Mr.Positive
Master Don Juan
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Hey everyone! I haven't posted much, but have done my share of learning from this site...and I need to vent.
I've been dating this one gal for about a month or so, nothing serious, and we went out last night. Well, we hit a pub, had a couple of drinks and ended up eating a late meal at a chinese place. During the date, she answered her phone in the car, checked her phone messages in the pub, and get this...during the meal, she actually opened up a magazine and started reading it. Are you laughing yet?
Man, what a bad date! I actually got a couple of sympathetic looks from a couple of guys sitting next to me. It was pretty embarrassing. I really was at a loss for words at the time and didn't know what to say. I was pissed and ate quick and took her home. Well, she told me she would call tomorrow because she wants to go running together. As you can imagine, I'm not too thrilled, but am unsure whether to even bother to pick up the phone to tell her so. Any thoughts? I'm trying to not even care at this point.
So...on a postive note, I came to a realization a few minutes ago. It's all about respect. Not just women, but anyone you choose to spend time with. If I'm with a good buddy, family, whatever, I'd never read a magazine during a meal. Our time is valuable, and there is a lot of people we should be spending time with, and there is cute women everywhere. I can think of a long list of people that I wish I had more time to see. If anyone disrespects you, don't put up with it, and they do not deserve your time.
Man..I wish I could have come up with a "suave" response to the girl last night..
I've been dating this one gal for about a month or so, nothing serious, and we went out last night. Well, we hit a pub, had a couple of drinks and ended up eating a late meal at a chinese place. During the date, she answered her phone in the car, checked her phone messages in the pub, and get this...during the meal, she actually opened up a magazine and started reading it. Are you laughing yet?
Man, what a bad date! I actually got a couple of sympathetic looks from a couple of guys sitting next to me. It was pretty embarrassing. I really was at a loss for words at the time and didn't know what to say. I was pissed and ate quick and took her home. Well, she told me she would call tomorrow because she wants to go running together. As you can imagine, I'm not too thrilled, but am unsure whether to even bother to pick up the phone to tell her so. Any thoughts? I'm trying to not even care at this point.
So...on a postive note, I came to a realization a few minutes ago. It's all about respect. Not just women, but anyone you choose to spend time with. If I'm with a good buddy, family, whatever, I'd never read a magazine during a meal. Our time is valuable, and there is a lot of people we should be spending time with, and there is cute women everywhere. I can think of a long list of people that I wish I had more time to see. If anyone disrespects you, don't put up with it, and they do not deserve your time.
Man..I wish I could have come up with a "suave" response to the girl last night..