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It's not all about being a jerk

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Alright Regor here to tell you about how it's done dogs. Okay i'm not much of a jerk or butt hole actually i am nice. i am real nice to everyone even girls. bein known as a jerk sucks cus like no one wants to hang out with a jerk. that is why you have to switch the style up and you'll watch the money pile up.

when i am at school or whatever i try to say wazup to everybody pretty much. make sure you are like easy to talk to. eventually everyone is gonna start sayin wazup to you cus they no you are the cool nice guy that can cheer them up and stuff. always be social and stuff never be like "pch whatever" not even to the annoying embarassing kid that stinks or whatever. you be nice to everybody and social and stuff. chicks will dig this.

now to the girls. flirt with every single girl you see. i flirt a hella lot dog and people are always like "you flirt too much regor" and i'm like "no dog just bein friendly" or somethin. it's cool like that cus it give challenge to all girls and keeps your options open and stuff. when you flirt with chicks don't do it nice like complement and stuff. be sexest and funny about it. it's all good if you have a reputation for bein nice and cool they will think it's funny or what not. like joke around and stuff. and of coure never overloook kino. kino is serious! ^_^

if you are got a girl that you like alot make sure you make good friends with her friends. i mean real good friends like try to become real tight. this way they will encourage the chick you like to go out with you. this is really important i think. never overlook this.

now the tough part: picking your girl. this one is a must like for bein nice. date a nice girl with confidence. these girls are often more of a challenge maybe but for a super vain guy with a good attitude it should be easy. the reason i say you need a nice girl with confidence is because when you break up with her she aint gonna hate on you and she won't get her friends to hate on you. i know some hot girls that are real b*tches which i would wanna go out with just to get some but you gotta restrain yourself. the key to my guide is bein nice and stayin nice and keepin a good reputation. personally i love bein nice and i love the fact that i can be nice and get girls. PERIOD IT.

another thing is gettin a reputation as good at lovin. if you a good lover girls will flock. this is pretty simple there are already lots of good things on these forums discussing how to be a good luvah.

okie thank you hope this helps some. peace out o^_^o
 

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errr, I guess. Its been said before, and -no offence- it's been said better. I dunno quite what your trying to say- but being nice to girls entirely sucks. But yeah, I get you if your saying be friendly to everyone, that's good.

And plus, flirt with every girl you see? I dunno man, flirting with fat *****es aint on my "things to do" list. I dunno man, there's something that I find kinda wrong about your post and its like it's staring me in the face but i cant put my finger on it. Maybe its just the way you wrote it. But there are a bunch of things that are wrong- why become friends with their friends? It cuts off your options when you break up! And the bits that are right are sooooo basic its kinda not advice anymore on this board.

Sorry bro, how long have you been looking at this stuff? Or are you just basing it on the fact that you get lots...I dunno, I just get the impression that you think you do (or you do) from what you wrote...
 

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i just rediscovered this site like a week ago =/ but anyway this site got me started when i was like 12. i'm 16 now so it isn't like i'm much older shrug
 

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But yeah, I didn't realies you were such a newbie- thanks for sparing us the "I like her, and she winked at me what should I do?!?!?!" Bull**** and giving us all a far more intellegent post to go on:)
 

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cloud: lol hmm...well i don't really flirt with fat chicks...i just am nice to them shrug. and like i talk to them alot and stuff i guess...helps me look nicer or something.

what are you trying to say with your last post :confused:

edit: i don't see what's wrong with makin friends her friends. i don't think it cuts you off at all. you can still hook up with them kinda. i'm not sayin become their best friend or whatever but just make sure your on good terms with their friends. if your on bad terms well, it won't work out as well.

editedit: okay well don't get bein nice mistaken for bein a phag who gets walked all over. but for example if a girl would come up to me i'd start off with bein real friendly like "yooo (insert name of girl) whats up baby" and then she like "heehee nothin much" then pick up convo and of course throw in the occasional cracks or somethin but then be like "just kiddin" and such.
 

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yeah thats kwl, listen man there's a lot of newbie's that come arround at the mo with the most dumb ass AFC posts ever or giving worthless advice. I just wanted to make sure your coming from a good place:) And it seems you are! DJing since you were 12? Thats a long time!

I'm with ya now, just making sure:) Wouldn't want someone telling all the impresionable youngsters to mack with fat chicks now would we!
 

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lol yeah, i guess it's alot harder to explain DJing in words than it is livin it or something. anyway i hope it's clear now

thanks cloud, btw, how are the UK chicks bro? ^_^ that's serious that people from different countrys go here =)
 

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lol, they all drink lots of tea and speak funny;)
 

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oh let the man post, he'd sound odd where I am, and I'd sound odd where he is. Just learn to live with it.
 

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Originally posted by Hugh G. Rection
I can do that too, but without saying 'dog' every 2 seconds.
Don't diss.

When Regor says "be nice to girls" he means just that. People on this board seem to have a completely different definition of the word "nice." He's not saying to run their errands and kiss their ass, he just means be friendly. Newbies seem to get the idea that to be a DJ you have to be some arrogant assho|e with an "I don't give a fuk about anything" attitude.

Nice post regor
 

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hehe, we need a thread that talks about our jerk experiences. i got a lot ;) :( :p :eek: :D :cool:
 

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lol, same here. I've been so repulsed by what i was like as an AFC I've totally gone the other way into pretty much a Jerk. Heh heh:rolleyes: , begining to calm down now tho, still- anything's better than being an AFC. I just come out with such jerk-ish things! "I want to celebrate, but I'm far to tired to pick up girls- plus I look like ****. **** it I'll just un-dump my girlfriend."---yes....bright thinking dumbass. Thankfully I maintained my integrity (all the jerks hugging you and doing gay pats on the back is a sure sign you've done something wrong.)
 

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i flirt a hella lot dog and people are always like "you flirt too much regor" and i'm like "no dog just bein friendly" or somethin.

^^hahahahhahahahahhaha thats true just funny how you did it
 
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