Judge my text game

[PLAYED]

Don't understand if I am keeping frame or not. Please judge

Her:Rocket **** 8=============o
Me: Mines bigger
Her: Rocket **** 8===============o Now mine is
Me: Extensions don't count, u lose
Her: U took 3 days to fink bout that so I believe I do! Lol
Me: That's nothin shud of seen how long it took me to fink of my last sent text
Her:Yeah ur either unbelievably slow at typing or bit simple! Lol x
Me:It's normally 5 days minimum. Luckily for u i got predictive text on rite now so I faster
Herunno bout lucky!
Me:Wudnt want u counting past 10 days and lose track of wen I last replied. Shud thank me
Her:I'd already forgotten about u! That generally happens when u dunt know some1s name
Me:Heartbroken
Her:U bought it on Urself! Lol
Me:Any excuse for a stalk on facebook
Her:Na not really I'm guessing who ever u r ur annoying
Me:O the best. Years I av spent to get this gd at it
Her:I'm sure u have! U gonna tell me who u r or bugger off!
Merince charming and u r?
Her:Think we might have very different definitions of Prince Charming! U must know who I am to have my number!!
Me:Shows up just ur mob number. Ur blatantly a girl tho from ur txts
1 hour no reply

Used the girl as practice and for you guys to give me insight into keeping frame. Didn't want to escalate to anything as got gf and happy thus far with her

 

[Purefilth]

More importantly

LEARN HOW TO SPELL AND PUNCTUATE PROPERLY.

It does matter.
Fvcking text talk:nono:

 

[Greasy Pig]

Thanks Purefilth. That's exactly what I was going to say.
Women get wet over a guy who can show he's more intelligent or smarter than her.
Good grammar and punctuation is crucial in my mind to piquing a girl's interest to fever pitch.

 

[Trump]

No idea what you and her are talking about, but dude you can't have "text game."

I know some guys here say they are awesome at text and get laid thru it like apple pie, but I always believe text should be used for setting up dates and moving things along to get stuff done, not to make a girls knees weak.

Perhaps it could work, but always think she could be texting you in between the pauses of her screwing another guy.

 

[rhythmic]

Perhaps it could work, but always think she could be texting you in between the pauses of her screwing another guy.

No, why would that be a problem?

1. As was already said, stop the txt spk.

2. With some girls it does pay off to take more time and indulge in this sort of sillyness (I was texting a girl over the weekend and the results look pretty good) but don't lose sight of what you're trying to achieve through the texting. Unless you're just doing it to blow off some steam, in which case, go nuts.

 

[DonGorgon]

too much small talk and childish games she sees you as a lame and is not attracted at all... NEXT

 

[Mike32ct]

Cut back on the ball busting.

 

[Purefilth]

Cut back on the ball busting.

Its not ball busting. If he asks for opinions and gets them, then its constructive criticism.

 

[bukowski_merit]

Women get wet over a guy who can show he's more intelligent or smarter than her.

Wet over intelligence??? That's a first....

Very few women get wet over a guy because of his intelligence; at least not the book smart kind.

Wit and charisma are a different story, but most girls could care less about punctuation or spelling. Regardless of what they might say in their online dating profiles.

Also, it's obvious to any intelligent person that the OP and her and making most of their spelling mistakes on purpose (which is a form of rapport).

you can't have "text game."

You certainly can have text game.

If you're good at it - you can do amazing things.

If you're bad at it - it can ruin your chances.

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I know some guys here say they are awesome at text and get laid thru it like apple pie, but I always believe text should be used for setting up dates and moving things along to get stuff done, not to make a girls knees weak.

Perhaps it could work, but always think she could be texting you in between the pauses of her screwing another guy.

Ok, this makes more sense.

So you just don't USE text game yourself. You instead prefer to go the more traditional route.

That's fine, but believe me - there's a lot of power in being able to get through to a woman through ONLY text.... It's not supposed to happen. You're supposed to be another boring guy talking about the same old boring stuff with them........

The answer is always "don't be boring". Don't be typical. Don't be the other 20 guys who have text her today.

And if you can't be more than boring, or don't have the time to dedicate to it - than yeah, try some other route.

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Now, since the OP requested feedback, and said this was just practice on him maintaining his frame. I'll take a look.

Her:Yeah ur either unbelievably slow at typing or bit simple! Lol x
Me:It's normally 5 days minimum. Luckily for u i got predictive text on rite now so I faster

Speaking strictly on this conversation....

MOST of this conversation is her bringing the conversation to you and you reacting to what she says....

As far as frame is concerned - you want to be the one making the comment that she has to jump through flaming hoops to answer.

Herunno bout lucky!
Me:Wudnt want u counting past 10 days and lose track of wen I last replied. Shud thank me

Yeah, i don't know what's going on here. I mean, i understand what you're saying, but... why are you saying it?

You should have an "end game" plan; a place you want to get to with the woman, and build the conversation to get there....

Framing makes no sense if you don't have a goal.

Her:I'd already forgotten about u! That generally happens when u dunt know some1s name
Me:Heartbroken

Again, you're reacting to what she's saying!

When a woman shows enough interest in you to ask my name (which is what she's doing) - it's normal to give it to her! Playing this "don't answer her questions" game is fun sometimes, but it's downright anti-productive to most forms of seduction. All it implies is that you don't really care about her, and why does she care about this? You're some guy that she's presumably meant over the internet.

I'd said something like:
Right. My name is [name]. I'm a Gemini. A good cook. And I like to bite.

Now you go... And if you say you like to bite too - you better mean it!


I'd say this because my goal would be sex. And saying something like this would test her on if she's willing to go there.

"My name is Monica. Scorpio. I like to cook too." would be a boring answer from her, and i might chose to not respond back at that point.

"My name is Monica. Cancer. Prove it! And I like to bite too, but only nibbles" would be the kind of answer I'm looking for!

Now she's in my frame! And I can move it in a sexual direction....

Her:U bought it on Urself! Lol
Me:Any excuse for a stalk on facebook

This is not banter. This is lame.

Her:Na not really I'm guessing who ever u r ur annoying
Me:O the best. Years I av spent to get this gd at it

So, you're practicing on some girl who apparently has no idea who you are and is clearly annoyed by it? I'm not seeing the logic here.

Her:I'm sure u have! U gonna tell me who u r or bugger off!
Merince charming and u r?

This sh!t is so lame through text!

I blame mystery!

Used the girl as practice and for you guys to give me insight into keeping frame. Didn't want to escalate to anything as got gf and happy thus far with her

Without trying to escalate - there's no need for a frame.

If your whole frame was "hey, i just want to annoy her"... Then yeah... A+

 

[bukowski_merit]

Its not ball busting. If he asks for opinions and gets them, then its constructive criticism.

I'm pretty sure he was telling the OP to stop the ball busting on the woman through text. Which is solid advice.

 

[Purefilth]

I'm pretty sure he was telling the OP to stop the ball busting on the woman through text. Which is solid advice.

My bad

 

[vatoloco]

Godfuckingdammit.

If you guys insist on texting, WHY AREN'T YOU CLOSING!!??

"Her:Rocket **** 8=============o
Me: Mines bigger
Her: Rocket **** 8===============o Now mine is
Me: Haha! I don't think so. Let's get drinks and I'll show you you are wrong."

^^^ This should've been it. Not all the fluffly bullshit.

If it's not helping you fuck or set up an outing, you're doing it wrong.

 

[nismo-4]

You are guilty of failure to close the deal.

The whole time you were fluffing over the text, you coulda been setting up a meet. Also, be the one to end text convos, and they should be short. Your text game is full of fail because she dipped out on you and hasn't replied back to you.

Get the girl in person and then run game. You are fined a bruised shaft. Judge nismo's ruling.

Case closed. Exit stage left.

 

[JohnChops]

I agree, dont be boring over text. Hence why i always open with a funny picture, comment, *******ish, ball busting, comment. Every time. Most of the time. Then get straight to the point. keep it lite and fun. Im actually surprised harry hasnt come in to preach his "DONT TEXT DAMN IT CALL TAHT HOEE UP!" mantra which works pretty damn well.

Guys are pussies now, they just text, fluff, never close, never call, always boring. Very few are actually good at texting or even talking for that matter. If you call a girl, theyre thrown off by it and you surprise them (look at you go youngin ) and this starts you off on a good foot.

Texting 24/7 kills all. She knows she has you any time of the day, any day of the week. Byebye mystery and attraction.

Bottom line: never be serious over text, never discuss serious matters over text, learn to fvcking spell because reading that gave me a headache, and close the deal. End "o" story.

I think a lot of issues come from 1. Not having options to 2. Always being available which leads to 3. over analyzing over a woman who doesn't like you.

Vicious cycle there. (oops off topic, letting my mind wander here )