I've gone soft! Help!

[Ice Cold]

Guys. Help!

For starters I have oneitis. I had my last one about a year ago.

It's this girl. Let's call her Angelica. She's a 16 year old cherry and is really sweet. I've known her for 3 weeks. She's horny. When we kiss and I rub her tits, she just trances away. When I rub her pvssy (through the pants) I can tell she's there.

She's so sweet, I have moral problems seeing other girls now. Last week a girl comes up asking if I have a gf and I say yes, even though I am not even fukking Angelica yet.

I also got attached and she withdrew. I was really busy for a week, so I didn't reply to her calls... or replied briefly and she got offended. (I think) And I wanted to meet up on the weekend, but one day she's been going out with parents, the other day doing homework and one more day she "promised a friend to go out, but lost the friend's number and had to wait for the friend to call". Utter bs.

She's also been saying that "we haven't discuss the sex issue yet". I asked what she wanted to know. Eventually she asked me if I was planning doing it with her. My answer: "what kind of stupid question is that?"

She says she doesn't feel ready.

Seems like she's avoiding me cause she knows she's gonna get fukked next time I see her. Or she got scared.

I'm confused. I haven't had that feeling for some time now. HEEEELP!

 

[The Bad Ass Canadian]

Boy,.... Ice,

I never thought i'd see you post something like this.

Step outside for a second and think about it from another perspective. Why is she driving you nuts?

Because she's doing to you exactly what we Don Juans do to drive our women crazy. The thing is, she probably doesn't even know that she is doing it.

There's nothing wrong with having one-itis... as long as the girl is interested in you, as well... and you don't let your oneitis dictate your actions. (don't turn afc)



Take a breath. chill. Think about it.


Peace, Bro.


The Bad Ass Canadian

 

[rgeere]

Dude, get your head together ...

I mean seriously GET YOUR HEAD TOGETHER ...

You're acting like you are out of control with this girl.

For starters, FORGET ABOUT SEX ...

THE THOUGHT OF SEX IS CONTROLLING YOU!

Yes, you heard me... Forget it ..

Next, CLEAR YOUR MIND ...

Now, GET A PLAN OF ACTION

Take control of yourself, it's all you really can do ...

 

[rgeere]

Ohh, and by the way ...

It sounds like you have a bit of desperation, and you basically rejected her by saying "What sort of question is that?" when she wanted to talk about sex.

Do what I wrote above and get some control of yourself, then get control of the situation. It's still possible you can fix this and go back to being DJ, but you are backtracking into an AFC with the way you are acting is scaring her off ...

 

[On_the_Top]

First of all, go into the bathroom, look in the mirror, and ***** slap yourself. Second, get out, find some friends, and have a good time.Finally, you better wake up to reality and get a handle on things and take a step back and figure out what the hell you are doing.

I can relate to your problem. Just a few weeks ago I cought that horrible diease in its wrose mutated form. I was at a frat party and got up real cozy with this girl. Kino all over the place. (And yes we where both sober) She pointing out stars and **** to me(now I wanna puke for being a *****) and holding each other through the night. Over that weekend I cought it, she started distancing herself from me, being avoidant, and I reverted into the lowest form of an AFC. Then one day (after watching a girly movie with her and a friend) I went into the bathroom, looked at myself, and ****ed my arm all the way back. I smacked myself so hard my face hit the counter. Reality hit me, I realized I was *****. Me the person who has no respect for women (out side of my family). Me the person who taught all my friends how to get with and toymwith women's emtions. Me, the person who rather be phuckin than huggin. As an old school rapper would say "I checked myself, before I recked myself." All I can say is never again. I damn sure don't have any feelings for her and she wants nothing to do with me. Everything is back to normal, and Iam a free, male bachelor about to hit his prime, no ties, no worries, no women, just fun, and oh yeah life is good!

 

[The Bartender]

Watch Fight Club then watch a porn...No more sissy no more oneitis.

ps- dont jack off

 

[rgeere]

Originally posted by The Bartender
Watch Fight Club then watch a porn...No more sissy no more oneitis.

ps- dont jack off

Nothing substitutes better than the real thing...

 

[Player_Supreme]

Originally posted by Ice Cold
Guys. Help!

For starters I have oneitis. I had my last one about a year ago.

It's this girl. Let's call her Angelica. She's a 16 year old cherry and is really sweet. I've known her for 3 weeks. She's horny. When we kiss and I rub her tits, she just trances away. When I rub her pvssy (through the pants) I can tell she's there.

OHHH GAWWWDDD ANOTHER ONE CRACKS!!!!!!

Dam people WTF is wrong with you so called don juans. Is this a real post or a got dam joke again?

"When I rub her pvssy (through the pants) I can tell she's there."

Oh geeezeeeuuuussss help us!!!

One-itis after only 3 weeks????? WTF is this!!!! And he calls himselve ICE COLD...more like warm fuzzy...Oh do I even dare read on....let's see what the sucka says next...

Originally posted by Ice Cold

She's so sweet, I have moral problems seeing other girls now. Last week a girl comes up asking if I have a gf and I say yes, even though I am not even fukking Angelica yet.

Oh god help me....I think I'm going to heave!!!!

Haaaalllllpppp...please cold no more....pleaaaaassseee no more..."She's so sweet," nooooo....and you have what????why are you even here on this site frontin like ya a player when your really a SYMP!!!

Originally posted by Ice Cold

I also got attached and she withdrew. I was really busy for a week, so I didn't reply to her calls... or replied briefly and she got offended. (I think) And I wanted to meet up on the weekend, but one day she's been going out with parents, the other day doing homework and one more day she "promised a friend to go out, but lost the friend's number and had to wait for the friend to call". Utter bs.

Atleast she has some sense about her and some game up in her. Hell you got what you deserved. I pray that you never catch this one for breaking the game rules and not studying the bible on this site.

If you had this post wouldnt even exist and you would be happily fawking your brains out with that girl/kid.

Originally posted by Ice Cold

She's also been saying that "we haven't discuss the sex issue yet". I asked what she wanted to know. Eventually she asked me if I was planning doing it with her. My answer: "what kind of stupid question is that?"

She says she doesn't feel ready.

Seems like she's avoiding me cause she knows she's gonna get fukked next time I see her. Or she got scared.

I'm confused. I haven't had that feeling for some time now. HEEEELP!

Ok I can't read any more. Stay confused. Become a stalker or whatever you do with your spare time. Just don't rape that poor little child. She is someones daughter.

In fact leave her the fawk alone you preeeveeerrty. (spelled intentionally incorrect).

And change your got dam name to something that is more befitting of who you really are. Sorry to blast you kid but this site needs a shaking up again.

Too many Symps perpetratin again. Must be a infestation of symphood. Keep this shyt up and I will sick Tha Realness on ya.

 

[Ice Cold]

Originally posted by The Bad Ass Canadian
Boy,.... Ice,

I never thought i'd see you post something like this.

I know! Fukk! I didn't expect it myself.

Step outside for a second and think about it from another perspective. Why is she driving you nuts?

She was nice and available at first. Now she's not really active and withdrawing. It makes me want her even more. I pursue... she runs away. I called her 3 times on the weekend. She didn't devote one hour to me.

Because she's doing to you exactly what we Don Juans do to drive our women crazy. The thing is, she probably doesn't even know that she is doing it.

But it's fn working! So far. I can't think of anything other than her and what to do with her! $#@@#$

There's nothing wrong with having one-itis... as long as the girl is interested in you, as well... and you don't let your oneitis dictate your actions. (don't turn afc)

I'm trying not to, but I called her three times. Actions show she's not intrested. I can't figure out why.

Take a breath. chill. Think about it.

It has to do with sex probably. She is a bit too young for it, which turns me on even more.

You're acting like you are out of control with this girl.

I am out of control. She didn't go out with me. IL dropped. I am not at the top of her priority list.

Now, GET A PLAN OF ACTION

What would that be? Ignore mode and 10 other chicks?

It sounds like you have a bit of desperation, and you basically rejected her by saying "What sort of question is that?" when she wanted to talk about sex.

It's not desperation. I just wanted to get her alone in my room... not some park with random walker-bys.

Did it sound like rejection? I meant it in "I obviously plan on doing every naugty thing to you!"

Do what I wrote above and get some control of yourself, then get control of the situation.

Myself is ok, just confused. Situation is a bit harder. Some thinking will have to be done.

2Player_supreme: You know, you could be a little more helpful. Trust me, I read the manual. But could you advise me on the topic of "what the f do I do now?" other than just spouting insults.

 

[Player_Supreme]

Sorry kid. I do oppologize.

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

Ice, how old are you? If you 'get the girl' everything else will follow! Get her mind, then her heart, then she is yours for the taking - it happens in this order!!

You, in your eagerness to conquer and to be cpnquered, went for her prized possessions first!

Maybe you scared her off fearing what you may do to her in your lustful longings and what she may do to you in her state of weakness!!

It seems as though the harder you get the softer you become!

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

Re: Re: I've gone soft! Help!

Originally posted by Player_Supreme
OHHH GAWWWDDD ANOTHER ONE CRACKS!!!!!!

One-itis after only 3 weeks????? WTF is this!!!! And he calls himselve ICE COLD...more like warm fuzzy...Oh do I even dare read on....let's see what the sucka says next...

...keep this shyt up and I will sick Tha Realness on ya.

Good one Player - 'Ice cold' has melted into warm & fuzzy in only 3 weeks!!

This girl is going to have you crying on your knees in 2 months!!


What happened to dj 'tha realness' - was he banned?

 

[Ice Cold]

Ok. Mind that this was written 5 mins after I actually realised that I'm getting soft. I was emotional.

Boo fn hooo hooo

Now that I got some sleep, it's much more clear. I don't have a clear plan yet though.

 

[CLOONEY]

Ice, firstly, let me say............LOL!!!!!

16..........? I personally would not go that young, but I guess whatever rocks your boat.

As far as advice...................LOL.

Na, seriously, the reason she is "busy" is because she is hurt. Girls do this all the time. Let her know u wanna meet up soon just for a "talk", and tell her to call you. Leave it at that. If this girl is turned off that quickly, she is showing her age and/or her fukced up indecisive, insecure personality!

 

[CLOONEY]

Oh yeah, I posted a link to a thread about controlling your emotions a few days back...............THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT IT IS FOR!!!!!!!! READ IT!

 

[Sexual]

I've cracked too. I've been single for 8 months and suddenly when I break it off with a girl I've been talking to that lives next door she starts talking to my roommate. I go crazy and win her back out of jealousy and now here I am with my other hook ups heartbroken and mad, and me stuck with a girlfriend that I only am seeing for pride issues.

 

[Sexual]

Originally posted by CLOONEY
Oh yeah, I posted a link to a thread about controlling your emotions a few days back...............THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT IT IS FOR!!!!!!!! READ IT!

Helped a lot, exactly what happened to me except the wussyfied part. I lost control of my emotions because she looked happy without me. Any more ideas on how to keep your emotions in control or how to get out of the situation CLOONEY?

 

[diplomatic_lie]

Hey, this sounds silly, but go alone to the country for a while. Head to the rainforest/savannah to hang out by yourself, drive around, maybe hike up to some quiet place.

Do it for two days (sleep in the car), and you'll start to enjoy yourself.

 

[Ice Cold]

Originally posted by diplomatic_lie
Hey, this sounds silly, but go alone to the country for a while. Head to the rainforest/savannah to hang out by yourself, drive around, maybe hike up to some quiet place.

Do it for two days (sleep in the car), and you'll start to enjoy yourself.

Yeah, and bring 2 hotties with you I HAVE UNI MAN!

 

[Ice Cold]

Originally posted by CLOONEY
Oh yeah, I posted a link to a thread about controlling your emotions a few days back...............THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT IT IS FOR!!!!!!!! READ IT!

Yep. Matches me 100%

I didn't have this before, but I am exhibiting traits of an attention hoe. I need validation... apparently.

I ran into the girl who asked if I had a gf. After a short convo I was feeling her up. Didn't fukk, but it felt good.

Angelica doesn't seem that important anymore.