its not hard at all..

[Jair213]

Stick with woman that think you are attractive, that are interested in you, that are into you, and you save yourself a bunch of bs. Be a smooth dj, fvck her good, have fun. You'll save yourselves a bunch off bs trust me. This is such a powerful position to be in if you apply the dj philosophy accordingly.

When I tend to be with a chick that I don't find that attractive itreat her not so good I flake etc. Same go's for girls that feel like that towards you, they will do the same. This is so easy to understand and yet you still have all this cornballs still asking why she's flaking, specially in the early stages.

It doesn't matter if she thinks your not good enough, if your not cute enough, or if you qualify or disqualify in other areas. It doesn't mean nothing. Most of them are clueless. Put it like this ....you have 2 guys that have the same job and make the same salary one is really good looking and one is average. She disqualified the average dude. But she kept dating the good lookin dude.. he's looks helpe him out. Eventhough both have decent dj game.

All I'm saying is learn to identify low il and high il. Chicks that are in too you will throw her s elf at you, and I barely think of even applying all the dj stuff that its so freaken easy. You'll even get away with being a little AFC'ish don't get carried away though. I think a huge problem with us is trying to date a bunch of the wrong woman.

 

[floydb25]

Yea... but, like I always say, people may have personal issues, are into the "challenge", secretely enjoy difficult women, and so forth. Not always so clean-cut.

As well, some women know how to tease and manipulate, they change their minds, lose attraction, and try to keep people around as options, etc.

Definitely gotta be careful out there, and make sure you're not desperate, needy, co-dependant, or suffer from low SE. Only bad things will happen.

One thing you realize as you get some experience in the world is that not everybody is going to like you - and that's ok. This doesn't make them "better" than you (even if they believe otherwise), and you don't need their approval. Nor do you have to put up with their ****, and believe their lies. They don't speak for everyone, you don't need them, and they aren't the royal judge of ****. Do NOT pine after them, try to win them over, and allow them to belittle you. They will NOT respect you for it. Definitely work out any personal issues that may be causing such behavior.

 

[Stagger Lee]

Yes but basically and for the most part that's saying date within your league. If a good number of girls that you find attractive are into you, then yeah it's not hard at all.

Where the problem comes in is when few are no girls are into you, or only uglies and fatties are into you.

The problem is women are dating up and men are dating down. You have to be a male 5-6 to get female 1-4s that you wouldn't really want, or to even be in the game at all. You have to be about a male 7 to get female 5-6s and girls that are decently attractive. The male 8+ have it good because the hot females 7-9 can't get any higher. You're a "hot" guy once you're about an 8, and attractive girls make it easy.

So there's the solution. Be a very good looking guy and attractive girls will be interested in you. See, it's not hard.

 

[floydb25]

^ Ah yes, good point... I think some of us forget that not everyone is on the same wavelength, or deal with the same struggles. But honestly, it's hard to fight an uphill battle - regardless of the circumstance.

But, just to clarify, hot girls (and even not-so hot ones) have high standards BEYOND just great looks. I've had girls say this and that; head over heels infatuation; etc. But because I was too "shy and gentle", "not exciting enough", didn't make enough money, wasn't a high class alpha prize to show off (as they initially thought) - they didn't want a relationship, only wanted to be "friends" (with benefits, which they denied / lied about / acted oblivious to), etc. Real ****; straight from their mouth.

Seeking their approval and trying to win them over was the WORST thing I ever did... especially since they knew I was doing it, and just used it against me. Highly unrecommended. Lotta those hot girls are big time players, and know how the game works... even if they act oblivious and innocent. ****, for some, it's all part of their manipulation.

 

[BeDJ]

One more thing, examine your past success with women. I only have one style of dating and those that had high interest in me was attracted to my style. Not all women are going to like that style and the worst thing to do is change it up according to different women. It takes too much time and effort, in the end you won't know what's wrong or right using different combinations to attract women.

The most successful dating pool for me is 20-23 year olds who are naive and enjoy risk. I have terrible luck with women over 25 who are pursuing their 'careers.'

 

[Jair213]

Ok guys I understand were yall coming from. But i dont know were the heck yall be finding girls that are so picky or high standar'ish, with such high expectations.

I am latino(mexican) so maybe latino woman are less picky? I've met a couple of girls that come from good old tradition mexican families but most of them are taken, never really dealt with white girls or any other race. I notice that most of this girls that come from good quality families are taken at a young age.

My parents keep telling me if I want to get a good woman to go meet woman at there village in mexico and marry one but I dont want to do that wtf LOL and i must say there's some gorgeous woman out there.

I know it varies on the girl too watt she wants in a guy. Everyone is picky. I think we just have to meet someone that meet our standards and demands as well as us meeting there's, sadly but true.

Let's say a guy like my self that's 26, no college education(about to start college though) on unemployment living with parents with no car(in the process of buying one) .. now lets say I meet a chick that has her life together finished college(she's maybe around 22) at first she might be infatuated of watt she see's, she's finds me atracted, but in conversation once she know's all of this you think she's not going to loose attraction? That is always the case with me I know we don't go to school or be succesful for chicks but it plays a roll in the game of attraction, and once you meet a well balance girl thats not so picky and have your life together(not like my looser aaasss lol) you will pop off those panties brahhss.. but once you get you stuff together you should be picky too. I my self find woman that have an education more atractive than a girl that doesn't even if the one that doesnt have an education might slightly more atractive than the college educated one.

The hardest lesson I've learned is to improve your life. Hit the gym, go to college, get a good paying job, be stable, get your sh'iit together and girls will start finding you more attractive. Even though you don't do all of this for the opposite sex it does make you more attractive and if girls are already liking watt they see then you'll enhance that attraction.

 

[Jair213]

The most successful dating pool for me is 20-23 year olds who are naive and enjoy risk. I have terrible luck with women over 25 who are pursuing their 'careers.'

Woman that are out there pursuing there careers is an alpha goal, just like alpha men that are trying to pursue there dreams. And watt do this alpha men do? They spin plates, they tend to be more picky also, they have options, they take there pick of the flock, just like most of this woman doing the same thing. I believe that there are so called ''alpha woman'' well some are and some are just plain crazy or bpd's... or like i said she might be the stable alpha woman just living life spinning plates like the other alpha men do pursuing there dreams. Maybe thats why you experience less luck with such woman around those ages?

 

[floydb25]

Jair: Ha Ha... People ask me a lot where I'm meeting these women; what my type is; etc. Basically, the hot-gorgeous skanky broken down damsel with issues out the ass. Most of them were blondie ho's... very aggressive and forward. I used to attract them like nothing else, 'cause I was a shallow, conceited, stuck up, arrogant, flamboyaunt ******* with a lot of issues, as well. Since they're shallow as ****, they flocked to the pretty / bad boys... Didn't really have to do ****, other than look good and appear "cool". And I loved trying to save broken, dysfunctional, crazy people. And they did, too.

What I wasn't prepared for was the toxic nature of these skanks. I figured, yea, I'm attracting them; it's all good. Bzzzzt... wrong. Bishes were ****ing NUTS. Very shallow, high maintenance, slutty, and insane. But I loved the insanity, drama, confusion, and chaos all the same.

So, yea... that's how. Bunch of crazy *******s attracting each other. :trouble:

 

[BeDJ]

Woman that are out there pursuing there careers is an alpha goal, just like alpha men that are trying to pursue there dreams. And watt do this alpha men do? They spin plates, they tend to be more picky also, they have options, they take there pick of the flock, just like most of this woman doing the same thing. I believe that there are so called ''alpha woman'' well some are and some are just plain crazy or bpd's... or like i said she might be the stable alpha woman just living life spinning plates like the other alpha men do pursuing there dreams. Maybe thats why you experience less luck with such woman around those ages?

There is nothing sexy about a woman who is spending her last quarters on the carousel ride, desperately seeking commitment. Getting sex from them is like the last crusade to Mordor while they are in pursuit of the ring. They are done playing games and being sexual with them is like talking to my grandpa in a coma. You need the Jaws of Life (TM) to get to that bronze pvssy without considering commitment.

I'm probably still a kid at heart and would take perky t!ts over an office chair molded ass. When they get offended, they make a comeback, sometimes it's so idiotic it'd make a 2nd grader cringe. Young chicks are so fun because they are very naive.

Their thought process

I can't believe he can make my favorite drink - this is the best Sprite and Vodka I've had. What's a Granedine? So cool he lives right next to the bar, I won't be making any bad decisions - like driving drunk! His room mates are never around and he knows so many drinking games. He even has extra contact cases for my fake lenses. He even knows how to make French toast, crepes, souffles and quiche.

So cute. So gullible. So fvcked.

So yeah, it's not hard at all....thats what she said