Is this Stalker status, or is it slick?

[Insouciant]

A girl I'm talking to mentioned where she'll be with her girlfriends next weekend.

I've had chance encounters with her twice in as many weeks.

Wondering if it's a bit creepy if I show up there with my boys as well. Advice?

 

[Greasy Pig]

I'd tell her where you'll be and that she's welcome to show up.
Going to where she's hanging out would appear needy in my opinion.

 

[DJDamage]

Its a stalker if you say to her "hey I remember you told me you'd be here so I decided to show up"

Its slick if you just bump into her and act surprise and pretend you didn't know she was going to be there.

 

[Bossman90]

Very creepy. If you are going to do something like that, mention to her when she says stuff like that that "oh, me and my friends had xyz to do at place ABC".

 

[MrNiceGuy23]

Considering it's only a week away, I'd say it's creepy unless you bring it up to her first.

Why not just say something like "Oh me and my boys are going out next weekend too, we should meet up at place XYZ."

Then you don't seem like a creeper.