So I did the 60 days no contact. My GF at the time and I had been fighting a lot, not seeing eye to eye... Anyways after those 60 days she sends me a text telling me sorry for what she has done etc. How she loves me and if I ever put down my pride, to call her that she would marry me etc. I meet up with her for a drink just to see her and see how she is doing...
I dont want her back but will always love her, no matter what I think about her a lot but know she makes me absolutely miserable and cant give me what I want... This is crazy!
So I have a few drinks and this girl is real difficult as in she is not a slut, barely has slept with guys.
I ask her if shes been with anyone, FULLY expecting a NO... She paused and I prowed it out of her. She said yes. I was shocked my heart dropped. She said she did it to get over me and to fill the whole blah blah... She would never talk to him again... Anyways...
I am pretty sure today I am going to tell her that just isnt the one for me and unable to make me happy. That even if I wanted to I really cant see past another D*** in her... I have been with maybe 5 women since our split but of course I said no.
She wants to work it out, but we have gone down this path before and it is just unhealthy... I love the girl... But I need to contact for a year or something. I was so hurt by hearing she was with someone else, and bothered for a few days, but now I am doing ok and realizing that this is LIFE and it moves on.
Any other way to help me through all this and what should I do?
Thanks!
I dont want her back but will always love her, no matter what I think about her a lot but know she makes me absolutely miserable and cant give me what I want... This is crazy!
So I have a few drinks and this girl is real difficult as in she is not a slut, barely has slept with guys.
I ask her if shes been with anyone, FULLY expecting a NO... She paused and I prowed it out of her. She said yes. I was shocked my heart dropped. She said she did it to get over me and to fill the whole blah blah... She would never talk to him again... Anyways...
I am pretty sure today I am going to tell her that just isnt the one for me and unable to make me happy. That even if I wanted to I really cant see past another D*** in her... I have been with maybe 5 women since our split but of course I said no.
She wants to work it out, but we have gone down this path before and it is just unhealthy... I love the girl... But I need to contact for a year or something. I was so hurt by hearing she was with someone else, and bothered for a few days, but now I am doing ok and realizing that this is LIFE and it moves on.
Any other way to help me through all this and what should I do?
Thanks!
