Okay.. This is how it is... Basically, i have oneitis for a girl. I cant stop thinking about her, every minute of the day i'm wondering what she is doing and i want to be with her all the time.
It started in September 2007 when i first came to university and met this girl. Let's call her Rachel. Well Rachel is not my normal type physically. She is naturally quite pretty and cute looking but i tend to go more for the 'fake' looking girls (blonde, tanned, make up etc). She did however catch my eye because as i said, she was cute looking and quite interesting.
The first day i met her we talked and she told me that she has had a boyfriend for 5 years. Our university is far away from her actual home, so she couldn't see him that often. Anyway....Me and rachel got on really well almost instantly...She would come to my room alot and hang out and we would watch films. Over the year we got closer and closer but we never even kissed because she was determined on staying faithful to her boyfriend (who she argued with on a daily basis on the phone).
However, even though rachel wouldnt kiss me, whenever i started flirting or talking to another girl in a nightclub, she would get annoyed and a few times she even cried and kept asking if i was taking the other girl home with me. I got quite annoyed by this because, even though i really liked rachel, she was refusing to dump her boyfriend yet wasnt letting me get with any other girls. Then came the summer break and so we didnt see eachother for four whole months but every now and again she would text me.
When we went back to university in september 2008, it was really exciting seeing eachother and i could see that she felt the same way to. She started coming to my room again and hanging with me, and again cried in a nightclub when i was with another girl. Then in December 2008, right before the xmas holidays, we kissed, even though she was with her boyfriend. I was so happy.
Then after xmas, she told me that she had split up with him after 5years. I instantly knew i had to play it cool because it was the only boy she had ever been with and she is quite shy anyway. We started seeing each other, she was round my flat every night, and she was telling me such things as 'Dont ever stop talking to me, i cant imagine life without talking to you' and 'next summer you have to come and stay with me and meet my family'...I dont usually let girls get close as rachel got because i know it is never a happy ending. People always get upset. But from rachels character, she is kind, nice and thinks of other before her self, so i let myself fall in love with her.
Then things started going downhill, people kept getting involved, like her flat mates who seemed to always ask questions and she hated all the attention. She started telling me that we should just be friends, and i was upset but agreed. She told me that we shouldnt speak or see eachother for a few weeks so that we can forget about it. But then two days after this she text me asking if i was having a good night..That really pissed me off because it was as if she was leading me on...the next day i asked her why she text me and she blamed it on alchohol....i hate people who do that.....Then she started seeing a boy from back home where she lives and i felt hurt...we didnt speak for a few days and then one night, she came up to me and was trying to hold my hand and was telling me 'i still really really like you'....Then two days later she brought that boy up to our university from home and was kissing him infront of me...which made me feel the worst ive ever felt....It annoys me because she keeps saying that she just wants to be friends and then, when i dont talk to her, she will ring me....and it pisses me off because it gives me hope eachtime...
I have to get this girl back to how it was, because we did get on so well and we was both happy until people started getting involved....I cant stop thinking about her...Please help...what should i do to get her back???
It started in September 2007 when i first came to university and met this girl. Let's call her Rachel. Well Rachel is not my normal type physically. She is naturally quite pretty and cute looking but i tend to go more for the 'fake' looking girls (blonde, tanned, make up etc). She did however catch my eye because as i said, she was cute looking and quite interesting.
The first day i met her we talked and she told me that she has had a boyfriend for 5 years. Our university is far away from her actual home, so she couldn't see him that often. Anyway....Me and rachel got on really well almost instantly...She would come to my room alot and hang out and we would watch films. Over the year we got closer and closer but we never even kissed because she was determined on staying faithful to her boyfriend (who she argued with on a daily basis on the phone).
However, even though rachel wouldnt kiss me, whenever i started flirting or talking to another girl in a nightclub, she would get annoyed and a few times she even cried and kept asking if i was taking the other girl home with me. I got quite annoyed by this because, even though i really liked rachel, she was refusing to dump her boyfriend yet wasnt letting me get with any other girls. Then came the summer break and so we didnt see eachother for four whole months but every now and again she would text me.
When we went back to university in september 2008, it was really exciting seeing eachother and i could see that she felt the same way to. She started coming to my room again and hanging with me, and again cried in a nightclub when i was with another girl. Then in December 2008, right before the xmas holidays, we kissed, even though she was with her boyfriend. I was so happy.
Then after xmas, she told me that she had split up with him after 5years. I instantly knew i had to play it cool because it was the only boy she had ever been with and she is quite shy anyway. We started seeing each other, she was round my flat every night, and she was telling me such things as 'Dont ever stop talking to me, i cant imagine life without talking to you' and 'next summer you have to come and stay with me and meet my family'...I dont usually let girls get close as rachel got because i know it is never a happy ending. People always get upset. But from rachels character, she is kind, nice and thinks of other before her self, so i let myself fall in love with her.
Then things started going downhill, people kept getting involved, like her flat mates who seemed to always ask questions and she hated all the attention. She started telling me that we should just be friends, and i was upset but agreed. She told me that we shouldnt speak or see eachother for a few weeks so that we can forget about it. But then two days after this she text me asking if i was having a good night..That really pissed me off because it was as if she was leading me on...the next day i asked her why she text me and she blamed it on alchohol....i hate people who do that.....Then she started seeing a boy from back home where she lives and i felt hurt...we didnt speak for a few days and then one night, she came up to me and was trying to hold my hand and was telling me 'i still really really like you'....Then two days later she brought that boy up to our university from home and was kissing him infront of me...which made me feel the worst ive ever felt....It annoys me because she keeps saying that she just wants to be friends and then, when i dont talk to her, she will ring me....and it pisses me off because it gives me hope eachtime...
I have to get this girl back to how it was, because we did get on so well and we was both happy until people started getting involved....I cant stop thinking about her...Please help...what should i do to get her back???
