It feels so good to set a little CVNT straight!!!

[AFC Savior]

Read bottom up, its only 1 message from me to her, and then her reply to me.

this is a girl that i was trying to meet up with from myspace whenever I had 5 minutes, I would call her, say hi, and see if she wanted to hang out - she always said yes, and then always flaked......happened 4 times in 2 weeks, no biggie for me, but at this point, i dont appreciate that behavior from her......so I noticed that she looks only decent in her normal pics, and looks hot in her "model" pics, so i wrote her a very mean but truthful message.......she replied, and blocked me - its nice that i hurt this cvnt's feelings, I like changing the world 1 person at a time!



HER

wow your a **** never talk to me again I never ditched you wow you can be so mean **** you

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: ME
Date: Jan 10, 2008 8:10 PM


why do u wanna be a model so badly??

in your non model pics, i just noticed, you look pretty damn average/bordering on ugly

why would u try to be a model? to hide your insecurities JUST so you can say "heyyy look at me!!!! im ugly in real life, BUT I MODEL, SO IM DA ****!"

thanks for never hanging out with me, you saved me the awkwardness of having to ditch u the second that i saw u

eww

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Sounds eerily familiar....

The Breakup: A Portrait of Dignity

 

[AFC Savior]

your stupid

tell me how

instead of telling me like a chump "your stupid", why dont u tell me HOW what i did was stupid? I spent a couple of minutes typing that, so dont tell me that im an AFC wasting my time on some b1tch, cuz I already got pvssy, I just want more and more and more, ALWAYS want more, i just happened to come across this bs here

 

[Quick]

I'm sorry, but you didn't change anything at all. You might have made yourself feel better (i doubt it), but she is exactly the same now as she was before you sent the message. Except now she feels justified in never meeting up with you because you've shown yourself to be a "jerk".

If you really wanted to get back at her/make her think, you would have just stopped talking to her. When she eventually wrote you to ask why, you could have sent a message like... "My time is too valuable to waste it like this. Good luck to you." Then you should have never talked to her again.

The other advantage to this is that you really don't waste your time and energy. Instead of getting mad at her, you should have taken a lesson that you didn't do enough to build her interest in you before you tried to get her to meet up. Flaking is an indication of low levels of interest. Either you tried to move too quickly, or you were a bad judge of her interest levels.

Admittedly, it's much harder to build or judge interest over the internet, but the flipside is that you can talk too many more girls at a time. The second that she flaked on you the first time, you should have deleted her and went to the next girl on the list. She should have only gotten a second chance if she was apologetic and asked you out. There's no way she should have gotten a 3rd or 4th opportunity.

Anger is a wasted emotion. Instead you should focus on what you did wrong so you don't make the same mistake again. Your goal is only to be more successful at picking up girls, not to hurt their feelings.

 

[AFC Savior]

I'm sorry, but you didn't change anything at all. You might have made yourself feel better (i doubt it), but she is exactly the same now as she was before you sent the message. Except now she feels justified in never meeting up with you because you've shown yourself to be a "jerk".

If you really wanted to get back at her/make her think, you would have just stopped talking to her. When she eventually wrote you to ask why, you could have sent a message like... "My time is too valuable to waste it like this. Good luck to you." Then you should have never talked to her again.

The other advantage to this is that you really don't waste your time and energy. Instead of getting mad at her, you should have taken a lesson that you didn't do enough to build her interest in you before you tried to get her to meet up. Flaking is an indication of low levels of interest. Either you tried to move too quickly, or you were a bad judge of her interest levels.

Admittedly, it's much harder to build or judge interest over the internet, but the flipside is that you can talk too many more girls at a time. The second that she flaked on you the first time, you should have deleted her and went to the next girl on the list. She should have only gotten a second chance if she was apologetic and asked you out. There's no way she should have gotten a 3rd or 4th opportunity.

Anger is a wasted emotion. Instead you should focus on what you did wrong so you don't make the same mistake again. Your goal is only to be more successful at picking up girls, not to hurt their feelings.

you are right, i just had a free minute and wanted to tell her off and make her realize that her behavior is ****ed up - changing one life at a time like i said lol

 

[KontrollerX]

Quick said it all perfectly.

 

[DJDamage]

she always said yes, and then always flaked......happened 4 times in 2 weeks, no biggie for me, but at this point, i dont appreciate that behavior from her......

I agree with Quick.

If a girl flakes on you even once and you come back for more then you got what you deserve. Someone once said: "Insanity is doing the exact same thing over and over again and expecting a different result".

You were insane.

 

[nando]

I laughed at what you said!

 

[HandyAndy]

your stupid

I agree, you are stupid for going off on her like that. You should have just nexted her, not talked to her anymore, instead of bashing on her like that and hurting her feelings. :nono:

 

[nando]

come on guys, she stood him up 4 times! I mean she should have at least had the decency to tell him she is not interested, or even lie about hwy she can't make it.

 

[DJVladdy]

hes not stupid, hes Russian, we're hot headed like that and it's a normal response

 

[HandyAndy]

come on guys, she stood him up 4 times! I mean she should have at least had the decency to tell him she is not interested, or even lie about hwy she can't make it.

he doenst have to cry about it

 

[My Name is Nobody]

Sounds eerily familiar....

The Breakup: A Portrait of Dignity

LOL!

Read bottom up, its only 1 message from me to her, and then her reply to me.

this is a girl that i was trying to meet up with from myspace whenever I had 5 minutes, I would call her, say hi, and see if she wanted to hang out - she always said yes, and then always flaked......happened 4 times in 2 weeks, no biggie for me, but at this point, i dont appreciate that behavior from her......so I noticed that she looks only decent in her normal pics, and looks hot in her "model" pics, so i wrote her a very mean but truthful message.......she replied, and blocked me - its nice that i hurt this cvnt's feelings, I like changing the world 1 person at a time!



HER

wow your a **** never talk to me again I never ditched you wow you can be so mean **** you

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: ME
Date: Jan 10, 2008 8:10 PM


why do u wanna be a model so badly??

in your non model pics, i just noticed, you look pretty damn average/bordering on ugly

why would u try to be a model? to hide your insecurities JUST so you can say "heyyy look at me!!!! im ugly in real life, BUT I MODEL, SO IM DA ****!"

thanks for never hanging out with me, you saved me the awkwardness of having to ditch u the second that i saw u

eww

A DJ would never have sent that message insulting her. You are AFC. I was recently dissed in the WORSE way I have ever been dissed in my life and I still didn't send her an insulting message.

Well I did send her a message that said I would let her make it up to me in the future but that is just to plant the seed in her mind I'll still bang her but I don't think that was a bad message.

Then I never contacted her again and I'm pretty sure it's bothering her.

You think that girl cares what you said? She's already forgotten about you and whatever you made her feel some some guy is licking her pu$$y right now making her feel better.

Skip I thought you were better than this you've been around here too long for that nonsense.

 

[My Name is Nobody]

come on guys, she stood him up 4 times! I mean she should have at least had the decency to tell him she is not interested, or even lie about hwy she can't make it.

Why the hell did you give her the opportunity to stand you up 4 times?

 

[DJVladdy]

The hoe was dumb enough to get the pissed Russian out of skip, sucks for her.

 

[My Name is Nobody]

The hoe was dumb enough to get the pissed Russian out of skip, sucks for her.

He should have gone with the "I'll let you make it up to me" approach would have been better.

I thought the cardinal DJ rule is "NEVER LET THEM SEE YOU SWEAT"

 

[PrinceBeavis]

I'm 100% Russian. I KNOW about the Russian temper. I've been a master at it.


Russian or no Russian, a man controls his emotions.

 

[My Name is Nobody]

Using your nationality as an excuse to be AFC.. lol I thought I've heard it all.

 

[nando]

Using your nationality as an excuse to be AFC.. lol I thought I've heard it all.

LOL!

 

[My Name is Nobody]

why do u wanna be a model so badly??

in your non model pics, i just noticed, you look pretty damn average/bordering on ugly

why would u try to be a model? to hide your insecurities JUST so you can say "heyyy look at me!!!! im ugly in real life, BUT I MODEL, SO IM DA ****!"

thanks for never hanging out with me, you saved me the awkwardness of having to ditch u the second that i saw u

eww

Man that's just terrible.

How about this

"Hey I don't appreciate your actions it shows you have no respect for me. Leave me alone unless you are ready to make it up to me."

Something like that. Someone else wrote that on the board the other day I just remembered it.

At least it leaves the door open for a booty call some day and you don't come across so bitter.