I've just got myself a new girlfriend, but I REALLY need help

BannedGod

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Think I'm a wuss for what I'm about to ask, I don't give a sh!t, I just need some tips on two situations

Anyways we have been dating for five days (met her the same day), and yes, I'm starting to fall with her and I feel I could have a LTR with her, but there's two slight problems.

1) She loves me WAY more than I do (I don't even love her yet, I just really like her, but like I said, I'm starting to like her more and more).
2) She already wants to have sex, but I'm not the kind of guy that can have sex with a girl I'm dating if I don't love her a lot (hence the "wuss" part). So far we went to third base but she stopped me before she reached orgasm, and stopped before I did, and when I got back home, that's when I realized I'm not ready yet.

And yes, I am attracted by her. She has an amazing face and a nice body, so that's not really a problem...

Anyways, any help would be appreciated :D
 

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5 days and you're two already falling in love??? Are you joking me?

How old are both of you?

In any case, sloooooow down the snowball. If you want to have a healthy LTR take it slow, be patient and get to the know the person - spread out over many diverse dates. Don't rush to get the fastest orgasm.

Seeing other women on the side will kill your neediness. Being less available and more of a challenge will help keep her interested in you in the long run.
 

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resilient said:
5 days and you're two already falling in love??? Are you joking me?

How old are both of you?

In any case, sloooooow down the snowball. If you want to have a healthy LTR take it slow, be patient and get to the know the person - spread out over many diverse dates. Don't rush to get the fastest orgasm.

Seeing other women on the side will kill your neediness. Being less available and more of a challenge will help keep her interested in you in the long run.
Well she said she's in love with me... Like she never felt like this with anyone else. However, I'm not... She is just growing on me more and more (sorry if I didn't use the right words)

we are both 18
 

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at age 18 youl fall in love with annyone with a nice bod.... o_O

but ass someone said just slow down alittle ... if you care forr her , if not then have sex a few times and live on....

but slow down , you dont have to tell her that you love her yet , cuz its been only 5 days lol , take it slow get to know each other and chill , enjoy life.... 18 -25 is the best years of your life spend them wisely....
 

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Slow down, and don't be predictable. Go a day here and there without talking to her at all. Let her be the one rambling on about how much she misses you and thinks about you when you are away. Be careful in revealing any feelings for her at all. Never show a woman all your cards. Try to remain a mystery for as long as you can.
 

Peace and Quiet

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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Bible Belt said it nicely.

Put on a poker face for her.
 
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