I made my family New Year's Meal today, three of us. Bought a nine pound pork tenderloin for 1.99 a pound a month ago and froze it. Our meat was $4 worth of this in a crockpot overnight, veg was $.50 worth of dried blackeye peas and $.50 worth of turnip greens, $.50 worth of corn muffins from a mix adding two eggs, milk and some oil. We were stuffed due to the fiber without actually eating much, it was delicious. Total cost for three people New Years feast? $6.00 including butter, tea, condiments. OK, enough bragging.
OP, here are some things that help me. 1. Learn to wok. Woks are cheap, easy and fast. 1-2 tbsp. of peanut-olive oil, onion first, then meat, then other veg. On high the whole time. Onions keep very well in the fridge when you only use part of one, same for celery. Canned tomatoes diced are a way to turn anything "Italian." Microwave dense veg like carrots and potatoes for 3-4 minutes before putting in the mix. Stirfry enough for 3 meals at once and it gets BETTER in the fridge. Add a tbsp. of peanut butter and some curry powder to stirfry for no hassle thai taste. Along those lines, there are usually many ways to cut corners and achieve the same results as opposed to the complicated recipes that women follow like they are the ten commandments. 2. Listen to others on beans, yes they have carbs, but the fiber and protein make them well worth it. If you can switch most of your daily carbs to beans and a couple of fruits for breakfast, the battle is half won right there. You will almost certainly not have cravings if you are eating a serving of beans two meals a day. 3. Learn spices. Ginger, cinnamon, cumin, curry, soy sauce, mustard, chili powder, hot sauce, Adobo, etc. Once you know spices, you can make your food delicious with next to no added fat and no sugar. Avoid salad dressing, ketchup, barbecue sauce entirely, you don't need them to make the food good. Light Soy sauce makes good salad dressing and yields a bit of protein. 4. Get offending food OUT of your environment. If you buy junk in the grocery, throw it out as punishment. 5. Nuts, Walmart brand great value in large pouches are cheap, even cheaper are planters peanuts in the large plastic carton. 6. If you have to get fast food, get one or two things off the $1 menu, skip fries and soda, eat a couple of bites then throw it out the window. taco bell bean burritos aren't half bad nutritionally if you like those. IIRC, 15g of protein, 8g fiber, 11g fat, 55g carb and about 350 calories. There is no good fast food, but that ain't bad. Eat two of those when cheating, you will get that fast food taste, and you will not be hungry for some time. Good luck.