Judge Daniel Rules: Boundaries On Trial

[No.Danny]

As the Unofficial/official self appointed Judge of SoSuave I am here to close another case in the matter of 2 days. What can I say, busy week?

So recently the hot topic of this site has been boundaries.
Boundaries this, boundaries that...
Boundaries my mother****ing black ass.....:rockon: :rockon:
bound·a·ry-
a line that marks the limits of an area; a dividing line.
a limit of a subject or sphere of activity

Now that I have defined what boundaries are, ill be straight to the point.

So I have quite a few plates(Not trying to brag :box: ) and I asked them "If we were in a relationship would I need to set boundaries of what is acceptable behavior?" And surpsingly the answer was no (notice my facetiousness) and I didn't stop there I asked "Why not?" and who would have thought they are aware of what is deemed acceptable in a relationship. No way!!!

But for some of the dumber population, let me paint an example. Lets say your girlfriend was going out with Channing Tatum Do you stupid mother****ers think he would need to set verbal boundaries, on what she shouldn't do? Hell to the ****ing no. You can be rest assured your ***** wouldn't even think of disrespecting him.:yes:

So what are boundaries for? Ill tell you what, they're for YOU. You set limits to what a girl can do without you imposing your will, she crosses the line. You walk away. Because boundaries are to protect yourself, not her. YOU
Do you really ****ing think stating BOUNDARIES is going to change ****, I would argue it makes you look weak and insecure. Do you stupid folks believe girls don't know whats wrong or right. Do all of you think they lack the ability to comprehend or understand. Because academically I would argue they are smarter.
Now I KNOW FOR SURE some of you will say "oh but if you dont have boundaries your girl will go on dates with guys and party and then you cant blame here because blah blah and you didn't state blah blah"
Okay let me make this simple, if that brakes one of YOUR boundaries then walk away. Why? Because a girl who is 100% interested in you would not even fathom doing something of this caliber.

Now exit my court...:kick:
You are dismissed

 

[sylvester the cat]

Amen Danny.

Careful now - all the SoSuave 'philosophers' will come out of the woodworks now.

I respect all you guys' right to your own opinions on this issue.

Just know that, if you disagree with what Danny just said, you're wrong.

gettinabitcocky

 

[zekko]

First off, you're not nismo. Secondly, you're late to the party, this boundary business has already been decided, although you're on the wrong side of it.

So I have quite a few plates(Not trying to brag :box: ) and I asked them "If we were in a relationship would I need to set boundaries of what is acceptable behavior?" And surpsingly the answer was no.

Seduction Theory 101: Never take dating advice from women. Never listen to what a woman says, only her actions.

So what are boundaries for? Ill tell you what, they're for YOU. You set limits to what a girl can do without you imposing your will, she crosses the line. You walk away. Because boundaries are to protect yourself, not her. YOU.

The pro-boundary crew has said all along the boundaries are for you.

Do you really ****ing think stating BOUNDARIES is going to change ****, I would argue it makes you look weak and insecure..

You think it makes you look weak and insecure because you're listening to what women SAY. And in this case, these are their attempts to manipulate you. But since you seemed to miss it the first 159,786,000 times it has been said: Boundaries are not intended to change her behavior, they act as a filter to eliminate the kind of women that are not acceptable to you.

Do you stupid folks believe girls don't know whats wrong or right. Do all of you think they lack the ability to comprehend or understand.

This is not about wrong or right, per se, it's more about gray areas. For me, it's mainly about whether or not women should hang out with male friends one on one while in a relationship. For me, that's not acceptable. For others, it is. In fact, it has been PROVEN that different people have different opinions on this, and that it why I let her know where I stand on the subject, so that there is no confusion about it later on.

 

[sylvester the cat]

I've made up my mind on a whole host of issues.

is the best way. s'all good brother. just busting your balls a little. :rockon:

 

[No.Danny]

First off, you're not nismo. Secondly, you're late to the party, this boundary business has already been decided, although you're on the wrong side of it.


Seduction Theory 101: Never take dating advice from women. Never listen to what a woman says, only her actions.



You think it makes you look weak and insecure because you're listening to what women SAY. And in this case, these are their attempts to manipulate you. But since you seemed to miss it the first 159,786,000 times it has been said: Boundaries are not intended to change her behavior, they act as a filter to eliminate the kind of women that are not acceptable to you.


This is not about wrong or right, per se, it's more about gray areas. For me, it's mainly about whether or not women should hang out with male friends one on one while in a relationship. For me, that's not acceptable. For others, it is. In fact, it has been PROVEN that different people have different opinions on this, and that it why I let her know where I stand on the subject, so that there is no confusion about it later on.

In Bold is every mistake you made while reading what I wrote. Your welcome, in advance.
But your biggest mistake what thinking that my theory or way of thought was influenced by what these so called women responded. Do you really believe their answers would have influenced my thought process.
But what am i going to do? Respect your opinion and you shall respect mine. :flowers:
You do have a few good points sir.

 

[zekko]

In Bold is every mistake you made while reading what I wrote.

You mean you ARE nismo?

But you know what, never mind. I just noticed you're 17. At 17 you should be spinning plates and seeing what kind of women are out there, not getting tied down in relationships. Besides, kids that age mostly all hang out together anyway, in groups and sets and subsets. Also, you probably haven't built enough leverage or value to set boundaries (that's not an insult, it's true for most people). So never mind, but things may change once you get to be an older adult.

 

[No.Danny]

You mean you ARE nismo?

But you know what, never mind. I just noticed you're 17. At 17 you should be spinning plates and seeing what kind of women are out there, not getting tied down in relationships. Besides, kids that age mostly all hang out together anyway, in groups and sets and subsets. Also, you probably haven't built enough leverage or value to set boundaries (that's not an insult, it's true for most people). So never mind, but things may change once you get to be an older adult.

When I'm your age I wish to be as wise as you. One of the greatest philosophers SoSuave has to offer. Please oh wise one, teach me the ways. I shall be Luke and you shall be thy father.

 

[sylvester the cat]

When I'm your age I wish to be as wise as you. One of the greatest philosophers SoSuave has to offer. Please oh wise one, teach me the ways. I shall be Luke and you shall be thy father.

you should have written your post and left it at that.

you knew there would be controversy and a backlash given the currentness of the topic so what's with the petty insults to those offering their alternate view?

as the ancient Greek philosopher Protagoras said - 'Man is the measure of all things' - meaning what is true is true to the individual, not necessarily all men.

if this is your truth then so be it. but understand it is not true for all men. if you can't handle this then don't proffer your views to the public. you are one man, not all men.

 

[No.Danny]

you should have written your post and left it at that.

you knew there would be controversy and a backlash given the currentness of the topic so what's with the petty insults to those offering their alternate view?

as the ancient Greek philosopher Protagoras said - 'Man is the measure of all things' - meaning what is true is true to the individual, not necessarily all men.

if this is your truth then so be it. but understand it is not true for all men. if you can't handle this then don't proffer your views to the public. you are one man, not all men.

I shall answer with a quote from my reply to him

But what am i going to do? Respect your opinion and you shall respect mine.
You do have a few good points sir.

And now I'll leave as my time is done for a while.
Bye fellas :rockon:

 

[No.Danny]

Haha, 17 year old stealing material from Nismo thinks he knows the world.....promptly gets his @ss handed to him and then starts the insults.

Your number one mistake danny.....listening to what the 17 year old girl told you. LOL!

Do you really believe their answers would have influenced my thought process.
But what am i going to do? Respect your opinion and you shall respect mine.
You do have a few good points sir.

But do I expect to change your views? In no way.
Hilarious you accuse of me stealing though :crackup: :crackup:

 

[JohnChops]

Who cares everyone listens to Frayzer and hes 18, no big deal about age. I disagree with the original post though. I would do the opposite but you got some learning to do anyway. To be honest the whole court ruling crap is pretty lame by nismo or danny

 

[Ronaldo7]

Go write about that in your journal.

Seems like a lot to get off that little chest.

 

[logicallefty]

I shall answer with a quote from my reply to him

And now I'll leave as my time is done for a while.
Bye fellas :rockon:

Danny, I hate to see you bail on us. IMO you have repeatedly posted some good stuff and have been a very positive contribution to this board. I am jealous in that I wish I had had your knowledge of game and women at 17. But lately, dude, you seem to be going off on some kind of flight that's off coarse for you. WTF? Telling us you are leaving SS more than once kinda screams "I want attention". And what about you being the Judge now? In case you hadn't noticed that's Nismo's thing. Whatever is going on I wish you the best Sir. I hope everything works out.