It's tough not to pedestalize when you approach women

[The411]

The SS community is staunchly against pedestalization, but also staunchly for approaching women. I feel that they are sometimes in conflict with each other. Don't get me wrong, I think you should approach. But when you do, you give women all the power. SHE can either accept you or reject you. SHE can use sh!t tests to see whether you're up to her standard. Rarely do men ever the ability to do things.

In the grand scheme of things, I would say women have sex much more than men do. It's much more easily accessible to them. That's why I believe that every single DJ in this board pedestalizes women at some point. They feel the need to approach a women (in search of sex) and try to "game" her in order to get what they want. Game is a form of pedestalization, because you're acting like something you're not in order to get into her pants.

I feel like pedestalization shouldn't be looked so down upon. Yes, you pedestalize women when you hit on them. But that is not inherently a bad thing, right?

Listen SkinnyJeans, instead of being dishonest with yourself why not try approaching people (chicks) as people and not objects needed to validate yourself. Try that. Some will like you some won't. Get over yourself dude. You aren't a special little snowflake. Nor am I nor the chicks who think they are because they're insecure themselves. That's life. Be prepared to deal with it like some of us are or curl up in a ball and die.

Do you approach dudes as objects of validation or to "pedestalize" them? People you first meet? Why do it to chicks?

I know you must realize some people will be A-holes. Some are A-holes because they are insecure themselves and need their own validation from certain types whom fit their "mold". That's on them.

Would you get upset if some random dude didn't want to talk or be your friend? Why would you give a rats azz if some chick would do the same? Is she some Lord of The Rings object needed like the "precious"?

Is complaining about things easier for you to do than even have your own validation through your self? Is it "comfy" for you to wallow in self pity and or need to drag others into some nice security blanket of misery loves company?

How's that working out for you?

Get over yourself dude. No one owes you, or myself anything. Grow up.

 

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[Roni_88]

I don't approach women asking for sex or telling them how pretty they are. I just have a normal conversation. Some of the responses were worded as if this method comes off as desperate.

Women sense it even if it is not said, in your body language in the way you talk,,,you just have to not care.. you are the prize.. and if she still says that f.. her you are more important than her, smile and move on the the billion women left.