conversation, i just make jokes and tease her..
She is showing total lack of interest towards that guy.
That guy will get his hearth broked, even if she doesn't cheat on him ( with me lol) and doesn't dump him, sooner or later, SHE WILL BREAK HIM.
Im not sure how i should act in this situation, i can easily make her cheat on him, manipulate her to dump him. Is there a bro-code i should follow, or do those that dont know the game simply perish..
Hypergamy doesn't care you talk to her every night
Hypergamy doesn't care if you think your 2 year LTR is something special
Hypergamy doesn't care you helped her recover from being dumped
Hypergamy doesn't care if you will drive for days just to see her
Hypergamy does care a guy she had a crush on forever is suddenly free.
