it's all about mindset

Packers2010

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ok guys. i am by no means a guy who gets a lot of girls. far from it. but you can't go on complaining about it you have to do something about it. it's not because of factor " X" you don't have money. it's all about mind set. it's all about the reasoning behind what you are doing.

i used to have HUGE AA. i mean i couldn't even talk to a girl. now i can. not saying i am going to get anyway with her. but it's a step. this process takes time.

right now i am in the process of moving to wales. at times i have found myself just using this as an excuse for not going out. it's not. NOTHING should be an excuse for getting what you want!

i know what it's like. you see a girl and you want to move. but you just freeze. you don't move. then the opportunity is gone and you thought what might have been. you go for it and you go for it NOW!

it took me a hole lot of *****ing on a crappy internet forum ( not this one) a huge amount of alcohol and messaging my ex. to see this. don't do what i have done and F everything thing up. my social circle is SHOT THREW because i always try and hit on them and it pisses them off / grosses them out. when i could have become good friends with them and used them as pivots. think about it. what girls in a club respond to more. a guy out with 5 other chodey guys doing nothing. or a guy having a fun good time with like 2 other girls?

witch guy do you want to be. the first thing you do is read up on this stuff so it gives you a footing. then after that. JUST GO OUT! that's how easy it is.

i went out with a guy the other week who was into pick up. so we hit the bar and after awhile i make my way to the pool tables. i love pool. i have to say i am pretty good. so anyway. i get a few games going and talk to the girls. now towards the end of the night my friend scoops in and takes the 2 girls like 5 diffident girls have been talking to that night. just in the small pool table area. am i pissed HELL NO. cos i know that man has game and i don't

you shouldn't hate guys who have more game then you. it was a defining night for me. i thought i had some game. turns out i got NONE. witch really made me rethink everything i have been doing. i am moving away from everything i have known so i can become a better person. so i can grow and loose these shackles that are keeping me down. cos i know when i get to wales i will be in a small village. so when i get the change to go out. I AM GOING TO HAVE TO TAKE IT!

so just think about it. go out and see things. i have been going out for a little while now. maybe like 4 months. i have seen a lot. i can tell you what i have seen. but it's WAY better for you to see it for yourself. if i told you London was burning. would you believe me? or would you have to see it for yourself.
 

zekko

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Packers2010 said:
i get a few games going and talk to the girls. now towards the end of the night my friend scoops in and takes the 2 girls like 5 diffident girls have been talking to that night. just in the small pool table area. am i pissed HELL NO. cos i know that man has game and i don't
4-0, buddy!

That guy's a lousy wing. If I went out with a buddy and he picked up two women, I would expect he would at least try to shoot me one of them. What a greedy fvck.

Sorry you're not getting the results you're looking for, but keep trying and concentrating on having fun and you'll get it eventually.
 
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