Wingedsig
Don Juan
Ok, fellas long story short. I met a woman a few months back, substanstially younger than myself that I fell head over heels for. I was coming out of a pretty dark time for a few different reasons, and felt like this woman helped me through and out of a tough time. I wanted to love her for it. I was out of the game for a while as I was sorting through some other issues, and became needy/clingy/jealous. She in turn pulled away and tested. Which they typically do if they detect weakness, they continue to test it to make sure you are worthy. Ultimately, things got squirrelly. I immediately began spinning other plates, hooked up w another chick or two, (one who she is friends with) and generally looking after myself. Reading, working out, focusing on my job and being grateful for the things I have in my life. Well now to the tricky point. I notice she rolled through town on business, and made it blatantly obvious through social media avenues and "check ins" that she was in town. Not only this, but blatant attempts to make sure I knew she was out in town w another bloke. Now, I wasn't born yesterday, I know this was a $hit test, and a jealousy ploy. I payed it no mind ( that she is aware of) and gave her zero reaction even though it illicited an internal emotional reaction. Now, my logical side knows that I should only invest time in persons with high attraction level, and that reciprocate. Essentially knowing one's own worth. But for some reason, even after doing the right things, working out, spinning plates, distancing myself from her, etc, I can't get her out of my OCD brain. But what do you gents do when it is blatantly obvious a woman is using jealousy to get at you?Thanks in advance gents.
