backbreaker
Master Don Juan
Maybe it's just me. I'm sitting in starbucks. I'm looking dead at this woman.. probably a real life HB7. she's in her early 40's or a really bad late 30's. she's not "hot". if she was wearing anything other than what she has on i probably wouldn't give her the time of day looks wise. you can look at her untoned arms and see she hasn't seen the inside of a gym in years. she's not big, she's just not in shape.
However, she is rocking the **** out of this black dress and these red fvck me pumps. She's got some legs to kill for.
I think back to my dating process with my wife while i thought she was pretty enough to approach her obviously, and i liked her enough to go on a few days with her it wasn't until our 4th date, where we went out to a higher end restaurant and she was wearing a brown dress with some brown pumps that was the first time i did a double take looking at her.
When I was 21 years old I approached a girl that would in due time become my first adult LTR though at this time I didn't now this. I approached her at dillards trying to buy something for my dad for fathers day. she was cute, pleasant and i could tell she thought i was kinda cute so I asked for her number. I got it. But it's like eventually she forgot how cute she thought I was and started to flake out on me. I had just left the gym when I saw her. I wasn't in gym clothes but I wasn't dressed to the 9 either.
About 2 weeks later I go the same store trying to buy some cologne and I was getting ready to go out with friends that night and I was dressed to the 9 this time and I saw the same girl. She didn't even work in the cologne department she worked in the clothing department but she saw me and came up to me and gave me a hug and wouldn't leave my side. Then basically invited herself out to eat with me in the food court. Night and day difference. She told me in due time when we actually were dating that she thought i was cute at first but she saw me that day and she was like "damn he's fine as hell lol"
Clothes. Learn about them. Live them. Eat, Breathe style. A DJ who isn't fashion conscious is like a bodybuilder who doesn't use protein powder. Clothing and how you wear your clothes make a huge difference, rightfully or wrongfully in how you're perceived.
In real life, especially when I sit in a place like Starbucks and work I see a lot of interactions, most dudes don't have the faintest clue about style or how to put clothes together. (damn like right now this dude keeps starring at me it's kinda creepy lol)
So here are some pointers from your boy backbreaker. I'm not even going to tell you HOW to dress becuase everyone's style is different. But these are some universal tips
Iron your damn clothes
Either iron them or send them to the cleaners. I'm sitting in starbucks right now and there 6 men in here not including myself. There's only one man in this pale whose clothes aren't wrinkled as ****. The other 5 guys in the place look like they just took their **** straight out of the dryer and put it on. If this is some stuff I can notice, women notice. There is nothing cute about wrinkled ass clothes. It's sloppy and it's a turn off. It tells a woman you aren't worth ****.
Now I'm not big on creeses. I don't like the heavy starch look but even that's better than wrinkled as **** look. It least it shows you did something.
Better yet, Wash your damn clothes
Even better idea. Before you iron them... WASH THEM! I know. Groundbreaking stuff. Showing up with mustard stains and **** on your pants is not cute. Showing up somewhere with your clothes smelling stale is not cute.
If you have a gut, for the love of god stop wearing button down shirts
This isn't even a thread about going to the gym. IF you want to be fat hey, do your thing. But if you are going to be a fat fvck for the rest of your life please do your sex life a favor and stop wearing tight ass button down shirts that make your gut look like it wants to bust out of prison. Nothing screams "I don't give a **** about sex" like some 5'8 200 pound dude wearing a medium button down polo shirt that's tight as ****
Okay, if you are hell bent on wearing button down shirts, and you have a gut, invest in vests
Put a vest over the shirt. I'm looking at this dude right now with this wrinkled ass tight button down shirt on. If the guy would throw on a polo vest over the **** he would be at least, at least it would say 1. i put SOME thought into how I look and 2. it wouldn't be as obvious he's out of shape.
White guys, for the love of god stop putting all this **** in your hair
women laugh at you behind your backs. My wife told me she would never date a guy who uses more hair products than she does. No one wants to touch a guy with "gooey" hair. Your hair looks like some **** out of wal mart kid's isle.
Be Creative
I mean, try. Show some initiative. Show some form of original thought. For example, I like to wear white on white. Especially white chinos with a white polo. It's clean, it's not too far out there but it's not something you see everyday from everyone. It's just different enough to show I'm trying but not too far out there to say I'm trying too hard. Throw that on with a brown watch and I'm clean as hell.
A girl would rather date a cheap stylish guy than an expensive guy with no taste
Right now I'm wearing an off brand bright orange polo shirt with some brown khakis and some brown spurrys with a brown belt and a brown watch. outside the watch, this entire outfit cost about $15 dollars, I even got the spurrys at the goodwill store. And i'm the cleanest dude here.
It doesn't matter if you are wearing polo, Banana Republic, if you don't know how to wear it. Being able to to dress doesn't mean spending thousands of dollars on clothes necessary.
Invest in a kick ass iron and learn how to shop at thrift stores.
However, she is rocking the **** out of this black dress and these red fvck me pumps. She's got some legs to kill for.
I think back to my dating process with my wife while i thought she was pretty enough to approach her obviously, and i liked her enough to go on a few days with her it wasn't until our 4th date, where we went out to a higher end restaurant and she was wearing a brown dress with some brown pumps that was the first time i did a double take looking at her.
When I was 21 years old I approached a girl that would in due time become my first adult LTR though at this time I didn't now this. I approached her at dillards trying to buy something for my dad for fathers day. she was cute, pleasant and i could tell she thought i was kinda cute so I asked for her number. I got it. But it's like eventually she forgot how cute she thought I was and started to flake out on me. I had just left the gym when I saw her. I wasn't in gym clothes but I wasn't dressed to the 9 either.
About 2 weeks later I go the same store trying to buy some cologne and I was getting ready to go out with friends that night and I was dressed to the 9 this time and I saw the same girl. She didn't even work in the cologne department she worked in the clothing department but she saw me and came up to me and gave me a hug and wouldn't leave my side. Then basically invited herself out to eat with me in the food court. Night and day difference. She told me in due time when we actually were dating that she thought i was cute at first but she saw me that day and she was like "damn he's fine as hell lol"
Clothes. Learn about them. Live them. Eat, Breathe style. A DJ who isn't fashion conscious is like a bodybuilder who doesn't use protein powder. Clothing and how you wear your clothes make a huge difference, rightfully or wrongfully in how you're perceived.
In real life, especially when I sit in a place like Starbucks and work I see a lot of interactions, most dudes don't have the faintest clue about style or how to put clothes together. (damn like right now this dude keeps starring at me it's kinda creepy lol)
So here are some pointers from your boy backbreaker. I'm not even going to tell you HOW to dress becuase everyone's style is different. But these are some universal tips
Iron your damn clothes
Either iron them or send them to the cleaners. I'm sitting in starbucks right now and there 6 men in here not including myself. There's only one man in this pale whose clothes aren't wrinkled as ****. The other 5 guys in the place look like they just took their **** straight out of the dryer and put it on. If this is some stuff I can notice, women notice. There is nothing cute about wrinkled ass clothes. It's sloppy and it's a turn off. It tells a woman you aren't worth ****.
Now I'm not big on creeses. I don't like the heavy starch look but even that's better than wrinkled as **** look. It least it shows you did something.
Better yet, Wash your damn clothes
Even better idea. Before you iron them... WASH THEM! I know. Groundbreaking stuff. Showing up with mustard stains and **** on your pants is not cute. Showing up somewhere with your clothes smelling stale is not cute.
If you have a gut, for the love of god stop wearing button down shirts
This isn't even a thread about going to the gym. IF you want to be fat hey, do your thing. But if you are going to be a fat fvck for the rest of your life please do your sex life a favor and stop wearing tight ass button down shirts that make your gut look like it wants to bust out of prison. Nothing screams "I don't give a **** about sex" like some 5'8 200 pound dude wearing a medium button down polo shirt that's tight as ****
Okay, if you are hell bent on wearing button down shirts, and you have a gut, invest in vests
Put a vest over the shirt. I'm looking at this dude right now with this wrinkled ass tight button down shirt on. If the guy would throw on a polo vest over the **** he would be at least, at least it would say 1. i put SOME thought into how I look and 2. it wouldn't be as obvious he's out of shape.
White guys, for the love of god stop putting all this **** in your hair
women laugh at you behind your backs. My wife told me she would never date a guy who uses more hair products than she does. No one wants to touch a guy with "gooey" hair. Your hair looks like some **** out of wal mart kid's isle.
Be Creative
I mean, try. Show some initiative. Show some form of original thought. For example, I like to wear white on white. Especially white chinos with a white polo. It's clean, it's not too far out there but it's not something you see everyday from everyone. It's just different enough to show I'm trying but not too far out there to say I'm trying too hard. Throw that on with a brown watch and I'm clean as hell.
A girl would rather date a cheap stylish guy than an expensive guy with no taste
Right now I'm wearing an off brand bright orange polo shirt with some brown khakis and some brown spurrys with a brown belt and a brown watch. outside the watch, this entire outfit cost about $15 dollars, I even got the spurrys at the goodwill store. And i'm the cleanest dude here.
It doesn't matter if you are wearing polo, Banana Republic, if you don't know how to wear it. Being able to to dress doesn't mean spending thousands of dollars on clothes necessary.
Invest in a kick ass iron and learn how to shop at thrift stores.
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