LouieVaton Don
Senior Don Juan
I dont know if anyone will remember my last post "My Frustration Is Beginning To Mount" but heres the basic breakdown.(note- im leaving alot out) My brother meets this chick and her friend about 4 weeks ago. They came over to chill, so I start DJing her friend, long story short I got her interest, clearly. The next night they come over very late and the chick spends the night in my bed. I got no puss, no nothing. She came though, I gave her a massage which led in to me molesting her magic box........
So since then she would come over everyday, call me like 2-3 times a day. Everytime she came over I would try to coerce her into sex but no cigar. She'd say I dont rush into things, blah, blah yeah whatever. So one day she comes over and im touching her like always and she takes my hand away. Another point during the day I try to kiss her, rejected. At this point I make it clear that she is wasting my time and I dont want to see her anymore. C'mon why would she be letting me even do all these things to her if she wasnt interested right?
This made her even more interested, because i told her not to call me, not to come over anymore and she fratically tried to get in contact with me. She still came over and then she confessed that she liked me and that she didnt realize how much she was into me. The takeaway was a success. It didnt get me where I wanted, yet.
Now im thinking its in the bag, but it wasnt. I had gotten it to make out level, but it fizzled and I take most of the blame for this. I did all the things that you shouldn't do, I brought up relationship talk 1st. (damn) I started to act indifferent towards getting her in my bed as opposed to being aggressive like I was in week 1,2. Now im feeling like I should've kept it up because between the middle of week 3 on things changed. I took her on a ride to my cuzez hood, a long boring ride. We didnt talk or anything and I could tell that it really would affect things. We also got lost for a moment because I had never driven out there before. It was just kinda akward. Then I took her to the movies and she kept on asking me to buy her things. Of course I said no but I wasnt feeling that. She doesnt call as often but still does daily once, and I dont see her like that anymore as opposed to seeing her 14 days in a fu***ng row. I messed up in alot of areas. I seen her on friday in the morning and we had made plans to hang but she flaked.
Anyway Yesterday I called her and told her in not so many words, that I was thinking about cutting her off again and for good, I mean I think Im coming off cool but the exchange came off kind of rude. I get at call at my job from her today and she asks me questions that I dodge and I tell her to come over tommorrow.
So finally I ask you guys this question If/When she comes over tommorrow would it be possible to pull a F*** Close. I mean ive invested enough time and attention already. Theres been a little drama here and there but I know her interest level dropped, its that noticiable. I dont know whether to be smooth and cool, or aggressive and impuding. Whatever the outcome this ones most likely going to wind up in a NEXT.
So since then she would come over everyday, call me like 2-3 times a day. Everytime she came over I would try to coerce her into sex but no cigar. She'd say I dont rush into things, blah, blah yeah whatever. So one day she comes over and im touching her like always and she takes my hand away. Another point during the day I try to kiss her, rejected. At this point I make it clear that she is wasting my time and I dont want to see her anymore. C'mon why would she be letting me even do all these things to her if she wasnt interested right?
This made her even more interested, because i told her not to call me, not to come over anymore and she fratically tried to get in contact with me. She still came over and then she confessed that she liked me and that she didnt realize how much she was into me. The takeaway was a success. It didnt get me where I wanted, yet.
Now im thinking its in the bag, but it wasnt. I had gotten it to make out level, but it fizzled and I take most of the blame for this. I did all the things that you shouldn't do, I brought up relationship talk 1st. (damn) I started to act indifferent towards getting her in my bed as opposed to being aggressive like I was in week 1,2. Now im feeling like I should've kept it up because between the middle of week 3 on things changed. I took her on a ride to my cuzez hood, a long boring ride. We didnt talk or anything and I could tell that it really would affect things. We also got lost for a moment because I had never driven out there before. It was just kinda akward. Then I took her to the movies and she kept on asking me to buy her things. Of course I said no but I wasnt feeling that. She doesnt call as often but still does daily once, and I dont see her like that anymore as opposed to seeing her 14 days in a fu***ng row. I messed up in alot of areas. I seen her on friday in the morning and we had made plans to hang but she flaked.
Anyway Yesterday I called her and told her in not so many words, that I was thinking about cutting her off again and for good, I mean I think Im coming off cool but the exchange came off kind of rude. I get at call at my job from her today and she asks me questions that I dodge and I tell her to come over tommorrow.
So finally I ask you guys this question If/When she comes over tommorrow would it be possible to pull a F*** Close. I mean ive invested enough time and attention already. Theres been a little drama here and there but I know her interest level dropped, its that noticiable. I dont know whether to be smooth and cool, or aggressive and impuding. Whatever the outcome this ones most likely going to wind up in a NEXT.